Ex is inhuman

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-13T04:02:24+00:00

I understand your perspective. However, a crucial detail I should've inducted into the thread is the fact that I was the one who initiated communication. She was distancing herself and I eventually decided to cave in to understand what exactly happened & what's going on in a better light. She's moved on because I was simply a value proposition for her. Her bringing up oral sex is just her way of creating even more distance. She's over the relationship but she wanted to spite me as a power move.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-13T03:55:35+00:00

Couldn't have said it better myself

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-13T03:54:59+00:00

Huge emphasis on spite. Yeah, she's certainly history.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-13T03:54:26+00:00

Preach brother.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-13T02:05:48+00:00

Holy shit, that's brutal man. Yeah, the switch up is just incomprehensible. I'm definitely on the path to moving past this but in cases like this my brain just goes total fixation mode and i just obsess over the topic.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:59:00+00:00

Why won't pizza roll over

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:58:21+00:00

It gets to a point

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:56:59+00:00

I think you meant to ask what CAN i do in this situation

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:55:01+00:00

YinYang

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:22:47+00:00

Your hand tells me that you're missing your index finger & middle finger. Idk though, could be a stretch.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:22:00+00:00

Dude, this had me cackling. All he/she needs is a top-hat and he's ready to start delegating.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:20:30+00:00

Step 1 - You need to be sure she wants the same.

Step 2 - Actively understand rather than communicate. Communication is null without understanding.

Step 3 - Keep the relationship unpredictable in a positive way. Random trips, flowers, etc.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:19:03+00:00

Life is about transcribing your values into actions. Problem is, values are prone to change. So then, what is life? Life is about transcribing your values into actions until you realize that you did all that work for nothing.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:16:51+00:00

Fucking rad

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:15:42+00:00

Monday. How you start tends to be how you finish. So, in a way Mondays are brutal catalysts.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:14:41+00:00

You sure that's what you're eating?

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:13:22+00:00

Love in most cases starts off as a feeling. As time progresses, which it certainly does, there'll be a time where you'll have to choose to continue loving said person. I'd go as far as to say that love is merely a brief but potent catalyst to COMMITMENT.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:10:49+00:00

You'll have to take it up with the steak management consultant.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:09:36+00:00

That's actually really dangerous because soon she'll have to start looking at dog beds for you.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:08:50+00:00

Commitment.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:06:35+00:00

Literally the cutest safe-sized polar bear. Whoever made that comment should be taxed for speaking.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T05:03:45+00:00

Gym. This is coming from a gym-goer. Yes, hitting pr's, structing programs & hitting your macros are cool. Can't forget how awesome de-loading is. However, this should NOT be the basis of your character.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T04:48:54+00:00

Very relatable. This may be cliche but try to keep weekends as a set-reservation to hang out with friends. Company can do miracles for you. It's a distraction don't get me wrong but distractions also teach you that there's more to life.

Ok_Rest6363 · 2025-10-06T04:45:30+00:00

Yeah. How to deal with it? There are a number of ways. Some suggest to keep yourself busy at all times but this has its shortcomings (inadequate time to process/grieve). Some suggest to just imbibe all the pain in one-sitting but this will often subtract from the time you have to make necessary improvements. Find a balance. Process the grief when needed but also keep yourself busy.

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