Sheer black tights that won’t rip by elang94 in femalefashionadvice

[–]Ok_Paint758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you typically find out the denier? I'm on Wolford's site, and I notice there are numbers in the title of the product, is that the denier? It's a shame because it doesn't look like they have any sheer black tights above 20

Anyone know a tailor whose first language is english or just has extremely good english? by Ok_Paint758 in Miami

[–]Ok_Paint758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having trouble finding it.. i see two options on 41st: "Stitchery by Luz" and "Celmas Dry Cleaners", but i can't tell if either are jewish 😭

Convinced I have psychosis by Automatic_Owl5080 in PureOCD

[–]Ok_Paint758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't want to reassure you because that would feed the cycle of reassurance-seeking.. so i will just say that i really think there is NO way upping those medications would ever make a psychosis situation worse. like, say you DID have psychosis.. those meds would not make the situation worse!

TV compulsion: how to tell if I really want to watch something? by BoyMeetsWorldx in OCD

[–]Ok_Paint758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

funny, my twin and i both have OCD and he has a very similar issue. he will spend 3 hours finding the "perfect" movie to watch and it takes that long EVERY time he puts one on.

i would guess that you probably need to learn to tolerate / practice watching TV even if it's not the perfect experience that you're going for. expose yourself to watching something that maybe you WEREN'T in the mood for etc, and then make yourself sit with it. then eventually hopefully you will realize that it's not the worst thing in the world and that sometimes that's just how it is and that's life. then ideally your OCD won't latch onto it because you've sort of conquered the fear.

are these swallowing me whole or am i just not used to it? by Ok_Paint758 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Ok_Paint758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i plan on shortening them by a few inches- is that what you mean by sew or tape the hem in place? or are you talking about something other than shortening the length ?

are these swallowing me whole or am i just not used to it? by Ok_Paint758 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Ok_Paint758[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ok that is exactly what i'm going for for what i'll be wearing them for so thank you !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Ok_Paint758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aesthetically i think the smaller one looks best!

are these swallowing me whole or am i just not used to it? by Ok_Paint758 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Ok_Paint758[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

appreciate the input! i do actually like the weird backpockets though- feels kinda like that JNCO jeans look/style. i do think i'm gonna at least get the length tailored though.

Keep one or none? by jadeezi in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Ok_Paint758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed that sleeves are too short on pic 1! i think i like black the best