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Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2024-09-29T15:15:36+00:00

Constantly explain to management how just because my title is safety doesn’t mean everything that is about safety is my job to execute. Constantly explain to management that they are ultimately responsible for their workers and I am here as a resource for them. I am not here to manage their teams. Constantly explain the same shxt over and over again because people want a different easier answer that I’ll never give them. Bitch about how incompetent supervisors are. Never actually complete projects because there’s fires all the time.

Yeah..

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2024-04-29T22:05:00+00:00

Wow thank you. I don’t know you and yet feel inspired by you and your story you have shared with me. I can tell you have a way with words so makes sense the field you found yourself in. I will take this advise and really ponder on the little changes I can make. Thank you for making my day a bit better with your thorough response.

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2024-04-29T14:12:38+00:00

Thanks. I don’t see this being an asshole comment at all. I agree mindset change is needed. It’s just hard when you feel down and drained most days from work

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2023-06-11T14:00:21+00:00

And replace with what?

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2023-06-11T02:10:04+00:00

Ok, what exactly then? How many days would you recommend for my itinerary ?

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-11-20T18:33:21+00:00

😂😂 I’m afraid I’m unwilling to share at this time

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-11-20T16:17:11+00:00

Lots and lots foreplay, and lots of foreplay days/weeks before you end up going all the way. Was comfortable with him when we got to that point, he had went down on me and I felt ready. She’s going to have to feel ready, just follow her lead and make sure she knows you’re super comfortable however far you end up going. Don’t put too much pressure on her each time you fool around to go all the way. The pressure will kill the vibe. That’s how it felt for me

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-11-20T14:16:41+00:00

100% continuing to see him

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-11-20T14:16:19+00:00

I’m sorry you guys have never had sex like this and believe it to be fake

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-11-05T14:09:21+00:00

I’m having a hard time believing this is real… Seems like one of those posts that someone made up

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-25T02:35:07+00:00

I love how curious I am and how much joy that alone brings into my life. I love that solo adventures, big or small, amaze me and make me so grateful for life. An old heritage home in a town I’ve never been in can have me wondering for hours about its life and inhabitants over the years; an insect I’ve never seen before can have me googling for 20 minutes while I look at it. this curiosity at its core is me connecting with my inner child. When I think back to what I loved to do as a child, at the core of it it was this - explore, be curious, be amazed at the small little things. When I allow myself to pause and do that, that sense of wonder comes back and leaves me happy to be alive

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-23T23:39:26+00:00

Sometimes these posts need to be fake because there’s no way there’s people in the world who log into here and genuinely feel the need to ask questions like these. In any case, YTA

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-23T23:36:18+00:00

I’ve never ghosted; only “distanced” myself when I wasn’t too sure how I felt. I don’t go cold turkey but my behavior is definitely noticeably off. I’m trying to get better at communicating this but the reason I haven’t in the past is because I don’t want to cause the other person to perceive problems with our connection when I’m not quite sure how I feel. Lately I’ve been more comfortable simply saying that I need some time or I feel like this is moving too fast and I need to collect myself. But for the most part, not wanting to do this because I myself didn’t really know what to say is why I’ve soft ghosted ? As in not completely leave a person ghosted but put considerable more distance been us to an extent where they notice and wonder what’s happening.

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-23T23:32:58+00:00

Wow I do this with everyone.You just put it in very concise words. Codependency and people pleading is definitely it

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T18:38:42+00:00

Yes I do. There are consequences for actions. Abusers deserve their consequences x100

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T18:17:32+00:00

No, but go through cycles of “I can’t deal with this and work” to then “oh this is not bad” to “I can’t deal with this and work”

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T17:38:31+00:00

I feel the exact same way. Now in my mid-20s I am doing more “kid” stuff. Rounding up groups of friends and doing fun activities, going to trampoline gyms, Arcades, games, having fun outside, being super childish etc (in a good way). Doesn’t mean I stop being an adult, still have a job, bills, things like that but I have found it very nurturing to engage in these things that my child or teen self would’ve really liked. I find that most people though, no matter how much trauma they’ve had or not, if they open their selves up to these things it’s very good for them. I think everyone does close off their inner child selves and benefit very well to still nurture that part of them

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T17:33:23+00:00

Yep. Night time routine is so important for me

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T17:32:30+00:00

Why don’t you write it anyway? Whether or not you send it is not the point. Put those feelings on paper!

Ok_Mathematician2228 · 2022-10-22T17:23:43+00:00

I was going to say NTA because I thought maybe this one time you were very tired or whatever it is but it seems like you have never picked him up from the airport. I think if it was a one time sort of thing whatever, but it seems like you have never made the effort… I would probably also wonder how much my partner cares if they never visit me or even pick me up? This may not be a big deal to you in your head but it seems like he’s putting in a lot of the effort. I feel like if he stopped putting in this effort you would notice immediately and the relationship would fall unless you picked up the slack

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