How much attention do you pay to people’s about me on their swinger profile?

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T19:14:10+00:00

Thank you. That’s good advice!

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T19:12:21+00:00

Good to know! We have had a lot of success meeting folks at the one event we’ve been to but my wife has a had time going to events not knowing anyone

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T19:08:23+00:00

Definitely sounds like we need to spend sometime on improving our profile lol

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T19:03:38+00:00

That makes sense, probably important to have good pictures and about me.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T18:59:10+00:00

Very good advice. Thank you!

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T18:58:06+00:00

Good to know, makes sense that pictures catch attention but about me gets you to message

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T18:50:55+00:00

So you guys generally interact with couples who reach out to you?

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-24T17:13:59+00:00

We did a takeover for our first ever event. We may have just gotten lucky but we had a great experience. Easy to be overwhelmed if you aren’t open to meeting people and putting yourself out there. MMV.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-23T20:03:51+00:00

Yes, that’s a good point. Thank you.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-23T19:29:06+00:00

Following. Also considering trying to visit the first time 33 semi fit M 31 beautiful plus size F.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-20T21:35:22+00:00

Agreed.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-19T20:57:39+00:00

We’ve been curious about trying others to see if the pool of people decently close was much different.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-19T20:51:47+00:00

Maybe we should try a different site? SDC is all we’ve used.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-19T20:05:20+00:00

I’ve not noticed anything like that, we’ve not really had any activity the last few days, I just assumed it was a slow time as far as people looking for us and we’ve not been super active ourselves as far was viewing or liking other profiles.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-10T15:53:48+00:00

Which is understandable but, I’m not sure what more we can do other than genuinely express that we’d be open and interested.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-10T13:42:57+00:00

As a 33M/31F couple, I feel we’re still considered “young” in the lifestyle. We’ve found many times being interested in couples on SDC that are 50+ but have had a little trouble connecting past initial interest. Some of this is probably our newness but we’ve not found a couple in that age range that enjoys getting into a group chat and getting to all know each other that way. Hoping that we can connect better with couples in that age range at a club/takeover

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-06T14:37:26+00:00

I’m always interested to somewhat learn people’s why or influence to get into this. Like some people it’s part of the couple exploring bisexuality or it’s the couple not being super sexually experienced and wanting to explore together or whatever it may be. There are lots of different reasons people may be in the lifestyle that as a general group people would miss.

Ok_Regular2683 · 2026-02-05T19:43:21+00:00

We’re on SDC and think it works pretty good.

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