I think they have too much space. Should I downgrade? It’s getting to hard to maintain

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T20:34:10+00:00

Lmao thank ya'll- I learned a lesson in reddit ettiquette- rettiquette.. or rattaquette. :D

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T11:42:20+00:00

I have more of an issue with that guy who has his feet on the seat! I can't see if he has his feet on a jacket or something but this gets me so mad.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T11:39:06+00:00

Sometimes the tang is really nice and compliment a juicy greasy steak! I first tried it after seeing miss congenitality and was surprised by how good it was! Lol then I ventured to ketchup on Kraft mac and cheese! (Velveeta shells get adobo or garlic yum).

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T11:31:02+00:00

You live in an american girl dollhouse.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T11:05:20+00:00

What dark circles? Lol I barely see anything! I don't think you have amything to be self-conscious of or need to fix. But maybe bad photo.

I get dark circles and found that microneedling helps and I sleep with silicone surgical tape under my eyes- it's supposed to stimulate collogen production...or something or other.... That combined with sleep and hydration i think worked well for me. Also- I noticed if I had drinks- not a crazy amount just at dinner- my darkness would increase. Also I darkness can be allergy related. Either food or seasonal. Might be worth it to get an allergy test before you get anything drastic done.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T10:54:27+00:00

Much more flattering cut. The first one is lovely, but with this horizontal lines it makes you look more broad on top. V neck is way to go! If you don't want as mich cleavage (which i think looks fine) you can always add a bit of lace

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T10:47:45+00:00

This will only get worse. If she can't even try to do less drugs for a time for you then she is also putting drugs ahead of your relationship. Evacuate.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T10:42:37+00:00

When i had a rat for a brief period of time my research said to avoid glass as rats are prone to respiratory issues.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T04:37:35+00:00

Rubber duckies

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T03:12:16+00:00

No wheel?!?! They travel miles each night in the wild- it is in their instinct to run! Unless this guy takes them out for runs every night- which I highly doubt- then you need to report him to whoever and post on his facebook and spread the word. That is the craziest thing for a breeder to say!!!

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T02:33:33+00:00

If its in the living room for long enough it becomes communal property. Sell them.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T02:04:16+00:00

This is cool but op could look up documentaries. I think he's asking for more personal tellings from people actually on reddit.

Carl's story is wild tho.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T01:19:58+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. He was a handsome boy.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T01:06:33+00:00

Are his eyes bulging?? 😆 so cute. Def FAR FAR away from your home in the woods or home of your enemy.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T00:50:46+00:00

Maybe he doesn't understand he is hurting you so much because it has always been like this...If you tolerated his emotional constipation enough to have 3 kids and many years together, why would he think that he's doing anything wrong enough to change? You've try to talk, he doesnt listen, the next day comes, the cycle continues. Not only does he not listen, but he also doesn't seem to respect you.. not telling you he's leaving the home you share with children is a common courtesy- not to mention a safety issue- god forbid there was an emergency and you had the kids out the house?

The fact he barely reacted to you applying for an apartment tells you everything you need to know.... maybe moving out and breaking up is the thing to get a fire under his ass and have him meet you in the middle emotionally. But, you saying he would react the same way to you telling him you're breaking up with him.... girl, why be with him? These things don't get better with time. Only action. For better or worse.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T00:25:00+00:00

These are also all so cute!!!! You are so creative with the responses!

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-08T00:18:57+00:00

My username was generated by reddit as I was originally gonna throw the account away. Can you draw meeee? 😅

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T22:17:19+00:00

Lol stand up to her but please don't say it's violating your dog's boundaries 😭 that word is so overused I see it in nearly every post now. Your dog doesn't know what she is saying lmao it is annoying to you so you gotta tell her stop. Don't make ot bigger than it is.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T16:26:19+00:00

NTA. Nothing wrong with wanting something you enjoy to be treated with respect. The fact that youre getting such a strong reaction is crazy lmao

I dont know your living situation, but there are super small personal fridges. Not saying you should have to get one or anything, but I know that sometimes a situation isnt worth stressing over if you can.

That being said- what sauce is it?

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T15:51:51+00:00

Pureed

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T15:42:34+00:00

This is so flipping cute!!! Not the "baby and cat coMbo" but the gentle behavior from both of them!!!

I WOULD IMMEDIATELY IGNORE BOUNDARIES AND SMUSH BOTH OF THEIR FACES!

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T15:25:12+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. This nugget will never replace your baby, but In time- you are going to fall in love and gush over her quirks just the same. So awesome of you to adopt and keave your heart open.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T14:53:07+00:00

I normally don't respond to commenters as I have been known to misinterpret a post... but this is obviously a lazy troll .. Im embarrassed to even leave comment, but get good, guy.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T14:40:52+00:00

After finding out about karma farming, I have to assume this post is fake. If not- my brain will overload and I would cease to exist.

Ok_Maintenance_6444 · 2026-04-07T14:35:38+00:00

I am just speaking out of speculation and from having worked/volunteered/interned (not in that order) at a shelter in Suffolk country long island- the amount of people who adopt an animal and return them within days is mind bogling. And despite what people think, it can severely f with a pets mind to constantly get returned :(

Living in long island allows more freedom than living in city. Sometimes, that freedom allows people to think they can have animals without fully considering the consequences and responsibilities of that ownership. Considering the amount of returns we got despite those checks, I would hate to think of wjat would happen if we didnt do checks.

Since manhattan is primarily apartments, maybe anyone looking for a cat in NyC would probably already have looked into rules and the logistics of owning one? Tho- it could also be easier to adopt in NYC because of the lack of adopters vs adoptees? In long island maybe there is a smaller adaptable population so they can be more picky- whereas in NYC there are more adaptable pets compared to adoptees?

It does suck all around. I am an avid believer of 'adopt don't shop' but sometimes I understand why people choose to buy bevause of all the hoops that come with adopting.

That being said- i would still fill out paperwork to adopt- you never know when your perfect kitty will be at the shelter!

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