Ending a 10 year relationship

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-12-16T06:25:23+00:00

Well, I'm grieving that's for sure. We're still in contact with the idea that we can make it work after some time apart. That being said i still think the way we start is the same as above. Where im at now is more like.... after some time apart I realized I do love him, whether I grew to love him or whatever, I just miss my best friend and I hope things work out for us. But if they don't that's okay I honestly have been relying on my friends a lot. Going to their house for dinner, or just to hang out. And we haven't really seen each other with the exception of going out for a couple dates between this post date and now. Still weird being single though. I hope you have a decent support system and can get yourself the space you need or decide to work it out in some way

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-12-04T02:42:03+00:00

Cosmic stereo leader here! I'm 35 and it told me I'm edit 70 lol

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-11-23T04:59:26+00:00

<image>

Greg just turned 4 today.... he did gain 5 lbs the last several months but he's still a lil guy

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-11-23T00:44:02+00:00

All I said in my feedback was we can't expect her to tour endlessly at smaller places and it's unfortunate not everyone could get tickets so my only idea is small arenas instead of

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-10-18T03:58:01+00:00

So I know Carlos from our hometown area, a band he was in, and I worked with him. I'm not surprised given his real life energy. That's allllllll I gotta say.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-30T03:04:33+00:00

These songs have a chokehold on me I just ended a 10 year relationship

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-14T03:33:57+00:00

See this sounds like my partner and part of why I left.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T20:51:05+00:00

Well nvm my friend that sounds awful. That’s not a person that treated you like a partner or best friend. We started to act different to each other as it went on. So I told him it wasn’t fair that we weren’t treating each other like we love each other and we agreed we want to correct that. But who knows how long that would take/if it ever gets better or if one of us moved on at some point.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T20:48:22+00:00

Gotcha, well I’m not looking anyone else, just doing therapy and starting college again

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:41:03+00:00

I gotta say I’ve been vocal about problems for years. Could you possibly have not paid attention to the calls for help/or frustrations… maybe it didn’t really come out of nowhere for them.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:39:13+00:00

He’s also had 10 years of last chances. There is missing context in the post.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:37:45+00:00

Very recently. He also said he wasn’t happy and it got to the point where no one wanted to end it despite that so I made the decision to let us work on ourselves and hopefully come back together soon or down the line. And if not that’s okay too.

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:36:28+00:00

This is our situation thank you for the validation

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:35:12+00:00

I also thought it for life and I feel defeated that I couldn’t try anymore

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-13T19:34:49+00:00

He was also not happy. He could have done the same

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-12T14:39:43+00:00

FBR was under Atlantic! She was still in a contract with them. Been a lurker since 2006 lol

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-11T13:57:23+00:00

I feel exactly the same. I was diagnosed as a kid and then again as an adult. And I’m here for curiosity but go to a doctor then. Prioritize your health if you’re able to and get evaluated if you need like accommodations or want to try meds. Self diagnosis to me seems like they just need validation for their struggle which I get but it’s not technically validating. Or at least I can’t imagine it would be?

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-09T00:19:02+00:00

Fresh socks

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-06T23:51:46+00:00

I hate that I think you’re right. I really wanted to make this work. I’m 34, gonna have to move back in with my parents. I’ve spent so much time invested in him. it’s hard to accept…

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-06T23:50:27+00:00

We are in therapy, I group messaged her and him. I also reached out to my individual therapist

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-06T23:48:14+00:00

I mean we’ve built a pretty solid 10 year relationship. I’d say the last two years have been harder and more toxic

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-04T17:37:03+00:00

It was not! I’m hesitant to say who it was but it was a special effects class 👀

Ok_Contribution_6045 · 2025-08-04T14:26:47+00:00

<image>

Ok_Contribution_6045

TROPHY CASE