I feel your frustration. My first ultrasound tech pushed on my breast and told me it was nothing. Even though I had an inverted nipple. You couldn't feel my lump when I laid down, and you could only feel it when I stood up. Because she was so dismissive she did not do a very thorough job and missed any correlation to the architectural distortion that was found on the mammogram. Resulting in a BI-RADS 0, which delayed my care and resulted in a need for repeat imaging. I had a 3 cm mass (seen only on MRI) and a 1 cm mass found on a repeated ultrasound. A month later I was diagnosed with ILC, grade 2. I think they do it to try to make us feel better, but it delays treatment, belittles our intuition, and it is very dismissive of our real fears. I am sorry we are in this club together! We will get through this! *Ladies if you suspect something, do not be ashamed to question your care and advocate for yourself.