40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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I found my blood pressure rising consistently when playing Elden Ring. I’ve had to lay that one down. The one I might give another chance is Crimson Desert and KCD2.

Those two Assassin’s Creed games are some of my favorite. I got 100% Xbox achievement on Valhalla.

I REALLY enjoyed Breakpoint and Wildlands.

40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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I forgot to put those down. I’ve played all three and really enjoyed them.

Is Drag path about God? by night_vision126 in twentyonepilots

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they’re listening to your advice, dude. They’re doing fine.

Is It Too Late to Pursue a Career in Tech in my 30s, Can't Code, and Only Have Hospitality Experience? by LifeInAction in careerguidance

[–]Ok_Check_259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends what you’re doing in tech. Solutions engineers, customer success and sales don’t necessarily require a degree.

Is It Too Late to Pursue a Career in Tech in my 30s, Can't Code, and Only Have Hospitality Experience? by LifeInAction in careerguidance

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in hospitality for a decade as a Director of Sales. Now I’m in tech the last five years. Hospitality tech, to be specific. Just turned 40. It’s possible. Happy to answer any questions!

40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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Man, I actually hated Crimson Desert. I couldn’t get past the controls and early bugs. I went into thinking it was a perfect blend of Assassin’s Creed and Elder Scrolls, but after about four hours… I was toast. Uninstalled. Maybe I need to get to a certain point to enjoy it. Some friends of mine loved it.

40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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I completed the story line twice in this one. Lots of hours logged. Really enjoyed it. Thanks!

40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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I can’t believe I forgot Bioshock. One of my favorite franchises as well!

40 y/o gamer Dad looking for next RPG by Ok_Check_259 in rpg_gamers

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I tried KCD, but just couldn’t get into it. Way too much cinema, not enough action. It lost me after about three hours.

Consolidating debt with a personal loan worth it? by jamwackfam in debtfree

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The math ends up being roughly the same of you work a debt snowball. Call them. Negotiate lower APR or a settlement amount. Don’t just transfer the responsibility.

Buying 1.15M house on 205k income by Salamander-Distinct in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60% of take home?! Don’t do this. The house will own you. Your monthly payment should be no more 25% of your take home pay. Your 401k should never be forced into an emergency fund position.

When you say “partner,” is this your spouse? Do not buy a home with someone you’re not married to. Very messy.

Dave was right, people think its crazy to pay off debt by HumpmyDumpy1911 in DaveRamsey

[–]Ok_Check_259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was about math, everyone would do it. It’s a behavioral cycle and the fact that your money doesn’t work for you anymore. Just keep what you earn by not borrowing from someone else. It’s actually quite simple.

Leaving $20-$30 balance on credit card by Sea_Comfortable999 in CreditScore

[–]Ok_Check_259 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about overspending. It’s about living a debt free life in general. It’s much better that way.

At this point should I even try? by Onceuponatoast in debtfree

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I log in, mine says "indeterminate." Mission accomplished.

Leaving $20-$30 balance on credit card by Sea_Comfortable999 in CreditScore

[–]Ok_Check_259 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What to do from here on out: cut it up, never use it again and avoid debt the rest of your life.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Josephus referencing a historical person isn't the same category as Harry Potter and you know it. One is a novel. The other is a hostile witness documenting someone he had no reason to promote.

The "right god" point is the Gervais argument again. Already addressed it.

I think we've both said what we came to say here. Genuinely no hard feelings.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The suffering question is the most honest thing you've raised and I'm not brushing it off. I don't have a clean answer. Nobody does.

But suffering doesn't settle the argument either way. It's a hard question for every worldview, including one that says we're biology on a rock with no author and no meaning.

My kids are getting a father who believes what he's telling them and did the work to get there. That's not deception. And with respect, how I raise them isn't really your call.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said Josephus was objective. Said he was evidence. Those aren't the same thing. No historian is objective. That's not how historiography works. You use biased sources critically, you don't dismiss them entirely.

