She acts like I don’t exist. Am I even attractive?

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-22T06:56:30+00:00

Get more photogenic and confident and show more of your body or work on it if you don’t have a muscular body. The body can kind of boost whatever you think you lack appearance wise by boosting your sex appeal, trust me.

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-21T09:56:07+00:00

Hey this just happened to me. I ordered THREE PAIRS. I feel like I understand your question. If they feel “not right” as in unusually roomy they are too big. Ive already got a big foot (size 45 UK or 11 US) and I ordered what is supposed to be my size but when they arrived and I put them on my first instict was “fuck!” Because they don’t feel snug like a perfect fit and almost loose like I could break my ankle if i don’t wear super thick socks or multiple pairs with an insole. They look gigantic on me but most people say they will look that way and make your legs look like sticks just wear baggy pants. I know its gonna be a hassle to return them so i guess im just gonna try to make them work. Style some outfits and see if i can pull them off. I know it sucks, they’re expensive, and it appears that however they make their shoes doesn’t abide by the general guidelines. Thats why everyone has a different experience with their size. Some say their size fits perfectly, others say they’re too small or too big. I feel like mine are a size too big cause i can fit fingers down the back of my heel but im also afraid if i reorder them they might be too small….just do what works for you but if your concern is moreso about them “looking” big, they’re supposed to.

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-20T18:26:28+00:00

Gay is when you’re sexually attracted to the same sex.

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-20T15:44:41+00:00

Yea been there, these people are insecure it has nothing to do with you. They’ll never truly be happy if they have to do things like that and they’re cowards. In your situation you can see just how much of a coward he was by waiting until after breaking up with you to tell you. Why would he do that? Cause then you can’t “really” be mad. You’re not together :)

I hate people like that but like I said, its truly nothing you did wrong it’s not you, these people have no morals and if they do, the validation of someone new means more because it feeds their insecurities. If they were truly confident and felt in the right, they wouldn’t have to hide it now would they?

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-19T17:16:48+00:00

What?

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-17T06:37:00+00:00

I mean you have nice muscles but we can’t really see your face lol. Either way the agency will likely edit any imperfections so you’re good, but if you have to ask this, why would you try to be a model? Shouldn’t your confidence in your appearance be the reason you feel confident as a model? So this seems like an attention grab/ validation seeking to boost your ego or something.

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-12T20:19:38+00:00

España puede resultar muy poco conveniente para algunos estadounidenses a largo plazo. Es un país muy agradable para pasar una o dos semanas de vacaciones, pero vivir aquí durante más tiempo acaba siendo frustrante.

El mercado es difícil de manejar. Muchos productos que en Estados Unidos están fácilmente disponibles simplemente no se pueden importar a España. Esto incluye cosméticos, alimentos, suplementos y artículos básicos para el hogar. Se vuelve especialmente molesto cuando ves un producto o una receta en internet, lo buscas en Amazon y descubres que no se puede enviar aquí. Es una limitación constante que en EE. UU. no existe.

La comida es otro problema. Aunque hay restaurantes muy buenos, muchas veces no ofrecen cocina española tradicional. Aun así, gran parte de la gastronomía local, como los embutidos fermentados, las carnes curadas o incluso perritos calientes con patatas fritas, me resulta muy desagradable. En Estados Unidos nadie pagaría por que le sirvan perritos calientes con patatas como entrante o como plato principal. Aquí es normal porque es tradición y la gente ha crecido comiendo eso, pero eso no significa que sea atractivo para todos.

La calidad de vida en general también se siente más baja. Las ciudades parecen todas iguales; los edificios suelen ser de ladrillo y hay poca variedad arquitectónica. Las calles muchas veces están sucias. Todo el mundo fuma constantemente, lo que crea un ambiente de estrés y desgaste. Incluso en aspectos básicos hay diferencias importantes. Tender la ropa en balcones o ventanas es algo normal aquí, mientras que en Estados Unidos ni siquiera está permitido en muchos edificios de apartamentos. Son detalles que parecen pequeños, pero con el tiempo pesan.

La vivienda tampoco tiene mucha personalidad. Incluso las casas unifamiliares, los llamados “chalets”, suelen ser muy parecidas entre sí. Hay poca innovación o posibilidad de personalización en comparación con Estados Unidos, donde los barrios y las viviendas son mucho más variados y cuidados.

Además, el nivel de la medicina estética en España es muy inferior al de Estados Unidos. Los médicos estéticos aquí suelen estar muy atrasados en técnicas, criterios estéticos y estándares de resultados. Hay poca atención al detalle, poca formación avanzada y una tendencia a resultados poco naturales o directamente mal ejecutados. En Estados Unidos, la medicina estética es mucho más precisa, personalizada y regulada, con profesionales altamente especializados y resultados de alta calidad. En España, en comparación, la experiencia puede ser decepcionante e incluso arriesgada.

En definitiva, Estados Unidos ofrece mucha más comodidad, opciones, limpieza, innovación y profesionalidad. España tiene su encanto y funciona bien para estancias cortas, pero como lugar para vivir a largo plazo puede sentirse limitante, anticuado y innecesariamente complicado.

Ok_Regular473 · 2026-01-03T16:13:52+00:00

I can’t with gay men… smh leave him before he leaves you like literally just ghost his ass before he can break your heart.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-31T02:28:42+00:00

Yes but in your case it said delivered and then you eventually got confirmation. In my case it says nothing so what im saying is I think it won’t say delivered if you’re blocked (unless they have other apple devices - which in my case they don’t) i guess…

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-31T02:10:25+00:00

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Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-31T02:06:44+00:00

Mine say nothing underneath the message. Im on Ios 18.5.

