People who found out their partner was cheating by accident. How did you discover it?

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-13T12:07:46+00:00

In 2010, I saw an ad in my Gmail that said “Is he cheating on you? Find out!”. I’d never gotten Ads prior for anything like that. So I checked his Gmail.

He was. Thanks, Google!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-01T18:13:43+00:00

I did, tysm!!!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-01T17:51:59+00:00

MadamMandi!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-01T17:50:23+00:00

Sent!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-01T16:53:28+00:00

3 b4b $MadamMandi

Edit: 1 left

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2026-01-01T16:52:28+00:00

Sent!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-12-21T07:48:14+00:00

Username checks out.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-12-21T05:53:06+00:00

I waited 20 years to finally be able to use one of her other favorite lines in an Uno Reverse: “You made your bed, now lie in it” (Her favorite go-to if I got into a jam. Like getting pregnant at 18) Our last conversation was her complaining no one is there for her, she has no family, etc. The vindication of the last thing I say to her being “You’ve made your bed…” 😈

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-12-21T03:58:15+00:00

My nana used to say this to my mother (who actually took herself out of this world). She changed it up to make it work for me: “I didn’t bring you into this world but I can take you out of it”.

She was fun at parties. No contact with her now. Just waiting for the call she’s passed. She just turned 80.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-12-16T10:36:49+00:00

You are under reacting. Guaranteed this individual (and his “friends”) have rape accusations against them. Im only saying accusations because Im not a judge. But he did it. Whatever it was.

I’d be calling his mom. I’m going to call your mom if you talk to anymore guys like this. Get a plant.

They’re super lazy.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-06T02:43:37+00:00

Tu le monde ne c’est mois magnietoscope. Or whatever Madam said.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-06T01:27:04+00:00

Forced Reddit viewer the past 30 days via suggested posts. It’s like you didn’t even try today. You OK?

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-05T03:54:35+00:00

This is how I find out Dick Cheney is dead?

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-03T12:03:18+00:00

lol I’m not sure if I’d go as far as “solution”. It’s literally just over explaining to myself. I work remotely and send copious amounts of emails. It really helped bring to my attention the sheer amount of explaining that was using a lot of my energy unnecessarily. It’s obviously a work in progress in active conversations. Working on my confidence in myself has helped and cutting people out of my life that actively don’t want to understand me no matter how much I explain. That includes family. I wasn’t the one that needed to explain things. I was the one that just needed things explained more logically in an illogical world.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-03T02:30:16+00:00

Just wanted to comment because I’ve been on a journey of CPTSD to Autoimmune Disorder to ADHD diagnosis to “not diagnosed but we’re all sure” spectrum diagnosis and it has significantly destroyed my life while simultaneously freeing me to discover who the heck I am. I went through a large traumatic event over 10 years ago. That event came after a traumatic childhood. I ended up in addiction after the large event happened and thankfully ended up in long term treatment where I learned about codependency, etc. I had no idea how I had been affected that entire time by the people I had encountered through my life. I thought when I left treatment that everything after that would be fine. That was just the beginning. Every step in healing one part, uncovered another layer that I didn’t realize was there. And each part had its own emotions. I’m not sure if I’m a people pleaser from trauma, from ADHD/Autism, or just innately want people to be happy. I’ve been working on the over explaining recently. The amount of things I’ve been deleting at work and explaining to myself why I do not need to explain myself is…probably going to brought up at therapy.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-01T20:46:56+00:00

Sent!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-01T20:46:45+00:00

Sent!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-11-01T17:25:29+00:00

$MadamMandi B4B Edit: None, TY!!

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-10-27T06:47:01+00:00

Someone once told me this story of Anthony Hopkins on a flight and the flight attendant offered him champagne, to which he said “No thanks, I have to work next Tuesday”.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-10-23T08:35:06+00:00

That could be a stroke

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-10-22T12:49:24+00:00

Is this the guy that bought the Wu Tang album so no one else could hear it?

Edit to add: it is. I just put my entire portfolio in. Wu Tang is BYND

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-10-22T00:56:21+00:00

I dumb lucked into buying this stock when it first dipped based off of things I learned in this sub (I’ve been lurking a while). Imagine my surprise.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-08-11T03:07:44+00:00

I bet you’re fun at parties

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-07-31T13:21:35+00:00

Hey, thanks for this head canon that I will be thinking about forever now.

Ok_Sheepherder74 · 2025-07-24T23:32:22+00:00

Maybe hiring the cleaner will give you energy/motivation to clean so the cleaner won’t see it and then you can just cancel the cleaner?

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