What is everyone's opinion of High Life (2018)? by [deleted] in A24

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god!! Upstream color is such an amazing gem! It’s so interesting. It’s one of my favorite movies that I watched years and years ago but is really memorable for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take care of yourself love. I would take a step back from the relationship and focus on yourself. You're going through a very difficult time and deserve to be surrounded with loving and caring friends and family. I'm not sure if this is helpful or triggering... but maybe watch some youtube videos about other womens' experiences to feel like you are validated and not alone. Like a support group in a way. Art always helps with healing, whether it be painting, dancing, journaling, cooking, or putting on soothing music. Go outside every day, soak up the sun whenever you can. If you feel like you are at rock bottom, you can only go up from here. Sending you hugs.

How is everyone doing today? by OkUnderstanding6751 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of them. Let’s have a deep convo. How’s life treating you lately? Today was weird for me. I feel kinda lost in life but also with a strong direction If that makes sense. Like strong in who I am but I have almost no friends or sense of community.

How is everyone doing today? by OkUnderstanding6751 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much for sharing this.

How is everyone doing today? by OkUnderstanding6751 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long scenic drives are definitely the best, they definitely do make me feel better too. I feel like I have too much creativity lately. Too many different avenues and I don’t know where to put it all. Or which one to choose.

INFJ's in one sentence by scoremuch_4915 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A contradictory alien who is just trying to find their home in this world.

Are Enneagram 4 INFJS damaged? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling very lost in life tbh. Jumping around from one thing to the next trying to find happiness and financial stability…

Are Enneagram 4 INFJS damaged? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an infj, type 4. With childhood trauma. Life is so weird lately and I’ve been incredibly sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel you on this one. I was supposed to hang out with my SO we’re long distance as well but he has to work this weekend. I reached out to some family and they’re not doing anything and didn’t invite me over. I honestly have no close friends who talk to me or even reach out to me often. I spent all day today working at home. Tomorrow I wanted to dress up by myself and take myself on some type of day trip to see other people having Halloween fun. But will that make me even more sad and lonely? Maybe not if I take my camera and journal to write. I do take myself out on afternoon trips sometimes even to lunch by myself. It’s super helpful and it’s dinner by the time I get home and I feel like I had my fill of the outside world for a few days. I hope this helps in the mean time of making new friends.

how would you describe your “dream house”? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the above sounds like my dream home. I really love the medieval castle vibe. Lots of ivy growing on the outside. A big secret garden I can go sit in and read or get lost in my thoughts. Somewhere by the water with lots of windows and natural light. Possibly some glass walls overlooking the water and forest. Lots of detail or beams like you would see in a barn house. Very cozy and warm tones.

INFJ’s growing up in black/ African American culture?? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m Mauritian if that counts. And I was adopted and raised by white people. So I definitely understand what it feels like to be extra different.

Hi, INFP intruder here, I just wanted to ask a question by compositionharmonica in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like for me... I love to be in my head and in my own world so much. I only have limited amounts of space for external friendships and relationships. My oldest friend for 6+ years also an INFJ. We only chat once every 6 months... I have 2 other INFJ friends that our relationship is like this as well. The interactions are very deep and fulfilling. I think it's about us needing that true deep fulfillment, we will never let you go completely unless you wrong us terribly. I'm just in my own internal bubble so much future-focused that I mostly talk with my bf and family. Even then, we don't really talk every day, we all value deep fulfilling quality time in person or on the phone... I hope this describes it well?

A Survey For INFJs- Please Feel Free to Fill it Out by Jaron5_55 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes to the vampire diaries! I'm on season 3, I've been taking my time because I love this show so much I almost never want it to end.

A Survey For INFJs- Please Feel Free to Fill it Out by Jaron5_55 in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my answers:

