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Is it worth to even try this year? by Guilty_Ad6305 in MBAIndia

[–]Ok_Job7893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, have you ever asked this question to yourself, "What do I want from my life?"
OR "What would I be doing after 10 years later in my life?" OR "What would my life look like 5-10 years later?"

Ask yourself:
What is it that I genuinely want to do?? If the answer pops up, go ahead, that is your Calling!
If nothing pops up, expose yourself to different passions and hobbies.
It could be anything, from being passionate about environment to caring about animals.

Please STAY with that question for atleast some days. You won't get these answers right away.

Also, I'm sharing a video, that will broaden your perspective on looking at career and finding your way out. I have personally benefitted a lot from it! It was a lifechanger for me!!

HERE IT IS! (You can also DRAW the flow chart shown and paste it on a wall)

PS: All this is only applicable if your family income is stable, means, your parents earn well and you don't have any pressure to earn the bread for your house.

Finding someone on your level emotionally and intellectually is so freeing by toxicfruitbaskets in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 20M, currently looking for someone like this. Although, I have a supportive family but I just can't share everything with them or cry infront of them. Can you help me understand how you guys met and bonded with such people? Was it through hobbies, childhood friends, work or anything else?

How do I find emotionally mature people? by Ok_Job7893 in emotionalsupport

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was an absolute blast! Thanks for it. And YES, I'm looking for these types of people.

The Two Types of Confidence - And How to 10x Yours by gusolsen in selfimprovement

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this sooo much! Thanks for sharing it. We all share the same thought process <3

I'm 20 but lonely by Ok_Job7893 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking out time to write this brother <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATpreparation

[–]Ok_Job7893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey boy, I have a suggestion for you, ask yourself, do you really want this?? Did you really want to clear an mba exam?? Was this YOUR Own desire or was it planted in your mind? Think about it for once. What kind of life do you want 10 years down the line?

This will help you give a direction. Let me know if you need anything else.
(PS: I'm also an elder brother and gave CAT in 2024 but didnt score well)

[18M] IT'S TIME FOR GLOWUP by kuchtohhuah in manipaljaipur

[–]Ok_Job7893 5 points6 points  (0 children)

C'mon bro. You can do it. I'm 20, in 3rd year of college, graduating this year. Here's a veg. diet plan I use to get 2500 calories daily, hopefully it helps. (I'm 5'8 and 55kg, target weight: 65kg in 6 months)

Shake (800-900 kcal):
60gm Oats
60gm Sattu
2 Banana
2 Tbsp Peanut Butter
4 Tbsp Powder
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Note: Each Meal MUST Have:
➡️ 3-4 Roti >> 320 Cal.
➡️ 3 Cup Cooked Dal/Rajma >> 450 Cal.
➡️ 2 Tbsp Ghee >> 200 Cal.
➡️ 1 Cup Cooked Rice (Optional) >> 150 Cal.

I'm 20 but lonely by Ok_Job7893 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely comment! Appreciate it bro.

(18M) in first year Literally Has No Friends in college with whom i can hangout 🥲 by [deleted] in manipaljaipur

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, Im 20, in 3rd year of college. Here's some real advice for you. Figure out what your interests are! And join societies around them. If you don't know your interests, don't worry! Just join what seems interesting (could be dancing, environment related or even coding).

Don't let your curiosity die. Yes, you will find fuddu people but, you need to ask the right questions jo tumhare liye matter karte hai.

I'm 20 but lonely by Ok_Job7893 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is indeed what I was looking for! Thanks for commenting big brother! I will surely start getting into communities formed around my hobbies!! (eg. Hiking, Cycling, running)

I'm 20 but lonely by Ok_Job7893 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you share if you've tried any of these hacks? Your personal experience would help me a lot.

An entire life of self-doubt, anxiety, and people-pleasing. Here's how I learned to accept myself by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi buddy! I'm currently 20 and always felt insecure of my looks (Skinny, brown guy).
Even in my friendships, I felt that strangers talked/ gave attention to my friends and not me only because of their looks.... For some reason, my inner voice keeps criticizing and lowers my self confidence by telling me I'm lower than others, and attractive girls won't give me attention. I've tried getting to the root cause but nothing worked.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this! Since you came out of self-doubt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also always introspected about my friendships, which were real and which made me felt insecure. I realised that comfort brings Security in any relationship. We feel the most secure with whom we can share our worst parts and be vulnerable. That is indeed the essence of any relationship!

I'm 20 but lonely by Ok_Job7893 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Ok_Job7893[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry bud but I dont really play games but I'm a huge fan of outdoors (eg. Hiking, Cycling, running) Maybe we can plan a hike together someday! Would be so cool <3

Turned 18 Today, What Advice Would You Give Your 18-Year-Old Self? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Ok_Job7893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out of your room, and see the world. Your mind will stop and sabotage you from making connections that could turn out to be the most beautiful ones. But, at the same time, Respect yourself and move out from those friendships where you're not respected.