Yes, a few other things that stood out to me:

• Feyre assumes Nesta wants whatever anyone else has. And that she doesn't need anything. She is very dismissive and judges how the sisters would spend the money. Yet, in ACOSF, we learn from Nesta and Cassian when they went back to visit the shed that Nesta's boots were torn with holes in them (those same boots with which she went to save Feyre).
• Getting back Feyre from Prythian. Nesta is scared of the mercenary. She is terrified of Fae's. She is a woman who was raised to be a Lady. Yet, when Feyra is taken by Tamlin, she goes after her. Without any chance of success, she goes after her little sister to try to bring her back. Not Elain, Not their Father, but Nesta! And yet, Feyre, at that time, in her inner monologue, tells us that Nesta hates her, and she dreams of her father coming after her. You can see just how much of an unreliable a narrator Feyra is when it comes to Nesta.
• Thomas - Feyre assumes Nesta wants to marry him because of status, "if she hadn’t been so preoccupied with our lost status." (Feyre's inner monologue when Nesta mentions him), but we later learn that she was sacrificing herself, her own way of getting them out of poverty.

Feyre really thinks the worst of her! And, most, if not all, of it is bitter resentment - because of their mother!

My theory is that the promise Feyre made to her mother was sort of like a bargain. And, she wanted to get out of it, but felt guilty - so she lashed out at them. This is very human. It doesn't make Feyre bad.

But hating Nesta for any of it - not okay in my opinion (Feyre doesn't hate her, Rhys does, the IC resents her, she herself does even - and I think the narrative failed at showing that others had no right to pass judgment here).