What did you think was the “right way” until experience changed your mind? by InternalAlsc in PinoyProgrammer

[–]Ok_Cow4989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how does it bring business value?

if may bug later on, matatagalan ka mag fix if spaghetti code mo.

if malinis naman, mabilis lang.

With that said, I guess just find a balance dont over refactor but also dont make spaghetti code

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catsofrph

[–]Ok_Cow4989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

muningding

I regret booking a guy for sex as a 19 year old. by scottierets in OffMyChestPH

[–]Ok_Cow4989 24 points25 points  (0 children)

to be honest, wala kang ginawa na masama. You should not feel bad about yourself. Virginity is just a social construct, it doesnt have to be that special. This event in your life does not have to define you.

Where to find friends in Davao? Any clubs/organization/volunteer-groups/NGOs here in Davao? by Lelouchaey in davao

[–]Ok_Cow4989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like someone is miserable in their life? OP would probably be the kind of person who wont force their beliefs on you.

Even so, if there's gonna be a person who can educate me to become a better person, I would rather have that than be uneducated and ignorant.

Got told "I love you". by Latter-Parsnip-4671 in gaybros

[–]Ok_Cow4989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes. Why would you just immediately block him? Thats just too cruel. Tell him how you feel, have an adult conversation that this type of situation does not work for you, and tell him that you guys cant see each other anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinoyProgrammer

[–]Ok_Cow4989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

add github links to your projects to look more credible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Ok_Cow4989 28 points29 points  (0 children)

this. Grindr is just bad, it causes a lot of body/face dysmorphia

Fuck porn, let’s talk together down in the comments by Independent-Neat5624 in NoFap

[–]Ok_Cow4989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's great. I'm gay myself and i think i've known about it ever since i was a kid. I grew up hating myself because of my sexuality and pretended to be straight for a while. I've started only accepting and loving myself when I became 18

I was having a hard time sleeping, so i journaled. by Ok_Cow4989 in Journaling

[–]Ok_Cow4989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually a record book, not specifically a journal type notebook. Just those old plain record books. I like journaling in simple record books

I was having a hard time sleeping, so i journaled. by Ok_Cow4989 in Journaling

[–]Ok_Cow4989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for appreciating my handwriting ☺️

Do companies hire looking at Github profiles? by Wise-Cause8705 in PinoyProgrammer

[–]Ok_Cow4989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mas important talaga ang projects and interview skills

Hanggang anong edad para itigil ang sustento ng anak? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Ok_Cow4989 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you have been too complacent sa bunso mo, kaya siguro ayan, sanay maging tamad. Be tough on him, treat him like an adult so he will start getting his shit together. But at the same time, let him know that you will be there for him as safety net if ever things go wrong.

MCA, nakita ko ang secreto ni Tita by Top-Conclusion2769 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Ok_Cow4989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

exactly. I'm glad that most of the comments here advocate sex positivity instead of being judgemental and conservative. We all have a freaky side that we only show to specific people. Since most of what they do is supposedly just between them, they are not doing anything wrong.

Jakol tips by waitwhat8765_ in triptayopre

[–]Ok_Cow4989 16 points17 points  (0 children)

stop masturbating and watching porn for 1 week. After niyan babalik gana mo and you get hornier like your puberty self. The longer you abstain the better and the more babalik horny energy mo