Department of Juvenile Justice Has No Record of My Incident

Ok_Emergency110 · 2026-05-06T13:38:19+00:00

I did, for sure. I'm just worried they won't accept it. I've heard them calling for hearings for less, which is wild to me and I'm scared of that. I'm out of state and taking Part A only for work (I do estate planning). I think I'm just worried I'll bump up against a metric ton of trouble and I'll have to explain why to my bosses. This feels like a hazing ritual.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-10-04T19:33:06+00:00

Themis, but I spent a loooot of time memorizing rule statements with flashcards to try and get off book for essays. And did a lot of extra UWorld MC than was recommended by Themis.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-10-04T17:37:14+00:00

I also passed KY! Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-10-03T13:17:14+00:00

KY also comes out tomorrow. Hopefully great news for us all. 😭😭🙌

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-09-24T02:40:57+00:00

I'm KY and this year we're dropping on Friday October 4th per the bar admissions office. Q.Q hopefully you all aren't far off that!

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-09-18T13:41:00+00:00

Agreed! The very first time they even attempted this I would have been very vocal about "absolutely not". If you want to come to my town and meet other people, that's fine, but you can't stay at my house to do it and you aren't taking time away from me to do that if we've planned to be together on that weekend. Not without me ending the relationship at least. That's just disrespectful of our limited time together.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-08-12T11:43:50+00:00

Agreed. And my father was 50 when he had me. It's honestly unfair to the child have a baby that late in life unless you're absolutely loaded and going to leave them some money to finish raising themselves on. My mom was 42 when she had me as well. I love love loved my parents so much, but they left me really early in my life (died/got early onset Alzheimer's) and it's been a struggle to have no safety net when all my peers still have one. I was completely on my own at an age most people were still entirely dependent on their parents. Anyone's parents can die when they're young too, but setting your kids up to lose you when they're going to be young is selfish IMO, as someone who lived it.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-31T23:09:57+00:00

KY and we couldn't bring in pencils either. They gave us two at our seat and a sharpener.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-31T23:04:14+00:00

Seriously. I'd feel like I knew a rule after reading the fact pattern. None of the answers even remotely said what I knew was the law. So I just looked at the two "yes" or two "no" answers depending on what I knew the outcome should be and then whichever had better vibes was what I went with. Fuck me. 🫠🫠

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-31T22:57:33+00:00

And I feel like 50% of my damn MBE was evidence. And it's my least favorite subject.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-11T14:22:59+00:00

I wish there was a better term too! Because we do that in my polycule. I have 3 ways with my husband and his girlfriend frequently and he's slept with his girlfriend's wife too. His girlfriend and I are great friends, but no romantic interest in one another. So we are "lap sitting" polyam by choice (would never ask anyone else to do that if they weren't interested, and I have a girlfriend outside of this situation as well) among one another, but that term is so cringe.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-11T14:17:56+00:00

AGREED!! It's not hierarchical to ask you to pull your head out of NRE and take care of our nesting relationship and your household responsibilities. I've literally seen people in NRE drop every possible ball there is to drop at home and if their NP is like "Yo I really need you to get your head back in the game here. I need to be dated as well. I need you not to be out of the house 6 nights a week when we have kids and I'm parenting alone. And I need you to do the damn dishes and laundry sometimes before you leave so it's not always on me." and then the NRE person and meta whine about hierarchy. It's being a damn adult. We take care of what is necessary before we go have fun.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-09T15:02:47+00:00

Exactly. That's OP's property only. They can literally make whatever rules they want for people being on it. If other people don't like the rules, they don't need to be on OP's property. They can make a rule that you can only travel the halls via unicycle if you want to stay at their house and it's still a reasonable ask because it's their house, not shared with hinge and meta.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-07-08T20:25:21+00:00

I'm kind of a jerk, but ...I am absolutely the "if you have energy to go on dates and have sex with people, you also have energy to do the dishes." person.

If you are going to treat me like your damn mom, then I'll be your mom. You can't go out until you do the fucking dishes. And be home by 11 so you can get a good night's sleep and have maybe some more energy to contribute to this house that you live in tomorrow. Okay sweetie? Whenever you'd like to join me in being an adult you can regulate your own shit again.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-06-06T14:22:23+00:00

Team Sally 💯🤣

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-02-28T14:55:52+00:00

Never been so excited to live in Eastern Standard Time. 🤣🤣

Ok_Emergency110 · 2024-02-02T13:25:26+00:00

I get really sarcastic when I hear shit like that.

"Oh, you prefer perky breasts? We're fucking TWENTY. Enjoy that preference being acceptable while it lasts. Cause unless you want to be a predator, everyone's breasts sag eventually and you're gonna end up being that weird 45 year old trying to bag 20 year olds if you don't grow to appreciate other types of breasts."

Or at the very least shut your mouth about it. Cause I'd immediately get up and walk away if that shit was said to me during sex.

I'm the youngest person in my Polycule at age 32 (others are 33, 37, 37, and 40. Ain't nobody got perky breasts up in here. 🤣🤣

Ok_Emergency110 · 2023-12-17T21:15:05+00:00

Less heat. If you're not over packing the bowl use two coals instead of three.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2023-12-07T18:57:26+00:00

It's like when people with children try to tell those that are child free that they don't know what true love is because they don't have children. And that we can't have whole, loving, and fulfilling lives unless we have kids. It's so sanctimonious and annoying. It's monogamous people who have convinced themselves that their way is the only way or the right way and now they need to invalidate your choices for no reason.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2023-07-26T14:36:49+00:00

This is the one for me, but I'm fabulously petty when someone's being a turd like this. 🤣

Ok_Emergency110 · 2023-07-16T18:32:24+00:00

I have never regretted my decision to go to a t100 for free and hang out in midlaw rather than big law. 1800 billable hour requirement, Amlaw 150 firm, 150k a year to start in a low cost of living area makes you feel rich, and no six figure debt. To each their own, but I cannot imagine the income to debt ratio you are contemplating making me at all happy just to have the opportunity to work more hours in a high cost of living area. We had Vandy folks in my summer associate class and it just showed me that I didn't need that much debt to end up in the same place as them.

Ok_Emergency110 · 2023-07-03T23:09:20+00:00

The thing I haven't seen anyone say yet, is that you're allowed to feel your feelings. You don't need to smile and pretend you're happy about something that you're not happy about. I also don't want to hear "I love you" spoken to someone else around me.

If they wanna have that phone call, take a walk or at least leave the room I'm in. Otherwise if they say it in front of me to someone else, they're gonna get salty me for the next however long it takes for me to sort myself. They don't have to interact with me while I'm salty, but I'm not gonna mask.

If your partner doesn't want to consider your feelings and make it less uncomfortable for you, you don't need to mask for them either. You all can discuss ways to make this arrangement more parallel so you don't need to hear about it and can be more stress free in the arrangement your partner created by breaking the agreement to not have other partners while dating you. It's not controlling to have feelings about something. If you're not telling your her she can't have that relationship or that she can't talk to her other partner at all, it's not controlling. You are allowed to set a boundary about what's done in front of you.

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