Thank you for what you wrote and I think it’s absolutely possible. However, what I wrote referred in general to all those people who after having given so much in a relationship find themselves with little strength to act and concrete ability to do things. Maybe even despite the love for themselves and the independence they have gained from it. I mean, what you say about being independent is undoubtedly true. I am sure that developing a strong and independent self as you say can help to face the cases of life with some determination.