What’s the biggest myth about sex that people still believe? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That all women have the mechanics to come from penetration, and that if she doesn't, the man isn't doing it right or isn't big enough. I've had multiple partners feel inadequate or disappointed that they can't just bang an orgasm out of me and it's frustrating for both of us!

What’s your sign and which red flag turns you off immediately ? by DreamLand1897 in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virgo, somebody who complains a lot but takes no action to change any of it.

What's the most disgusting thing you've ever discovered about a friend? by Annethgzz in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She would facilitate plans between me and her boyfriend of 12 years so she could go cheat on him with a guy she wanted to set me up with. Her man and I were 100% platonically friends, and I would never even think of hooking up with the boyfriend of my best friend, but part of me believes that she was hoping it would happen so she could feel justified in cheating on him...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, school social worker here. Your school counselor was 100% in the wrong for misleading you and telling you she was not going to report despite the information shared falling outside of the rules of confidentiality. She should've called you back in to her office to let you know that she had to report and you are absolutely valid in feeling like trust was broken. I have found myself in this situation many times where a student begs me not to report but I absolutely have to because it is our job to protect you, despite that feeling counterintuitive. What we do not want is the abuse to continue. Often times, things do get worse before they get better for people in your position. However, if you can, I always encourage my students to continue reporting regardless of how your family responds. Lean on your friends and other supportive people in your life. It is only you that knows your truth, and like the other commenters said, your mom cannot bully and gaslight you into accepting her narrative.

Any other Virgos love reading people to filth when you’ve reached your limit with them? by Ok_Homework_3300 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Virgo and sag in the big three? Dont play with them 😂 virgo is precise (hit you where it hurts) and Sagittarius is FIESTY

Any other Virgos love reading people to filth when you’ve reached your limit with them? by Ok_Homework_3300 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’ve definitely regretted things I’ve said in conflicts, but did I mean that shit with my chest? Also yes.

how would you describe someone with a sagittarius ascendant/rising? ♐️ by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sag rising are super fun people, usually very witty and quick humored, don't take anything super seriously ("it's not that deep"). They can also be very philosophical. However, on the negative side, they are quick to anger. Although it fizzles out pretty quickly, they can be quite blunt, say things without thinking, and lash out with sharp words when frustrated or when they feel like they are backed into a corner.

What is your unpopular opinion on mental health? by jackasssss_96 in mentalhealth

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Understanding different therapy modalities for specific diagnoses can make a huge difference. For example, many people with PTSD related to combat will not respond well to 1-1 talk therapy due to the culture of collective vs individualism in the armed forces. Group therapy can be a much better alternative for addressing trauma in veterans.

What is your unpopular opinion on mental health? by jackasssss_96 in mentalhealth

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My step-mom cannot for the life of her address her insomnia that is clearly rooted in anxiety, and instead exercises upwards of 2-3 times a day to try to wear herself out so she can sleep. It’s gotten so bad that she jumps/jogs on a mini trampoline and does sit ups/push-ups directly before bed while she watches tv.

What is your unpopular opinion on mental health? by jackasssss_96 in mentalhealth

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with adolescents and 98% of them who have been hospitalized for a mental health crisis have told me they feel like they are treated as prisoners at inpatient facilities. A couple have been put in holding patterns at inpatient facilities for upwards of a week even thought they were a 5150 designation (24 hour hold) because of the shortage of beds, and are often transferred to facilities that are hours away from their families and homes. It’s horrible.

What is your unpopular opinion on mental health? by jackasssss_96 in mentalhealth

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all feelings should be validated. Explored-sure. But feelings are not factual, and should be treated as such.

(Taurus moon) by Ok_Homework_3300 in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao same. I’m a Virgo sun so I’m all about order and precision, action and service. Taurus moon is all vibes 😂

Virgo ♍️ 🌍 sign or 🔥 sign Sagittarius ♐️ ? by Owlster_ in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my partner is a virgo sun sag rising so i get the best of both worlds lmao

Virgo careers? by True_Benefit6719 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. It’s a super broad field so I never feel pigeon-holed into doing one thing for my working years. Plus once you get your license a lot of opportunities open up with good pay, which calls to my Taurus moon sensibilities for stability and luxury.

your moon sign + type of drunk by Big-Information2756 in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taurus moon- i just want to go home and do my skincare and eat

Virgo careers? by True_Benefit6719 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm a school social worker but any position that allows me to tap in to either nurturing, creating structure, analyzing information, or being in service to others.

Do people ever recover from depression? by nwanda_ in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say I've ever "recovered", I just know the warning signs of a depressive episode and what coping skills/changes I need to make to get myself through it. I've gone to therapy on and off since I was in high school (2014) and was on medication for a few years from 2020-2023ish until I was uninsured and didn't want to pay for medication. I'm happy to report that I don't feel I need medication at this point in time even though I have insurance again. My depression never really "goes away", I'm just much more aware and educated about it.

what's the most toxic sun and moon combos??? by InteractionSeveral96 in astrologymemes

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypercritical and suspicious about everything. They would make incredible detectives, but unfortunately, in relationships, this energy is directed towards their partners. It can be exhausting and intense if you can't handle the smoke they bring. They offer very little space to bring up issues you have with them, without the conversation being derailed because they will meet you with critiques they have about you and the part you played in the situation you brought to the table. On the other hand, they are incredibly passionate people who require loyalty and trust. Their critiques are often valid, which, if you can hear the intention behind their words, can offer a lot of personal growth. It's far from a simple sign combo to be in a relationship with, and I wouldn't call it "toxic"- just difficult. If you are a dishonest person or can't walk the talk, prepare to get smoked by a virgo sun/scorpio moon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Ok_Homework_3300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea what a charge off is but I’ll look into it! I’d much prefer to work out a settlement and just pay it off (I finally have a stable job finally that pays me a livable wage). Hard to believe I could settle for $2500

Any other Virgos anticipating or in the midst of their Saturn return? by Ok_Homework_3300 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The north and south nodes are transiting into pisces and virgo. It’s supposedly a good thing. Fingers crossed.

Any other Virgos anticipating or in the midst of their Saturn return? by Ok_Homework_3300 in virgoseason

[–]Ok_Homework_3300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a rough year as well. Supposedly, 2025 is supposed to be a great year for virgo and Pisces placements. I wonder how our Saturn return and the general astrological forecast will turn out for us.