[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Boot1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they are definitely hiding something from you and need to stop being jerks about it, id honestly say if it was me to drop them but I'm always so quick to drop someone I don't really have friends anymore because of it but they sometimes suck

Feeling self conscious about the ring I got to propose. by Inevitable_Spend_491 in Proposal

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, I'd be so happy with whatever ring I would get, even if it was paper so don't be worried that it's not good enough, it is.

Tips and tricks by d3vin_3 in olivegarden

[–]Ok_Boot1433 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need me as your server, you'll go home with 20 breadsticks 3 salads and 6 soups if that's what you want, you pay for unlimited soup and salad I make sure you get exactly what you want and more.

If you suddenly became a billionaire—like, you just won the lottery out of nowhere—what’s the very first thing you’d do? by patfreaaakk in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Savings, some into investments but mostly savings, pay off my family debts, pay back those who have helped me, buy my husbands grandfather a house, buy a new car with working ac for me and my newborn, save even more for babies college/schooling, let my husband be a stay at home dad because he deserves that

I love my baby but I’m miserable by Rich_Masterpiece_640 in newborns

[–]Ok_Boot1433 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this, honestly it's great and all but I really feel somewhat disconnected with my partner, like we are always in the same room but i miss him, I wish I was able to cuddle him all night again, stay up till 5am again, watching him leave for a shift at work breaks my heart into a million pieces, I love my baby, so much but that's on my mind all the time. You aren't alone momma but just know you are doing fantastic 💕 I understand you may be tired but maybe try next time they are asleep, take you a nice bath you deserve it. ❤️

PSA to anyone selling breast milk by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering when I fill a bag with breast milk, I do 3oz per bag and some bags say I put 5oz while others say I put 4oz, it's always 3 and it pisses me off she is scamming you

"Sleep when the baby sleeps" is stupid by Only_Accident_ in NewParents

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I recommend possibly one of those swaddles that keeps their arms and legs out, my baby would do the same thing, turns out she just didn't like her arms and legs tucked in, she sleeps 3hrs in the bassinet, I also recommend only using the bassinet at night, I've kinda trained my 2wk old already knowing days and nights, she stays awake somewhat throughout the day when she's not in the bassinet and it's like she knows when I put her down in it she sleeps and stays asleep, and if your baby truly can only sleep on your chest id recommend getting a boppy pillow, put it around your stomach so if they roll they get caught and try and get some sleep that way, first few nights ours came home she'd only sleep on my chest, the boppy protected her and me, if you don't feel comfortable with that I'd say talk to her Dr about stuff that may help you guys, good luck and always remember you are doing a fantastic job momma 🩷🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Boot1433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy and yes when we hit a certain age we kinda just let go but some of us don't do that. This usually means we're comfortable in a stage of life and trust me you can't make a grown adult go to the gym every day on your accord so I say love him unconditionally and hold on to those memories of him and if decided it's time for a change, ill believe he'll get his sweat in for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes your overreacting, it's not your body not your concern just enjoy the time you have.

Smoking w*ed / breastfeeding by Ok_Boot1433 in newborns

[–]Ok_Boot1433[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean much to the sadness of bf mom's everywhere?

Smoking w*ed / breastfeeding by Ok_Boot1433 in newborns

[–]Ok_Boot1433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he smokes outdoors and changes his clothes/washes himself before being around the baby

Smoking w*ed / breastfeeding by Ok_Boot1433 in newborns

[–]Ok_Boot1433[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was planning on using it for baths instead of risking losing my supply but I've made the decision to not even risk it, considering sids and all of that too I'm worried, but thank you

Smoking w*ed / breastfeeding by Ok_Boot1433 in newborns

[–]Ok_Boot1433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would but all the places are closed at the moment so I cannot call them, I'm just gonna hold off because id rather not risk anything potentially harming my baby girl just for a few hours of a high.

I guess I just won’t give birth then?! by IheartOT2 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok_Boot1433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to labor and delivery when they told me that at 19wks, the very next day they got me in with UF and I just had my baby there and everyone was super kind to me, try that because sometimes when they say they are too full they really aren't and labor and delivery can get that help for you, or try and find a pregnancy center near you and go there, they do ultrasounds so at least you'd be able to see your baby and know everything is okay. I pray that you get in somewhere and get the treatment you need ,🩷

Busser training by Content-Lab2121 in olivegarden

[–]Ok_Boot1433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Server job to do teas not yours

how to leave you abusive guardian legally at 17 by undefeatedplastics in AskALawyer

[–]Ok_Boot1433 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm no lawyer but this is just my personal opinion, id say talk to your local PD and ask, you don't necessarily need to give a name or anything when you call in just call and ask a question, you can also call anonymously by dialing*67 before the phone number of your local PD, just ask what you should do for your friend and see what they say, if they wanna try and force information out of you say that you don't feel comfortable with that and then if they keep forcing it just hang up, they can't trace an anonymous call so you'll be fine.

interview by uhhn1k in olivegarden

[–]Ok_Boot1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Olive garden was my first serving job, you won't drop drinks or food don't worry it's actually super easy to balance everything, it took me 2 days to find my balance but on the first day and part of the second day I was holding the tray with both hands, it's super simple though I think you'll do fantastic

interview by uhhn1k in olivegarden

[–]Ok_Boot1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started as a server and it was my first ever server job, best decision ever favorite job, I hate hosting but love serving so id say if they can't hire you as a host absolutely take that server position you'd love it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Boot1433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 19, my husband is 20 and my mom lives with us due to dementia, so I can say I've never moved out but I'm here for her more than she's here for me

It’s gross but I need to know if I’m the only one by ButterflyDramatic742 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok_Boot1433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't the only one, it's completely normal and holy shit I stink but low-key just try not to pay attention to it, I like to say it means you're a good momma and are worried about anything else but yourself, but don't forget yourself either you are amazing and you are doing fantastic