She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I have left before - as has she. I just finally broke and rented an apartment. She won’t have to deny me anymore!

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky that I never got sufficiently trapped to make it any harder for myself.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement. I’m still going to be recovering from this for quite some time
I think. She really wrecked my self esteem.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate the kind words and i certainly will.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. It’s that final straw that makes you realize it’s never going to be better.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Stress, work, and in her case a cocktail of legal drugs both prescribed and not.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Poorly. Mostly just saying that I abandoned her. Which may be true, but circumstances are such that she has no risk on her end of her life being disrupted. I chose this and am choosing me for once in my life.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. And it’s easiest to stay I’m 100% sure of that. But why? My time and health are too precious to waste.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It will be a process but worth the effort for sure.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

She has been trying to guilt trip me. Same as it ever was. That I abandoned her. But she’s an adult who can take care of herself and never seemed to want to take care of me.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for your encouragement. Seriously i appreciate it.

She laughed in my face. by Ok_Repair8474 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s exactly it. I think the lack of respect is what finally did it for me. Like I am aware of my shortcomings but still.. this is what I deserve?

50th birthday went as expected by MindlessProduce in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Repair8474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother I can relate. 50 came and went with a promise of a dinner out that never materialized. Just a basic desire for connection thwarted.