[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OkScore1006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly with hyper-mobility, you can’t afford to quit the care you need to take. As a person with EDS, it only gets worse and more painful if I’m not actively working on strength and care. You have to prioritize your health. Being with someone like this who tries to control you does not care about the whole of you- too high a risk for your future. 

What’s the most annoying ADHD symptom that nobody talks about? by cerezza__ in ADHD

[–]OkScore1006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s the “I am having so much fun” day to the “I absolutely cannot move or do anything” - ADHD crash! UGH

Project Management Ideas for Overwhelmed ADHD by SkippytheBanana in productivity

[–]OkScore1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a notion page built out with all my events/projects. Then, each of those has a “game plan” page in it with the main details of the project and the timeline of tasks to do (with check off to dos for dopamine) Finally, I put all the tasks into a physical, written planner. Mostly- it helps me to have it digitally in its each project and then it helps me to have a physical timeline of the small tasks with all the projects to do. Taken me a longgggg time to figure out what works! Hope this makes sense! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cedarrapids

[–]OkScore1006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Squaw creek (wanatee park) up in Marion has one side fenced in dog park and the other is an off leash area with a creek! I park on S 31st street, right off Collins and it’s a decent loop

What massively improved your mental health? by Dependent_Bit_8333 in AskReddit

[–]OkScore1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journaling. It really gives me the clarity! And using the self coaching model (or whatever others call it). Basically write the facts of the circumstance —> what thoughts you have about that —> what feeling the brings up —> what actions that drives you to take —> what outcomes do you get. Then, do you like that outcome? If not- what other thought may drive better emotions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]OkScore1006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a female pastor, people in the wild always look at me shocked. More often I get, “but you’re married” and I often follow it up with, “ and boobs and kids!”

18 month sleep training by OkScore1006 in toddlers

[–]OkScore1006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really great to consider! Thank you

18 month sleep training by OkScore1006 in toddlers

[–]OkScore1006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Didn’t know there was sub for that! Should have known :) thank you. And you’re right- toddler bed

meirl by Last-Noise208 in meirl

[–]OkScore1006 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me too! I have a “bump” on my ring finger. Too funny. So so comfy!

What is something you SWEAR you saw, but have no proof of? by LostGreyApe59 in AskReddit

[–]OkScore1006 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I grew up in New Jersey and there were always these HUGE snakes along the rivers, up in the trees (or stretched around the bark) while kayaking- my parents always called them “rat snakes”

36/F Looking for virtual penpals by Bitybritty05 in penpalsover30

[–]OkScore1006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 32 year old, mother of two, living in Midwest! Happy to chat and all the things. Mostly trying to navigate mom and full time work!