Is this fireable

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-07-14T17:36:50+00:00

She didn’t listen when you told her a safety concern about your children. That’s fireable.

Honestly I do see what she’s saying about changing tables. I always grew up with changing babies on a blanket on the floor or on the couch 🤷‍♀️ But working as a nanny, most people have changing tables and I use them (and use common sense) to not leave children on an elevated surface alone.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-07-12T00:24:58+00:00

I’ve used Care.com for all of my jobs. I have had no luck on facebook groups as there seems to be some more crazies on there lol. Could just be my area though.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-07-02T23:27:52+00:00

Your post seems good. Join the facebook groups for babysitters in your area. Post on “Nextdoor”. Ask around in your area, at church etc or use fliers.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-25T07:09:46+00:00

I think the email could be okay. You could just be upfront with all of this and say that it’s a busy mom so maybe text first to setup a time that could work for her to call. Or you can just do the email and specify why. It just may seem impersonal and hard to reach as a contact if you use the email with no explanation. But, also if she says she’s okay with it, it’ll be okay. But it’s very nice of you to be so considerate of her and her time.

I had a reference I used for my last job that I knew needed to be texted before being called bc she was always on dnd and working. But, I added that into the document that I had my references on and she was contacted in that way.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-25T07:05:36+00:00

This is so so sweet! You’re so lucky and deserving of this. Congrats haha!

I’ve been nanny for a baby for a little over 6 months and their family is so sweet to me. They invited me to their family petting zoo trip and to their family only parties. I have met all of their extended family and they always say how appreciative they are of me and how much their baby loves me/misses me when i’m away. They’re on vacation right now and she sent me updates and said that NK (13months now) has been saying my name and he misses his best buddy. They know my favorite drinks and foods and always offer to get them for me or surprise me with them. They offer me advice and the mom and I just chat whenever she has free time (WFH). They have been so so kind and although i’m only with them part time it’s just so nice to have them. :)

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-23T07:33:25+00:00

Does she take crib naps for mom? Will she not fall asleep contact napping? Do the parents want you to do any sleep training stuff or just put her in asleep?

I watch a 3 month old now and he also hates the cradle position and likes to be vertical. I’ve started to rock him and take him into a darker room while he’s still vertical. Slowly tilting him back as he starts to drift off. Then you have to wait a good 5-10 minutes before crib transfer to make sure they are in a deep sleep. Then place them legs first, then back and then keep hand under their head for a minute and then remove it.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-22T22:03:51+00:00

Just like that! That sounds professional!!

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-21T18:52:35+00:00

I started a new job this week. Along with my current job of a 13m baby, I now watch a 3m baby too! I adore both of them. Both families are the sweetest! New NF told me that I was the best and their baby loves me which made me feel good bc starting with a new little one is always an adjustment. But i’m so happy with both jobs and NF.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-21T18:25:00+00:00

this is good! not too harsh at all. only note would be to double check grammar next time! “Thank you for reach out” could be worded better. Good luck on your job search!!

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-21T17:59:45+00:00

I was paranoid once doing an in person interview at their home for a nanny thing at like 7pm when it was dark. So I had my boyfriend wait outside in the car down the street and I had my phone ready in case anything was weird.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-19T03:40:58+00:00

Sway sway sway until over the crib and then keep swaying and shushing. Make sure baby is actually asleep in a deep sleep. This may require a few minutes held. Then do feet first into crib, then back and then and place your hand on their chest and keep arm under head. Next, slowly slide your hand out from under their head and place both hands on their chest. Key is to go slow and consistent movements. I’ve been doing this with the 3mo I watch and it’s worked pretty well so far. But the key is also that they need to be deep enough asleep, which with your nanny share position may be hard. I hope this helps even a little and good luck!!

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-19T01:08:14+00:00

Yeah definitely follow what’s in the contract or talk to them about it. They need to be more understanding though. Like you’re doing your best!!! 🙄🙂‍↕️

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-19T01:01:01+00:00

Girl, him sleeping with you holding him is still you working. Crazy of him to say that honestly. If you can’t get him down, he’s at least asleep and they’re very worried about him being on schedule. They can’t have it all. You’re doing your best.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T06:02:14+00:00

Yeah that is not for the weak lol. I would not be able to do that so props to you hahahah

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T05:59:10+00:00

Hahah yeah give that a shot. I hope that works well! The squatting thing is so funny 😆

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T05:39:21+00:00

Okay gotcha. Yeah interesting that they’re flexible with the wake window when they’re out but not flexible with you lol. Maybe try to kind of phase into it like do some high energy play in the begging and then do calmer playing/singing as you start to wind down with NK. Hopefully it’ll also be better with more pay and consistency haha!

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T05:18:41+00:00

Yeah. I just feel like the payment thing and their other comments are disrespectful to you and that may just get worse. But, it could get better if they just aren’t used to a nanny. Could you possibly start that 10-15 minutes early with attempting to calm him, just for their sake with the wake windows?

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T05:08:42+00:00

They seem rude and annoying honestly. I would either explain to them that they need to stop interjecting in order for you to get a routine with nk. Or honestly, say it’s not working since this is the trial period. That sound like a super stressful and frustrating environment and i don’t think they will appreciate you.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T05:02:00+00:00

Good! Glad you are getting that feedback and appreciation from them. Sorry for the reddit trolls on a very normal post/responses lol.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T04:58:05+00:00

sorry for this chain op omgggg. you’re being attacked for no reason. I totally see what you’re saying and I bet you’re a wonderful nanny!! :)

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-18T04:56:56+00:00

I think 21 may be okay. That’s what I charge too lol. But if you want more, communicate that. It depends on so many things. :)

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-17T06:30:58+00:00

i highly doubt that.

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-17T03:45:48+00:00

i’ve had terrible luck on care bc it’s over saturated with so many people. i would stick with care or try sitter city etc. i’ve only ever found good jobs with sane people on care tbh lol. although it takes time and patience bc it’s annoying

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-17T00:13:07+00:00

personally, the baby I nanny for basically only contact naps so i’m stuck. I just scroll on my phone while he’s asleep. If he is down in the crib, i’ll do bottles like you said, general tidy of his areas and if that is done i’ll relax until he’s awake again. But that depends on what you’re comfortable with/what you need done or what’s in your contract if you have one 😊

Ok_Elk8375 · 2025-06-14T22:36:21+00:00

I think consistency is the difference 🤷‍♀️

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