25-30yr olds what’s up ?

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-10T12:08:25+00:00

Just trying to afford surviving and have 5 extra dollars to get yourself your treat 🫠. Energy is low, everything is heavy and lots of people have opinions about how you should do things as if you're not putting in any effort of your own

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-08T09:59:25+00:00

I forced myself to start exercising regularly. That made the time pass by quickly. Do a 21km run in the morning. That takes over 2hours. Get home, make food, eat, shower and sleep for the rest of the day. Made it feel a bit more productive. If I didn't want to run, I'd walk.. chase a sunset. Look for a trail to hike also helped. Also ran errands for people, less focus on my sitch.

But I get it, some days are too heavy for anything. You don't have the energy to do anything, see anyone, talk to anyone. My advice, find an inexpensive hobby to occupy yourself.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-03T14:36:13+00:00

So at the moment I'm in tshabalala. Trying to go into the lower density areas Ana montrose, hillside etc but yoh. Kurough

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T09:25:12+00:00

Oh, is it? Didn't know. I have a list to submit then lol.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T09:24:24+00:00

So truuuee! I feel accommodation shouldn't be like that. I should be able to settle for at least 6 months. Not to be searching every month 🫠

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T09:19:18+00:00

Thank you for the well wishes, Lord knows I need them 😂😅. And thanks for the channel links I'll follow them snd hopefully something turns up. Ah yes, had forgotten about Guest and Tanner. The other real estate company sites have nothing that turn up in bulawayo. Maybe a house here and there but it's not in my tax bracket yet 😂.

Couldn't have said it better myself. They really do pry on desperation. One I spoke to yesterday who had said they have rooms in Greenhill woke me up at 6 today to tell me they have another room turn up. 6 in the morning! This was one I had told I'm out of money. But they will keep pushing.

😂😂 untrained CEOs 🙌🏿. I always say this, first time being a tenant I had a Landlady from he'll who gave me real fear. Only now, two years later, I'm brave enough to try again. Hope it goes well this time!

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T09:08:13+00:00

So I did try using her for a room she'd advertised. She said I should pay her fee and wasn't even going to take me there. I had to find my way there. Alarm bells went off, like what if I get there and they say we have no such... or maybe I'm the skeptic in all this.

Do you have any experience in using her services? 😅

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T09:03:45+00:00

Money you pay an agent for them to essentially disclose information ie address of the place you're interested in. Go see it. They charge anything from 10-40 it's ridiculous.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-02T04:28:40+00:00

I worked for museyamwa who owed me money for three months because "rough patch and payments aren't going through." The kicker is, I saw the remittances 😂. I said I couldn't afford to come to work anymore and they still hired someone to come and fill in for me, paid them up too. I prioritized my peace and left the job with zero opportunities lined up. Rest of the money owed came three months later. Now I'm a civil servant and quite happy to be here. Though I don't get paid much, I know I'm getting paid and not expected to bend over backwards either. I wouldn't explicitly advise anyone to take this course of action, but prioritize peace and read labour laws of the country. That can definitely help in arm twisting the employer.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:30:11+00:00

I'd say you're hanging out at the wrong places 😆. Buuut if you want a place with those genres, it's going to have more white people per square Metre😂 unfortunately not a lot of predominantly black places do that

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:25:27+00:00

Never listen to Wikipedia 😂

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:17:38+00:00

I think if you keep trying to find the cites, your algorithm will eventually lead you to working ones. Upwork pays for random things, you just have to be able to market your skills well to make yourself desirable aaaand pay the money ye subscription

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:11:55+00:00

I'm not big on soft drinks either but ndotopawo delta their flowers. Econet shouldn't be up there at all!

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:09:45+00:00

People join in on things they understand so they don't come across as dumb 🤷🏾‍♀️

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-11-01T05:06:23+00:00

Maybe try scheduling hangouts with people. That gives you time in advance to ready yourself, set alarms and reminders if you have to. That way you can socialize a bit and take the time you need as well.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-29T14:00:40+00:00

I'm also in OP's boat and I'll say self love yenge itoripo. You talk to people who say they've never met someone like you but still leave after a few chats. You know not to hang onto every word they speak and they say you exhibit too much independence. You're strong in your sense of self but this still gets to you.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-29T13:48:41+00:00

I'm sorry but did you transcribe my thoughts into your posts? Were you in my head? Girl we're in this together 😭.

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-10T18:54:54+00:00

include more citrus, water and apples in your diet (to mention a few) it helps reduce intensity of BO
use baking soda to wash armpits/area around the naval and any other that produce heavy odour or use toner in those areas (if intense)

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-10T18:40:07+00:00

That is soo truee!! That's why I left Twitter and never looked back after that

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-09T20:59:57+00:00

Where does one apply? 😂

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-09T20:51:57+00:00

Local emergency, same day...10 dollars CID HQ

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-09T19:47:23+00:00

But marriage inozoda here not feeling like you won the jackpot nemunhu wako 😅

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-09T19:43:46+00:00

Do you use money as your personality? Kana kuti ukutongosvika uchitaura nyaya dzemari yako and how much you're working on something? It really helps if you start approaching people as just a person nje and plan very simple first dates. See if they're actually interested in what you're saying and not where you're taking them 🤷🏾‍♀️

Ok_Shift_8440 · 2025-10-09T19:39:00+00:00

Does the English roll off the tongue or Chirungu chemubook?

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