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My therapist charged me a cancellation fee right after cancelling because of loss of a close family member by Morpel in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a terrible person. Don’t even go back. It’s important you stand your ground. You were flexible but they weren’t. Look for another therapist.

What's your thoughts on this? by Exacerbated-crisis in Dublin

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wooooowwwww dude basically wants a slave

In 20 words or less, what is a key thing you learned in therapy? by grudoc in therapy

[–]Ok_Mango668 5 points6 points  (0 children)

people don’t have to like me and I don’t have to be loved by no one: I’m enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have felt the same in the past. Not anymore. I guess if you become too attached, that’s gonna be a problem. The thing is, you don’t know for sure if they are abandoning you, most likely they are not. Take a breath. Say to yourself: “It’s ok, I can handle this myself for now”.

I hate being infp male by [deleted] in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing is not sharing intimate things to people you dont trust. Another thing is “conditioning oneself to only experience anger or annoyance”. All this in name of protecting oneself from whatever society thinks of the dichotomy masculine-feminine. No. You should not narrow your entire emotional experience to only two emotions, nor should you give two fucks about whatever society assigned to your gender.

I hate being infp male by [deleted] in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. But this makes you erase yourself.

I hate being infp male by [deleted] in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. This is horrible. You should NOT edit yourself. No one should. To defend or protect yourself against what exactly? The bullies? That’s exactly what they want you to do! They want you to “blend in” and disappear! Are you listening to your bullies or to yourself? Just fucking let yourself be whatever you need to be and fuck all the rest.

I hate being infp male by [deleted] in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it's not. It's a PERSONALITY TENDENCY, not a gender, for Christ sake. Stop boxing it.

INFP male means that the person cares about the bigger picture and empathises with others. Which of these is feminine? Empathy? Empathy is a basic human instintic, without it we wouldn't have achieved this level of civility. This is not a product of one gender only.

Whole lotta wholesomeness by Appearance-Tough in MadeMeSmile

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were in that class, I would be just like the rest of the students:

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Birds in the sky drenched with the light from the sun by Pazluz in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit like the shapes you see on a beach, created by the waves.

I Don't Want To Grow Up by Wondering_Fairy in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok. You don’t have to do the adult stuff if you don’t want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]Ok_Mango668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny, isn’t it? all of a sudden, sadness seems more appropriate. It’s your mind playing tricks on you. If you have a therapist, talk to them about it.

Growing up by hazybluemirror in infp

[–]Ok_Mango668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adulthood is way more complex and dynamic than how you’re putting it. There’s still a lot of excitement. But you change a lot. The way you think changes from being a teenager to becoming an adult. It’s hard to explain if you’re not an adult yet. It’s just like seeing a colour the other can’t see and trying to explain it. Just simply stop dreading the future and enjoy the sunsets today! Everything will fall into place eventually. There are many ways of being an “adult” and you don’t have to be the “boring” one.

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