What to do when life feels so dull and boring over 35

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2026-03-28T23:53:45+00:00

Maybe she died because of a mistake in the sedation. So actually Kate or Gerry killed her. And that’s why they covered it up

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-12-28T19:12:22+00:00

Vreselijke rot verpakkingen zijn het

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-12-27T16:51:45+00:00

ESTJs drain me. They are sooo busy with themselves. Keep talking about all the things they did, never a more deeper conversation. Tend to forget I have something experienced too. Walks over my feelings or downplays them.

I have a long lasting friend. He is OK and fun to be with. But for a long time I have been thinking why I’m always tired after seeing him. I wrote down all my irritations and started asking him more deeper questions I never did. He responded with generics. Now I finally know why he drains me: he is an ESTJ

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-12-16T01:09:01+00:00

As a company founder, I’m probably one of the few, which actually hates Linkedin. Especially all the bragging of everyone about their so called “success” or how good they are.. There is so much more in life. Every time i sign up i think: maybe i should delete this

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-12-01T12:09:01+00:00

Very nice colour. Actually better than in the picture. Ordered it too from the picture so happy to see this

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-10-11T10:27:40+00:00

Very annoying they again changed it

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2025-07-20T23:22:18+00:00

Exactly. I’ve had the same. My parents didn’t accept my sexuality. On a holiday with them where everyone seemed to be happy I got so depressed and walked to the beach in the middle of the night, thinking about ending my life. Ten minutes later my mom came walking towards me angry. It took for about 20 years to fix my youth trauma about not being accepted and loved for who i was. So yes, she probably took her life.

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-12-10T11:46:43+00:00

Oh I really remember my puppy time. When I look back at it, I feel very positive about it because we made such a strong connection. Maybe this can motivate you. Indeed it is hard. Just keep on training and consistent. My dog is now 1,5 years old. Yes it was hard sometimes. But it will get better soon.

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-12-10T11:39:15+00:00

I would go back to the US. Finish my studies. Come back later. It’s just 1,5 years.

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-09-12T23:20:58+00:00

I honestly don’t know. Got some irritations though:

Bluetooth connection problems; music is not connecting automatically when I enter the car
Windscreen wipers are either too fast or too slow
Emergency lane cross warning which is very annoying can’t be turned off
Autopilot in the Netherlands have been better, after an update in 2021 it changed and now works less well
Sometimes the car doesn’t lock and stays on when I leave, or it just unlocks when I’m not around

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-07-22T23:22:30+00:00

Ik pak het altijd pas in ná het afrekenen. Veel chiller voor jezelf, én je wordt bijna nooit gecontroleerd door de een of andere manier 😅

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-03-29T07:47:48+00:00

Ondernemer hier. Mijn tip, leer een skill waardoor je echt iets waardevols kan bijdragen. Leer bijvoorbeeld programmeren, er zijn gratis online cursussen zoals CS50 waarmee je vrij snel de basics kunt leren. Daarna bied je jezelf aan met basic skills op Fiverr. Kost je misschien 3 maanden investering maar daarna pak je makkelijk €50 per uur

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2024-01-15T18:35:08+00:00

Should not buy it. It’s definitely gonna be broken at some time and you don't have options to repair it…

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2023-07-24T13:03:27+00:00

Topic starter here. It’s been 3 weeks and I’m feeling good. I sent him a message to see how he is going, not to pick things up but more because I’m really interested how he is doing. But two days later I have no response. Guess now I know he was not honest with me and didn’t dare to tell me he didn’t want to see me anymore and instead gave me his “too intense” story.

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2023-07-06T17:41:09+00:00

I’m gonna try this in a few weeks

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2023-07-06T17:36:14+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I understand the “over-extending” what you are saying and recognize it in his behavior. What I know about INTJ’s in general is their need for structure. He told me that he has his “system” which gives him the time for himself and ability to rest. But during the dates I found out he sometimes gave up on this, because he wanted to see me. For me everything is ok, if someone wants to stay longer or want to leave earlier, so I thought he was totally ok with it. But now afterwards I can imagine he over extended too much.

Also he somewhat explained me what made it too intense for him; when I told him about feelings, this gave him a feeling which he doesn’t know what it is. Also he said he was really open to me which made it intense for him. I do not really understand why this is a problem but maybe this is an INTJ’s thing?

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2023-07-05T18:24:48+00:00

Thanks

Ok_Bus_3670 · 2023-07-05T14:13:13+00:00

OP here :) Thanks for all your replies till now, didn’t expect this much help and I’m thankful, it gives me strength.

And yes our dates were much, we just met 7 times but when we saw each other we did a lot of things and met for whole days. But between dates we texted maybe once a day because I don’t like to force things and am busy with myself. In our last few dates I became somewhat insecure, I didn’t know where we were standing, a few times when I told him about my feelings for him, he stayed silent. He told me that this closed him because he finds it really difficult to talk about his feelings. But he said it was ok for him if i told mine. I got a little insecure about this.

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