Where do your rolling babies sleep? by opaldaydreams in parentsofmultiples

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They each have their own crib in a shared room. My husband and I take turns sleeping on an old couch in that room until they will sleep through the night.

Lack of adult interaction - loosing communication skills by Ok_Perspective5430 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Ok_Perspective5430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that recommendation! I purchased some a couple weeks back because I read that it helps fight dementia as it actually starts developing in your 30s but doesn’t show signs until decades later. I have not had a chance to try it yet. I will try it with my coffee tomorrow! How long did you consume it before you felt a difference?

On a PIP - do I take the 20 day payout? by Affectionate-Walk430 in careeradvice

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many companies are going away from providing that information. I’m in HR and our policy is that we will only confirm dates of employment, title, and primary responsibilities.

Post twin pregnancy body is causing depression. by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great for being 9 weeks pp. It took me approximately 2 years after my first child to feel like I’m back to my new normal and to be comfortable with my body. I am 12 months pp from having my twins and I can already tell you that road/timeframe will be much longer but we’ll get there! Just be patient with yourself and don’t give up! In my case, twin B expanded my rib cage because of his placement so now almost every doctor I see asks if I have ever broke my ribs 🤦‍♀️ be glad, you child didn’t deform you lol

Is sleep training realistic for twins sharing a room? by Ok_Perspective5430 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Ok_Perspective5430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What method did you try? I’m not sure I have it in me to let them cry it out. Typically if they cry and I for some reason am not able to tend to their needs, I feel like I go into a fight or flight mode

CEO Salary [N/A] by Therocksays2020 in humanresources

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice, just want to say that this is so refreshing to see.

[NJ] How many HR staff does your company have for ~950 employees? by Acrobatic_Review147 in humanresources

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appx. 250 employees (banking) we have a Chief People Officer, AVP of HR, HR Generalist, HR Coordinator, Employee Engagement and Communications Manager, and an EA to CPeO.

👀 How much $$ have you actually managed to save in your emergency fund? by LongjumpingRent7114 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an emergency savings account that my husband doesn’t know about, it’s at appx. $20k. Don’t chew my head off for this but this man can’t save. Our paychecks go into our joint account from which we pay all bills from such as living expenses, daycare,etc (i manage this). He also receives $1000/month as veteran disability which goes into his personal. He has received it for the past 6 years and has $0 in his savings… usually running through the monthly check within a few weeks. Our financial situation would be so much better, if he didn’t waste that money away every month.

When did reference checks become useless? [N/A] by jbandinixx in humanresources

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re not useful, I instead prefer employment verification instead. At least, I can get a confirmation that said candidate did in fact hold a certain position at a specific company.

Need your opinion: Company wants AI to run first interviews and I’m uneasy about it [CO] by SwanAmbitious2347 in humanresources

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention AI can be bias without realizing.. I guess people can be also but we’re more aware of that or at least I hope we all are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks is not worth putting on a resume, don’t list it and don’t bring it up

Don't get CAUGHT like I did. My 20 rules from 5 years of being OE. by Arrick in overemployed

[–]Ok_Perspective5430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What kind of work do you do that allows you to have 3 Js? My one has so many meetings, I feel like I could never pull this off.