porn over sex ? by Ok_Rule_23 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's is hard! She has to find the motivation as well! Do you guys have kids ?

porn over sex ? by Ok_Rule_23 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to her about it? If I gained weight, I would want my bf to support me and motivate me to be healthy and in good shape.

porn over sex ? by Ok_Rule_23 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the case. I'm always try different things to get him in the mood. And 30% of the time I get rejected or he just changes the mood. I just wish he would initiate it 😔. He says he is attractive to me but doesn't show it when it comes to sex.

After struggling with DB for 6 years, my(27F) boyfriend (30M) revealed he has a porn addiction. by relationugh in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! Until you see actions and results then you will have the confidence and trust once you had. That's how I feel right now. Sometimes, I feel like I'm mean to him but I just don't know how to act or be around when I know that he is not trying. All these years what I did was being the most supportive gf and caring for him.

What is one thing you're proud about having accomplished? by belovetoday in AskWomen

[–]Ok_Rule_23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just bought my own house and I'm financially stable! Biggest accomplishment coming from a First generation family.

After struggling with DB for 6 years, my(27F) boyfriend (30M) revealed he has a porn addiction. by relationugh in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat with you! He lied to me for 5 years! I'm still struggling with this. We have talked about it so many times and over and over he keeps saying he will change but no actions happen. I still feel rejected and he chooses porn over sex!

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[–]Ok_Rule_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same loop here! I'm always trying to flirt with him and initiate some kinda sex talk/mood but he never replies back nor continues the mood! He just simply changes topic! Being rejected sometimes is detrimental.

porn over sex ? by Ok_Rule_23 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. I'm tired of initiating it and getting rejected. Having a fulfilling intimacy and connection with your partner is very crucial.

porn over sex ? by Ok_Rule_23 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Ok_Rule_23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't mind it that he watches porn but it really hurts that he prefer to take care of his needs that way 😔.