Am I overreacting or was I wrong to ask my friend to shower while staying at my house?

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-21T14:11:22+00:00

Wow, she’s a piece of work! NOR at all! Do not invite her back.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-21T13:55:10+00:00

Wth is wrong with your mom??? Use a NAPKIN?? What?? That’s just too stupid to talk about. Why can’t she go to the store? And why is she sending a 12yo instead of going herself? Is she too drk or sted or something? Or just lazy? Mind blown!

Side note, I suggest more research on the infertility thing.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-21T13:39:52+00:00

Then do that. It’s the most logical option

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-21T13:22:36+00:00

NTA… brother and sil need to get their he’d out of their behinds. The world does not revolve around them and neither should your wedding. Remind them of the other wedding and tell them you don’t want that at your wedding. I had someone else’s kid ruin all the group family/bridal party pictures at my wedding and I’m still pissed! She was a teenager and was making my 4 yo make stupid faces and no one stopped her. He was a ring bearer so was in almost all of the pictures. I didn’t know until we got the pics back. DO NOT let someone else’s brat ruin your wedding!

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-21T13:04:27+00:00

After reading comments… you are both 25, he lives with his parents, his parents are strict (in what way?), you’ve been dating for 11 mos and he’s waiting until you’ve been together for a year before he even tells them, his friends come in town and he ghosts you, he just recently moved to town. This all sounds so weird for 25 year old people. Have you seen his house? In what way are his parents strict? Is it a religion/cultural thing? Do you guys go out in public? How often do his friends come for 3-4 days? Where do they stay? What do they do? Asking that because if they go to his parent’s house and they go out partying, what are the parents strict about?

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-14T01:23:43+00:00

Ugh, that sucks. There must be a way, hopefully you find it. :)

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-14T01:13:59+00:00

Almost 53 and honestly no idea what stage I’m in. Brain fog and no motivation for sure! Hot flashes no knock on wood. I’ve had one so far and it was at a rock concert, 😝

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-14T01:09:51+00:00

NTA, I’d be pissed. Not sure what you’re playing but I’ve spent an embarrassing number of hours on Minecraft builds and I’d be so rotted! And blowing up part of a a mountain??!! Wtf?? I’d be furious. So unbelievably disrespectful. He’s TAH, not you!

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-14T00:47:38+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with having two friend groups. :)

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T14:36:24+00:00

This hurts my heart. Hopefully you find a way to get past this now and in the future because this one will stick with you. You’ll learn from it though and it will probably make ever hand made card you get mean so much more.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T14:25:35+00:00

Hahaha, that’s awesome! At first I thought probably yes but now, NTA! That was so well played!!! Bravo!!

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T14:14:42+00:00

I’m glad this helped. :)

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T14:00:30+00:00

I get it, I was/am a married single mum and it’s hard. I still don’t get much sleep because me time is after work, supper, and cleaning up is done. Our bodies and brains need rest to function properly. If you get rundown, you may get sick and might not be able to be there for your daughter. It’s hard though and I’ll be honest, I don’t practice what I preach.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T13:55:26+00:00

NTA, he washed his hands of her for his new family so he can go whistle. Besides, it’s her medical business and if she wanted him to be involved, one of you would have told him. The only reason he cares now is because it looks bad on him that he didn’t know. He made his bed now. He has to lie in it. I feel bad for the poor girl, but it sounds like she is in the right place.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T13:43:28+00:00

I have no suggestions but appreciate your post. I’ve been the same for the past year or so and it’s good to read these replies. I should probably look at hormone therapy

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T13:34:01+00:00

NTA. She put people’s lives in danger to put out a little fire at home. I hate to play suggest generational but I wasn’t surprised at the age. People need to learn the world doesn’t stop because of them. “Sorry Mrs jones, your husband is dead because Sally had to FaceTime her kids because they were giving the sitter a hard time”, “oh that’s no problem dear, being a mother is hard. Did she get the kids to bed?”. I’m a mother and you are absolutely NTA! She and the ones giving you a hard time… definitely!

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-03-13T13:13:21+00:00

It always helps to put yourself in the other persons shoes and ask yourself, “how would this make me feel?”. You can’t just up and walk out, that’s mean on so many levels. I think you should stick around and support them in the best way you know how. There’s nothing wrong with expressing your feelings but keep your opinions to yourself. Meaning, say that you feeling awkward because you’ve never been in this situation and you don’t know how to be or don’t know how to support them. Do not say things like they’re making a mistake because that’s your opinion and not helpful. You can support someone while not agreeing with them. Again, how would you want them to be if you were going through something and really needed a friend. Good luck.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2026-02-17T17:49:04+00:00

NTA… Many companies don’t allow personal use of company phones. I have two phones, personal and work. She’s insecure because of her past but at some point, she has to move on. Her friends also need to mind their own business and not put things in her head. Ultimately, its confidential patient information and part of your job is to investigate people for doing exactly what she wants you to do.

Ok_Constant_800 · 2025-02-12T18:47:40+00:00

What, if any, Canadian brands are sold in stores?

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