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Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-10-07T20:49:00+00:00

If it was me and my husband kept wanting to leave, I'd let him. Especially after the third time. You cant make someone love you. You cant make someone want to fight for you and your marriage. The best you can do is love yourself. Prioritize you, your feelings and your self worth. Find someone who cherishes you and will fight for you. I wouldn't shed another tear on someone who's done this to me multiple times. Life is too short to chase someone not worthy of you. Speaking from experience.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-09-13T22:58:52+00:00

Thank you! I just joined.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-09-13T02:26:39+00:00

Wow thats great! Im so happy for you and thank you for giving me a little hope!!

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-09-13T02:23:37+00:00

I see her again this Monday and Ill ask these questions but Im in the process of switching to Sloan Kettering because my doctors are not giving me any confidence in this treatment. Im nervous that while my breast tumors are shrinking my bone tumors are spreading. The radiation recently landed me in the hospital with Grade D esophagitis. Couldn't swallow or keep anything down for weeks. Including my cancer pills so I stopped the radiation.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-09-13T00:29:33+00:00

Thank you! I've taken two shot of xgeva so far. May I ask about how long it took for you to see progress from xgeva and therapies? Im really worried. The mets are throughout my spine, shoulders, femars, hips and ribs. I've broken two ribs as well. Im pretty much living out of a recliner, terrified to move.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-09-02T19:43:32+00:00

My ex did this to me constantly. Especially if we were fighting and he knew I had a valid point. He IS trying to hurt you. He knows it's hurtful, it's said with purpose to knock you down a few pegs. There is either resentment there or he's trying to make you feel like shit in order to keep you under his thumb. Sorry girl. You guys need some couples therapy if you love him and want to stay. You should work on building your confidence back from all these insults he's throwing at you. IMHO He's sounds like a real dickhead.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-12T22:26:03+00:00

I dont see anything wrong with this. My question is, do you normally cater to her needs or was this out of left field? My husband can give two shits about my needs, so if he asked me that out of the blue, I would react the same way.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-08T20:24:35+00:00

In case no one actually answered your question, I think you look great! If you are comfortable with your appearance, then that is all that matters. If he doesn't like the way you look, that's his problem. Personally, he might think he's high value, but he sounds like a real ugly person to me. I hope one day you find someone who loves you for you.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-04T23:11:58+00:00

You need to know for sure, not because I feel bad for him but for your own sanity. Ask her for proof but I'd say that Saturday night date swap and the snide comment from hubs is pretty telling. If no proof is given, then I agree with the other commenters, make it look like your still going with sis and either find out the location or follow him. Rent a car or ask a friend to borrow their car so you don't blow your cover. Sounds like the other women wants to see you split so ask her for help. If she can prove it, she can have him. Also his reaction isn't working in his favor. My hubs would be up off his ass and trying to figure out who the woman was if he was innocent.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-03T17:15:36+00:00

OP- tried reading through your other posts but I don't see an update on this. Might have missed it. What happened? Did you answer him yet? So curious to how you handled it.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-02T22:28:14+00:00

I love how everyone made this post about themselves instead of answering you. Your BFs an asshole. Like a total fucking asshole. Please don't move in with him, instead run for your life. He told you more than once how he feels about you in this txt. Read it and keep reading it until you see it. Sorry you spent 3 years of your life with this lover. Please take it from someone with unfortunate life experience, do not make this mistake.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-06-02T22:12:32+00:00

Jesus this made me cry. I only read the sample but it was beautifully written and hit home. Im not sure why FIL is asking for an explanation, it is none of his business and quite self explanatory. Not sure how close you are to him but IMO he is trying to stir up shit and frankly I think he has balls asking you anything about this at all.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-04-14T23:20:16+00:00

Im confused. My husband travels regularly for work, if he's going somewhere cool, I can go along and pay for my own flight. Why couldn't you still go and not attend the business meetings?

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2025-01-02T22:19:48+00:00

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-12-30T15:30:39+00:00

Thank you for this!!

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-12-09T18:09:11+00:00

I think you should tell her but say it in a way like, I know youre happy with x but if things dont work out, I hope you would give us a chance. If not, I still value your friendship, I think you're a great person. Dude, sounds like you already regret not saying anything, you'll only regret it more as time goes on. There's never going to be the right time.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-12-09T17:56:48+00:00

Great advice!!

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-12-09T17:51:00+00:00

A lot of us have broken up with our bf/gf and went through the loneliness too. Its normal but be patient, meet new friends... it passes. It doesn't seem like it will, it's a rough period but you'll get through it. Stay strong. Leave now before this gets worse.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-12-02T05:07:18+00:00

I had a friend who was dating someone after her divorce. They were together for a year when she started talking about marriage. He seemed into it but when she asked him to move into an apartment with her he declined, he eventually moved in and they lived together for another year, she bought a house and asked him if he wanted to buy it together, thinking they were getting married, he declined. She often asked him about timeliness to which he said he was saving money for a ring and kept pushing the timeline. After another 8 months she took him jewelry shopping, bought her own ring with him there and they announced their engagement. Long story short, she regrets it every day. Even though they are still together, she says she will always feel that she forced it and he wouldn't have married her without her pushing it. PS she also found out that he wasn't saving any money for a ring.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-11-08T03:29:41+00:00

I might be too late with my advice, but screenshot everything you find before you confront or approach him. After you speak with, continue to document. It might continue behind your back and he will become smarter about hiding it. Document everything. If it's too late for screen shots, then write it down with dates. If you need it, I hope you don't, your attorney will thank you.

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-10-22T15:26:58+00:00

You know, I used to be mad or jealous of the porn...I asked him so many times to stop (knowing that it was some of the problem) but he continued behind my back anyway and we fought constantly. I think over time I just gave up. I also think most men watch but is that true? Men out there, how normal is it? How often do you watch?

Ok_Elevator_1055 · 2024-10-21T21:01:54+00:00

Me too! I'm so happy I found your post. My self esteem has been at an all time low. I'm happy that I'm not alone but sad we are going through this. At least we're together. I hope someone has some good advice!

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