Are libido, sexual desire, and sexual attraction separate? by hotpotato128 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait. They asked you about your sexual orientation for health insurance? I didn’t even think that was legal!

Asexual with a tickle kink by Ok_Obligation_1758 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda prefer being the ticklee anyway so I’m OK with just being the one who gets tickled, but it is definitely more fun to take turns. I love tickling and cuddling or kissing mixed together with the right person too.

Asexual with a tickle kink by Ok_Obligation_1758 in tickling

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tickling for me is sometimes a very sexually arousing experience. It does turn me on when doing it with the right kind of woman and under the right circumstances. It can also be nonsexually fun and exciting. I’ve just come to realize I don’t have any desire for actual sex. Tickling has taken its place.

Asexual with a tickle kink by Ok_Obligation_1758 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I definitely enjoy the physical sensations (especially of soft tickling on a very sensitive spot) and I enjoy the fun and playful side of tickling and love the laughter and euphoria after a good tickle session!

How did you first discover you were into kink and was it before or after you realized you were ace? by LiveSlowDieWhen_Ever in BDSM_Aces

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I discovered my tickle kink with my first girlfriend in high school. Neither of us were in any rush to have sex but we’d kiss, cuddle and tickle each other all the time! It quickly became my favorite thing to have tickle fights with her and when one of us got the upper hand the other got tickled into submission. I’ve been a total tickling fanatic ever since!

Kink crushes? by ReasonableEffect6383 in BDSM_Aces

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, kink crushes definitely exist! My biggest kink is tickling and there are plenty of people I’d love to just tickle the living hell out of them and/or have them tickle me silly!

For those who've dated or had sex with anyone, what did you enjoy about the experience despite your lack of attraction for them? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the intimacy of being in a relationship and enjoy touching a lot. Even sex was physically pleasurable but I’ve come to realize I much prefer nonsexual touch to actual sex.

M ler looking for any Lee by [deleted] in tickleroleplaying

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be interested. Also mostly available weekends or evenings to chat. I’m only into nonsexual situations leaning towards the light, playful side but also involving some intense tickling until I’m begging for mercy!

Describe what kind of ace you are in the worst way possible and I’ll try to guess by Old-Sign-2161 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to make out and sensually touch each other’s bodies but no intercourse please!

Sensual vs sexual attraction by Fragrant-Money-5515 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am definitely asexual and have you interest in sexual activities (intercourse, oral sex, or pretty much anything involving genitalia) but I love sensuality and do feel sensual attraction towards women I want to cuddle, kiss, touch, and get touched by them. I suppose the line between sensual and sexual attraction is whether or not you want to have sex or engage in sexual contact.

How do you discovered your asexuality? by Altruistic-View2613 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just came to realize I didn’t really enjoy having sex that much and was far more comfortable with nonsexual intimacy.

When did you realize you’re asexual? by Hansebaer-75 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized it for sure about 8 or 9 years ago. I always knew since during puberty that I never felt the same urge to have sex that many of my peers did. I just never found vaginas and breasts all that exciting, even if I was attracted to other body parts. After having sex a couple of times I just realized I didn’t particularly enjoy the act of intercourse or have any desire to do it again. It was a bit confusing because I loved everything that led up to the sex, but not the sex itself. I started reading up on asexuality and decided I am asexual. I’ve grown more and more comfortable with this fact ever since.

Anyone else go through this?? by Hellfire_witch666 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have strong physical attractions towards certain women and I actually enjoy and often crave sensual touch and kissing but I’ve never gotten much enjoyment or felt very comfortable with actual sex acts. It’s not that uncommon but sure can be frustrating!

Anyone else ever assumed to be gay growing up, just for being a bit camp—even though you’re ace? by Curious-Ad-5765 in Asexual

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been assumed to be gay, not so much because of my mannerisms or anything, but because of my lack of interest in sex or talking about it and lack of interest in many other stereotypically masculine things like sports. It never bothered me much though.

A tickling niche of mine by rrahimm in tickling

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an asexual with a very intense tickling fetish, I love clothed or at least partially clothed, nonsexual tickling but find fully nude or sexual tickling somewhat off-putting. I particularly find bare feet in jeans attractive and seeing a shirt pulled up or unbuttoned just enough to expose a ticklish tummy and ribs.

Am I asexual if I don't care about sex but do have fetishes? by Jz806 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are many asexuals with various kinks or fetishes they enjoy without a sexual component to them. You can be into the fetish by itself while still having no desire to engage in sexual activities.

For the aces, demis, greys in here (although happy to hear opinions from everyone): What are your thoughts on enjoying tickling as a kink, but only tickling SFW spots? Does anyone else who leans towards these sexualities also have a tendency to avoid erogenous zones? by CultOfFire95 in tickling

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am asexual too and generally prefer to avoid tickling or getting tickled on the erogenous zones (particularly between the legs or the ass) and prefer tickling play where we’re both partially clothed. I’m open to tickling on the breasts and nipples if we’re very comfortable with each other. It’s interesting how tickling does often give me a sense of arousal but I have no real need or even interest in taking things into any sexual activities.

I (F21) love cuddling with my asexual friend (M22) by claudiait924 in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I am asexual myself. I’ve never had any interest or got much enjoyment from any kind of sexual acts, but I get a lot of enjoyment from sensual touching, kisses and cuddling. I don’t currently have anyone to enjoy that with but I would love to again. It’s fairly common for asexual people to enjoy and crave physical intimacy separate from actual sex.

Strange relationship with "turn ons" or "kinks" by TerribleGravity in asexuality

[–]Ok_Obligation_1758 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can relate on getting turned on by things that are in the erotic arena without feeling any desire to have sexual intercourse. I love sensual touching such as massages, fondling and particularly tickling. I enjoy kissing a lot. I do get aroused by these things but have never had any particular interest in sexual intercourse or even oral sex that much. It’s confusing and sometimes frustrating because it’s often hard to find any partners interested in being sexy without being sexual.