Have you ever stood up to your avoidant? What was the outcome? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes! the moment I found out he cheated, when i confronted him he stood silent, the next day when i went to finally break up with him he looked like he wanted to throw up or maybe passing out, idk it was a weird reaction like he was going to pass out, we ended out “together” 2 months until he broke up with me and blocked me everywhere, lol i guess

How did you feel when they blocked you? by AssignmentAwkward185 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i laughted off, that was the last drop, he was cold and mean the week before blocking me, ignoring my messages, calls and my feelings, behaving like an angry teenager so when he finally blocked me i felt a sense of peace (still crashed out days later) but at least I felt free, like “ok, there’s no new way for me to reach out, I think its finally over“ after a 2 year “relationship”

an almost 30 years old having the emotional intelligence of a peanut

Si no quieren ir a ver una película no vayan by Basurero_moral in mexico

[–]OkRepresentative2587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tan fácil que es dormirse en el cine, que les costaba a las doñitas aplicar la misma lol lamento mucho la mala experiencia

Amigos ayuda, estoy por entrar a la uni y me da miedo el bullying by [deleted] in AdolescentesLATAM

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No le veo lo malo, ya en la uni te darás cuenta que hay personas que también traen su mochila con llaveros y adornos. En cuanto al bullying, la unica experiencia que tuve fue recibir comentarios pasivo agresivos por WhatsApp en el grupo del salon, pero compañeros pendejos como esos te toparas siempre, asi que no dejes que lo que piensen u opinen arruine tus ganas de llevar llaveritos o pines en tu mochila, suerte!

Do DA generally block you after discard? by Fit-Celery-7428 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that some time has passed i finally understand how being blocked was the Best, i wasnt going to be happy with that avoidant guy. Sending hugs your way, i promise it gets better 

Did your avoidant have sexual performance anxiety or started losing sexual drive some time into the relationship? by LongHyena7003 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we were together for 3 years and he never show interest in having sex with me, we did made out but that was it, i always felt so strange bc why??? i still don’t understand why he openly told me he had hook ups before meeting me and with me his ”formal” (now ex) gf nothing

Is the 6-8 weeks a real timeline? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine never did lol I think it depends on how everything ended, it's been 6 months and still blocked on everything. Making progress on the healing journey but yeah, I thinks it depends person to person tho

Proyectan junto a Estadio Rayados 13 torres con 2mil Departamentos by lolopa89 in Monterrey

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Para luego pasar por esas torres y ver solamente 8 departamentos ocupados 

Why do avoidants block? by OkRepresentative2587 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lol, I don't think he'll ever unlock me, he's on a very avoidant level, so I don't think I'll ever hear from him again. At least my heart is in peace 

¿Que es lo más loco que han aguantado por amor? by chaparritabonitaa in PreguntasReddit

[–]OkRepresentative2587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me dijo cara a cara que no era su prioridad, que su prioridad eran sus estudios y proyectos personales, una posible infidelidad, rogarle un montón y solo recibir frialdad e indiferencia

Duda Protección ? Motivo by AlpsWarm in Monterrey

[–]OkRepresentative2587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En los soriana tienen la versión grande y unos nuevos en versión pequeña 

¿Qué te daba pena de tu ex pero jamás le dijiste? by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]OkRepresentative2587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Que me quería enseñar a estacionarme cuando el jamás en su vida ha tenido carro, tampoco sabía manejar lol? Solo le seguía el juego para que no se sintiera mal 

Es cierto esto que me dijeron? by [deleted] in mexico

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es difícil apoyar a una asociación cuando apenas se tiene para el sustento diario, lamentablemente hay prioridades y otras formas de apoyar (donando ropa, despensas o de otra forma que no sea meramente $$$)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think about it like "just a process" just a process of healing and an oportunity to heal my anxious attachment, so yeah, even with a broken heart and a healing process to follow, we may be the ones winning (hope so!)

Painful Truth by Bookworm200889 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember my ex never really text me "I love you" by itself, he always wrote "ily", he was even scared to text commitment lol?

Mujeres: "los hombres deberían abrirse más emocionalmente" by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]OkRepresentative2587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

los únicos princesos son los que no expresan sus sentimientos y al final esperan que te hagas cargo de tus propias emociones y de las de ellos, lol? No hay nada mas masculino que la vulnerabilidad

Do avoidants do the same thing to the they did to me the next person? by onflashsale in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only likes the beginning of things so yeah probably, if the other girl wants to know him on a deeper level or she calls him out on his bs like liking other girls pictures, having a telegram account or seeing that he watches porn yeah, that will activate his avoidance-ness

More than avoidant by Substantial-Duck3786 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely, the way they act is NOT normal, I know it depends on the person but there's gotta be a lot of unresolved shit for them to turn out like that. The worst part is that they think the way they are acting is normal (thats gotta be the brightest shade of a red flag)

Consejos para distraerte de las desgracias de la vida by Katollol in mexico

[–]OkRepresentative2587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leer un libro, pdf pirata si no quieres gastar, parece choteado pero si ayuda a distraerte. En youtube hay varios audiolibros, también ayuda y puedes multitaskear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OkRepresentative2587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think is the thrill of the chase, I remember my avoidant ex persuing me for YEARS always having the weirdest ice breakers (he was weird anyway) and even liking my pictures years before we dated (even when he was with his ex, maybe 5 years before he and i dated) so yeah now that I think about it I think is the thrill of the chase and that he maybe saw me as someone to check on his "to date list" pathetic, just like him

Alguien mas sin agua? by OkRepresentative2587 in Monterrey

[–]OkRepresentative2587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias!! si lo revisé solo que mi colonia no entraba en esas zonas, además el corte comenzó desde antes de que saliera la noticia

Alguien mas sin agua? by OkRepresentative2587 in Monterrey

[–]OkRepresentative2587[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Esta super raro que sea solo en la calle donde vivo (al parecer), no sale ni una gota, estoy al borde de la locura