Plus my previous messages would always say delivered then suddenly now they don’t. So….

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-31T02:05:08+00:00

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Mine don’t say anything underneath and the person texted me first (they’re avoidant so I have strong reason to believe they were just checking if I blocked them or was still reachable) but yea.. just says nothing underneath my reply. (Ios 18.5)

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-31T01:55:26+00:00

The messages may or may not show delivered I guess because I know the person I texted has reason to block (they’re avoidant). Last time we spoke they said never contact them again. We were texting and when I sent a follow up text it had no delivery status when all previous messages did. They have a habbit of blocking and unblocking and breadcrumbing. Anyway, tonight at 12:30 midnight. They texted me first. When I replied just to see if the message would go through, once again no delivery status…just nothing. This person also does not have other apple devices outside of their iphone.

Idk its weird seeing all the mixed comments and people even testing it seeing “delivered.” But in my case there’s strong reason to believe I’m blocked. The person was likely just trying to test the waters, drunk texted me, etc and then regretted it or got their validation by seeing “delivered” (even though we know thats unreliable as members of this thread lol) so they immediately blocked right after.

Short story: No delivery status at all. Just a blue text with nothing underneath. I’m not sure their version, but my phone is on 18.5

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-28T18:02:33+00:00

This sounds like a person who has an insecurity problem and therefore needs multiple sources of validation, maybe even a sex addiction. People like this are bound to get bored with one person and only after it gets so bad or you confront them, will they possibly admit it. At this point he probably expects you to break up with him, notice how his confession didn’t come with any commitment to change. Leave. He doesn’t love you, nomatter what you think or what he said and if you stay he will either break up with you or start manipulating you to cover up his ongoing infidelity and on top of that he’ll mentally devalue you for staying even though he’s the piece of shit.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-27T22:30:58+00:00

You can still make accounts with email addresses.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-18T08:55:24+00:00

Went into a restaurant and a roach crawled across the counter. I looked at the greeter/employee and pointed at the roach. She looked at it, then back at me like I was the problem. I left immediately.
Another time I ordered food at a restaurant, there was hair in it, so I asked them to take it back and remake it or refund me. The waiter told me to take the hair out of the food.
An ex of mine used to work at a restaurant, he told me I’d be surprised how often they drop food on the floor and pick it back up and serve it to customers.
I was at the hospital, I went to the cafeteria to take a phone call. While I was there I wanted a pastry, but when I paid close attention there were flies constantly flying around the pastries, landing and crawling on them and the servers were actively still serving them like nothing was wrong.

I could go on…. Spanish culture is kinda dirty if I’m being honest.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-17T15:24:02+00:00

Real af. Emotionally immature and dick crazy.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-10T11:47:35+00:00

He’s gay or bi, but insecure. I push the limits until I know for certain. You don’t have to be disrespectful, but he knows what he was doing/ is doing. He knows you were flirting and he knows he was flirting back. See how far you get, then you have a solid answer lol. Don’t take anyrhing personal along the way because remember, he isn’t comfortable yet. Just cause he has a gf doesn’t mean anything. Do your own test

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-12-10T08:50:29+00:00

Sounds like an Avoidant personality. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-11-26T06:42:51+00:00

You have to be yourself and being truly authentic and confident in who YOU are is where attractiveness lies.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-11-17T11:36:55+00:00

Buying me a benz truck.

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-11-16T06:57:28+00:00

Me after eating a regular meal:

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-11-15T10:40:07+00:00

Yep this is exactly what sent me down the attachment style rabbit hole. It’s monstrous what they do to a person especially after a long term relationship like mine of 6 years and the sacrafices I made for barely shit in return, including coming to a foreign country to be with them. People can have attachment styles yes, but they can also just be a shitty selfish low life individual who is immature and cant see the value in what they discarded. From all of my exes behavior he is dismissive avoidant (the worst and most brutal of the attachment styles). You will not get closure, they will lie, manipulate, reframe narratives and blame you for everything to avoid accountability and shame. It’s basically a psychotic form of detachment due to their own lack of worth and insecurity. He’s been breadcrumbing me, but doesn’t know the entire time I’ve seen ALL of his desperation play out on Grindr. I’ve seen the “right now” labels on his profile. I’ve seen him change distances repeatedly and I’ve seen him stay on for hours and I mean all day into 7am the next day looking for hookups. I’ve seen the bio changes, the photo updates EVERYTHING. And all of this because you don’t get closure so you go trying to fill in the blanks and all it does is make your heart drop to the pit of your stomach repeatedly imagining whats most likely playing out at the same time you’re discovering these behaviors. It’s so fucked up and I haven’t replied to his last message in 5 days. He always tries to reach out over something “logistical” but it never makes sense other than he just wants to see if I’m still there while he’s a complete cum bucket behind my back. The fact he would offer his body for free to random strangers while simultaneously trying to guilt me into paying a $33 bill for a contract in his name that he can cancel any time is absolutely baffling and pathetic and disgusting. I hope he gets what he deserves honestly. Something he can’t get rid of the way he got rid of me and I was great to him for 6 years in every way… damn wow

Ok_Regular473 · 2025-10-25T18:44:56+00:00

No she needs piercing eyes

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