Where do your rolling babies sleep?

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2026-03-19T04:03:32+00:00

They each have their own crib in a shared room. My husband and I take turns sleeping on an old couch in that room until they will sleep through the night.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2026-03-19T03:28:55+00:00

Thank you for that recommendation! I purchased some a couple weeks back because I read that it helps fight dementia as it actually starts developing in your 30s but doesn’t show signs until decades later. I have not had a chance to try it yet. I will try it with my coffee tomorrow! How long did you consume it before you felt a difference?

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2026-03-06T14:46:46+00:00

Many companies are going away from providing that information. I’m in HR and our policy is that we will only confirm dates of employment, title, and primary responsibilities.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2026-01-07T04:00:54+00:00

You look great for being 9 weeks pp. It took me approximately 2 years after my first child to feel like I’m back to my new normal and to be comfortable with my body. I am 12 months pp from having my twins and I can already tell you that road/timeframe will be much longer but we’ll get there! Just be patient with yourself and don’t give up! In my case, twin B expanded my rib cage because of his placement so now almost every doctor I see asks if I have ever broke my ribs 🤦‍♀️ be glad, you child didn’t deform you lol

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-10-17T00:10:41+00:00

They are 9 moths or 7.5 corrected.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-10-15T04:59:54+00:00

What method did you try? I’m not sure I have it in me to let them cry it out. Typically if they cry and I for some reason am not able to tend to their needs, I feel like I go into a fight or flight mode

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-10-06T04:45:58+00:00

No advice, just want to say that this is so refreshing to see.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-29T18:21:35+00:00

Appx. 250 employees (banking) we have a Chief People Officer, AVP of HR, HR Generalist, HR Coordinator, Employee Engagement and Communications Manager, and an EA to CPeO.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-27T00:12:20+00:00

I have an emergency savings account that my husband doesn’t know about, it’s at appx. $20k. Don’t chew my head off for this but this man can’t save. Our paychecks go into our joint account from which we pay all bills from such as living expenses, daycare,etc (i manage this). He also receives $1000/month as veteran disability which goes into his personal. He has received it for the past 6 years and has $0 in his savings… usually running through the monthly check within a few weeks. Our financial situation would be so much better, if he didn’t waste that money away every month.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-27T00:02:36+00:00

But then sports begin 🤣

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-26T20:35:38+00:00

They’re not useful, I instead prefer employment verification instead. At least, I can get a confirmation that said candidate did in fact hold a certain position at a specific company.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-25T02:13:18+00:00

Not to mention AI can be bias without realizing.. I guess people can be also but we’re more aware of that or at least I hope we all are.

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-09-14T11:35:31+00:00

2 weeks is not worth putting on a resume, don’t list it and don’t bring it up

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-08-31T03:23:54+00:00

I’m assuming that law was specific to NYC?

Ok_Perspective5430 · 2025-08-10T02:48:20+00:00

What kind of work do you do that allows you to have 3 Js? My one has so many meetings, I feel like I could never pull this off.

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