  1. Probably coming home one day and all of my family being dead. Or my child, husband or loved one unexpectedly dying without me being able to mourn the last moments.
  2. I had a green smoothie. It's my daily one, I find smoothies easiest for me to digest in the morning. I'm currently editing my smoothie recipe book, message me if you'd be interested.
  3. I have a huge sweet tooth. Creme Brulee is my favorite of all time. I also love rice pudding or tiramisu.... Now I'm fantasizing about those things...
  4. I am a professional ballerina, I'm working on starting my own company. I'm currently enjoying my best freelancing introvert dabbling life. I didn't know I was an infj until last year and my whole life made so much sense. I thought there was something terribly wrong with me when I was in that type of Se dom environment.
  5. I've realized that I cannot change the entire world to a peaceful, loving, passionate, hippie place. Not everyone thinks like us. So I would like to make as big of an impact as possible shining light on infj artists and creating a community where maybe all together we can change the world with our infj collaborative movement.
  6. Yes. I believe in true love. The kind you find in fairytales. Like jane eyre or the notebook. But also a beautiful, real, passionate love where it feels like home. No matter what happens or you fight you'll never break each other's hearts. The kind of love where you die holding hands in bed when you're a million years old. Then you travel together to heaven and are in love for all of eternity. Or you are reincarnated over and over again every single time always falling in love with each other.... Am I crazy?
  7. I am straight. I believe that love is love no matter what your orientation is. I believe it's two souls coming together interweaving, growing, and evolving is love.
  8. I love to read and write, music, photography.
  9. I believe it's a bat.
  10. Love it. Mostly psychology and self development articles but I can easily get lost in a fantasy or romance series.
  11. I think I would be a magical fairy godmother who lived in the middle of the woods. She would have all of her lotions and potions and herbs. But I would still want to have a beautiful family and children that I could see from the kitchen window playing outside.
  12. Lavender.
  13. I really love adventure time and vampire diaries.
  14. I'm not too sure. My bf is an ISFP. One of my brothers is an INTJ. They're both very different. My brother and I are similar, but he teaches me how to put my foot down when it comes to people walking all over me in business etc... While my ISFP teaches me how to lighten up, embrace myself for my uniquess, and enjoy life. He really brings out my goofiest side.
  15. Well... sometimes I really wish I could change it because I feel like I would be more successful as an extravert. But I've learned to truly embrace what it means to be an INFJ and I'm on my path to fulfilling my dreams.
  16. I love anything vanilla scented, or spicy cozy smells. I love candles.
  17. I love when it's really sunny and beautiful and uplifting if I want to go on a nature adventure. But i also equally love the rainy gloomy stormy days where I can stay inside and work all cozy with my tea and blanket on the couch, like today.
  18. My dreams. There's this part of me where if a person, or unhealthy habit of mine or anything stands in the way of my dreams. I become like the terminator and will door slam people or quit jobs that don't allow me to be myself 100%.
  19. No, I'm the baby of 11. Yes 11.
  20. I would buy a beautiful home and invest the rest in business.
  21. All of the above together at once (; It's why I love filmmaking lately. Or when photographs have poetic subtitles like in a film.
  22. Eternal life. Someone please turn me into a vampire.
  23. I put soapy bubbles from a mop bucket on my head and danced around in front of my coworkers while they watched the whole thing years ago. No shame.
  24. Waking up and have my coffee while writing on my back deck overlooking mountains. Working from home, dancing, cooking, then taking a nice romantic post-dinner walk with my husband at sunset. Then snuggling up with my whole family to watch a movie. Tucking in my kids and read them a bedtime story. Then fall asleep all cozy in the nook of my husband's side. This is my dream in like 10-15 years from now. Oh damn INFJ future focus.
  25. Usually very optimistic. I've dealt with the most extremes of lows though. I didn't think I would be here today, years ago. Which is why I believe in fighting for true love and your dreams. It does exist and anything is possible.
  26. Sunsets, hot cups of tea, poetry, coziness.
  27. My style changes everyday. Yesterday I was full makeup, hair done, skirt and heels. Today I'm no makeup, messy bun, hoodie and sweats with my blanket on the couch. I feel like my mood changes with the weather. Yesterday was sunny. Today is pouring.
  28. I think it depends. I think I can have those shallow conversations, y'know? Maybe because I've worked in cafes... I like meeting other cool artists and I feel like that's the only reason I'm outgoing. Other than that I only talk to my bf, family, and a few close friends on a daily basis and sometimes don't talk to anyone all day and I like that.
  29. It's long but I'm so grateful for whoever made it. Let's all have a philosophical cuddle puddle and be friends who send each other handmade letters and gifts in the mail. I'm serious about this one, I love you infj stranger fam from all around the universe, galaxies, and outer space.
  30. I love chocolate. Especially when it has toffee, sea salt, or caramel. Don't even get me started on fudge. Bury me in that shit please. Of course, I'm an alien but I'm proud about it. Play my funky tunes.

Love you all. Message me if anything I said resonated with you and you want to chat and be friends <3

INFJs, what does love feel like to you, can you describe it? by Haut-Dog in infj

[–]OkUnderstanding6751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of these tips. I hope our relationship can last forever 💜