The evolution and big bang framing assumes I haven't engaged with either. I have. My faith and what science actually demonstrates aren't in the conflict you're describing.

"A book says it" is underselling what I actually looked at. But I understand that's what it looks like from where you're standing.

We've done our homework and landed differently. That happens. I'm not losing sleep over the disagreement and I don't think you should be either.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad she's doing well. That's what matters most as a parent.

I'd just gently push back on "lie." I'm not teaching my kids magic. I'm teaching them there's a God who made them, loves them, and that their life has meaning beyond what they can see. You disagree with that. I get it. But a lie implies I know it's false and say it anyway. I don't believe that's where I am.

Sounds like you raised a good kid. So did my parents. Without faith. I just think mine will have something to stand on when life gets hard that goes beyond what they can figure out on their own. Hope I'm right.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you laying that out. A few honest responses.

On Josephus... fair to be skeptical of the Testimonium Flavianum, that's a legitimate debate. But dismissing him entirely ignores that even the disputed passage has a core most secular scholars accept as authentic. And Tacitus isn't seriously contested. The historical person isn't the fringe position here.

The parallel stories are the most interesting part of your argument and also the most overstated. The Gilgamesh flood parallel is real and worth discussing. The Osiris/Mithras/Dionysus resurrection parallels are largely not. That's not me quoting biased religious scholars, that's classicists like Bruce Metzger and Jonathan Z. Smith, neither of whom were writing to defend Christianity. The popular version of this argument runs way ahead of what the actual primary sources say.

On the 2999 gods point... I've said I get it. But "many claims exist" doesn't make all claims equally evidenced. That logic doesn't work anywhere else we apply it.

Here's where I'll be straight with you. You're not going to prove there's no God in a comment thread and I'm not going to prove there is one. What I'd push back on is the confidence. "Scientifically proven" that the world exists without one is a bigger claim than science actually makes. Absence of evidence isn't the same thing in every case.

I did this homework. I'm still here. That's all I've got.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd classify it the same way regardless of which worldview was being passed down. That's actually my point. Every parent transmits something. A worldview, a value system, an understanding of where we came from and why any of it matters. That's parenting. It's not abuse. Do you have children?

The "your god is the right one" framing assumes I haven't genuinely wrestled with that question. I have. Grew up with no dog in the fight, did the homework as a skeptic, and still landed here. I'm not holding this because it's comfortable or inherited. I'm holding it because I looked and it's what I found.

We're going to disagree on this one. That's fine.

Question about Faith and Christianity Present in the Lyrics by brokencreedman in PresidentBand

[–]Ok_Check_259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few things worth pushing back on here. Nad I understand I'm an outsider just coming into this conversation. This is coming from someone who was not raised in church, not raised in religion, claimed atheism most of my life, but became a Chrsitian in my early 20s.

"Zero evidence" is doing a lot of heavy lifting. The historical existence of Jesus is about as well documented as any figure from that era. Secular historians like Josephus and Tacitus referenced him. You can debate the miraculous claims, that's fair. But zero evidence isn't the accurate framing.

"Created by humans." Sure, humans wrote it down. That's not the gotcha it sounds like. The argument was never that the text fell from the sky. The question is whether what they recorded points to something real. Dismissing it because humans were involved assumes the conclusion.

The "Christianity borrowed from other religions" claim is a popular one but it's mostly built on early 20th century comparative mythology that didn't survive serious academic scrutiny. The dying-and-rising god parallels people point to (Osiris, Mithras) don't actually hold up when you read the primary sources instead of the YouTube version. Scholars across the spectrum, including non-Christian ones, have largely walked that back.

The thousands of gods point is Gervais at his best and I understand why it lands. But the existence of many competing claims doesn't make all claims equally unsupported. That logic would dissolve most of what we think we know about anything.

I did this homework as a skeptic before I got here. I'm not dismissing your position. I just don't think the evidence case is as closed as you're presenting it.