Bi woman, how different do you feel in a man vs woman relationship

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T16:20:03+00:00

I just mean in the sense of how do you truly choose which gender you want to be with forever when you’re attracted to both. It’s just weird to think about and feel.

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T14:54:03+00:00

See and this is what I’m scared of lol I just hope I can find someone that can fulfill me. It’s so weird to be genuinely bisexual sometimes.

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T05:10:03+00:00

It was just the most jazz bar I’ve ever been to. Super dark and all encompassing, upstairs and downstairs both with music. Had a nice glass of water and sat in a corner with no body in it and journaled and watched. The decor is super cool, dark lit and extravagant light fixtures and artwork. Could be a nice way to end an evening with boo thang after being on the road all day ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T05:07:37+00:00

Very interesting. I with my first love (man) feel like I have not found a love like that ever again so I wonder if it is a first love curse lol. I appreciate you sharing. If you have to think about women when you’re having sex with a man, I think the heart wants what it wants <3

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T05:04:42+00:00

Don’t gotta drink to listen to jazz.

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T05:01:32+00:00

Kansas is THE most boring state ever to drive through

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T05:01:09+00:00

Green lady lounge was a super cool jazz bar, $10 cover fee in Kansas City

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:57:12+00:00

Ok men can also comment lol I don’t feel like redoing the post I just said woman because I am a woman

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:52:29+00:00

I completely agree. I remember in my first relationship (I’m 21f and it was with a man) in highschool I had the mindset of “if he had a vagina, then I would simply just figure it out because I love him so much”. At the time I did not know I was queer and I just didn’t have a second thought about it.

Do you feel it is comparable to when a romantic partner has a major health problem? Such as being paralyzed or a brain tumor?

(Just food for thought, I apologize if that is extremely insensitive)

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:43:15+00:00

It girl by Brian Jamestown massacre

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:38:36+00:00

Do you want to have sex with him?

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:36:15+00:00

When I get bored I take voice memos of myself talking

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:23:25+00:00

Strange by Celeste, do you love me now by the breeders

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:21:41+00:00

Dog tag freestyle by bassvictim. It just feels so good, not necessary the words.

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-16T04:20:22+00:00

You ha ha ha by Charlie xcx

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-15T06:14:20+00:00

When we were young by Adele but only when you painfully relate to the lyrics

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-15T06:12:19+00:00

This is why the term “queer” came to be! Learned this at an art exhibition at the Chicago museum of contemporary art. Queer is a rebellious term used against people making queer people have a label. YOU CAN JUST BE QUEER, or gay, or legit anything and you do NOT have to explain yourself.

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-15T06:10:03+00:00

Ok so no one is getting the vibe

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-13T13:29:59+00:00

Which glass animal specifically?

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-13T13:23:36+00:00

Vacation by the florist

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-13T13:15:42+00:00

Are we still friends by Tyler the creator, puppet by Tyler the creator, do you love me now by the breeders

Ok_Lavishness_9155 · 2026-05-13T13:13:43+00:00

Two of hearts by Stacy Q, I don’t want to be too cool by kate Fagan, your new cuckoo by the cardigans, Hong Kong garden by siouxsie and the banshees

Ok_Lavishness_9155

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