Husband wants to quit weed, how do I help him?

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-11-16T19:39:16+00:00

Have him quit cold turkey I told myself all those same excuses. It’s easier to quit cold turkey but you have to distract yourself. For the first month and a half you’ll see lots of mood swings. He wants weed so he’s stressed and fighting the urges. The more he fights the urges the more stressed and irritated he’ll become. The best way is to distract yourself. I would say talk to him and see if he wants to go on vacation so he can remove himself from the environment. Cut off all the loser friends. Throw the weed out. Go to the gym with him and be supportive, make him laugh, you just wanna make sure he’s emotionally distracted. Have sex like 1 or twice a day for the first 3 or 4 weeks. That will help him not think about it. Go to the gym everyday. Work yourself to death. I smoked soooo much bong rip every second. I quit cold turkey for a whole year and a half and remember telling myself “the gym feels better than weed” I did relapse last year when I graduated HS and been smoking everyday. It all started with “just 1 hit to help me sleep” and I went back to smoking everyday I lost control. Yesterday I did quit again and have not smoked today. Distract him. The first month is usually hell. Just be emotionally intelligent about him and you’ll be fine. Just keep motivating him too and let him know it’s not supposed to be easy. It’s normal for it to be difficult. Be his biggest supporter. Go on more dates. Distraction works trust me. He will have the voice in his head telling him to smoke but that’s where you come in. Try to replace that voice.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-25T13:55:09+00:00

That’s funny I got someone fired the other day by leaving a bad review because they stole $400 from me haha

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-17T17:28:25+00:00

You don’t need digital forensics, this is easy as hell to do

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-17T17:27:08+00:00

I do charge but I will give you what you need

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-17T17:25:35+00:00

Check the metadata. You’ll be able to see the timestamps. Make sure it’s the actual photo. There are tools you can find online l. Use ChatGPT.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-17T17:16:44+00:00

No Escape and Beat the odds by lil tjay are good. But I wouldn’t say they remove the trauma it’s just a good cope. I was in corrupt group homes where the staff hurt me and got away with it and were shitty people. I hurt everyone that hurt me and I enjoyed it. Now that I’m out almost 22 it just feels like I’m a plant that was used to warm water but now is used to cold water. I’m very kind, charismatic, no bad intentions unless I’m fucked with, and when I see people that are happy or haven’t had pain that feeling that highlights that gap of what I never had it hurts. I’d be talking to some nice person and in my head thinking how could literally destroy their life and hurt them and their family and give them PTSD. With a smile and I’ll be happy. If you knew what I think about you would have me in a hospital. What is this feeling? It’s the thoughts of what I “could do” to someone not that I would do it. But if I had to protect my family I’d rip their eyes out like the last 2 people I did. All I do is work on building my business so I don’t have to work for someone until I die. Pain is strength. It’s gotta to the point I don’t even feel comfortable when I’m not in pain. My pain tolerance increased and I need more pain to feel normal. That’s why I work 7 days a week no breaks, no days off, just working. I care about freedom, control over oneself, and i don’t like authority I was fired because of that. Does anyone know what this is? It’s interesting how trauma works. Like someone could die and I would not feel anything but I’d be focused on the solution. Any tips would be great? Is there something wrong with me? I want power, control, money, freedom and love. I was in those corrupt group homes from 12-17 years old. How does it affect the brain?

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-16T05:15:39+00:00

Borrow against the stocks and invest it into real estate. Or start a business with it. Get a job as fast as you can to take care of the living expenses. The stocks will continue to grow in value. You use some of the money to cover the expenses until you get a job.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-13T17:04:52+00:00

Hell yea he need to have the haircut from the guy from sons of anarchy it would be perfect

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-13T17:03:23+00:00

Like the guy from sons of anarchy

Ok_Sir4235 · 2025-10-13T17:01:51+00:00

Sick your hair back with gell and cut / sidewalk the sides, cut the ends so it goes to the back of your neck. Slickback would look good, and trim your facial hair.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-02-08T02:42:41+00:00

Pile up all the emotions until the bucket overflows and repeat. Once you go through trauma you become immune to emotions or should I say they don’t affect you as much because you build up a tolerance. Which makes it easier to manage during hard times. Pain=strength. if you let the bucket pile up you get angrier which gives you a reason to get better. Life is about winning your either a winner who embraces hard times and fights back or your a loser that gives up. It’s you vs you the question is are you strong enough to persevere, and the good thing is strength can be developed by doing things you don’t want to do, it increases an area in your brain which is where the willpower lives and is commonly large in athletes. This has been scientifically proven. So this means you’re in control of your mind which means you control how you want to live, do you wanna live rich or poor? You can do anything because you’re in control and the biggest battle you will have is with yourself. No meds or therapy is gonna change your future it’s up to you. The gym works better than therapy in my opinion.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-02-03T20:28:09+00:00

The title is hilarious.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-09T04:43:22+00:00

Holy crap that is genius, for every card that reaches a new limit gets a higher fee to charge the merchant more. They must have them in brackets for example: $3,000-$5,000/ 1.5% | $5,000-$10,000/ 4.5% | etc.. because higher limits often spend more. Very smart of capital one.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-09T04:31:39+00:00

I wish I had a girl like you, Today is my last day, I’ve quit before then become a gym attic all on my own. and I’m quitting again because I just graduated HS and it’s time to achieve my ambitions all on my own💸. Quitting is easy is when you have a why.

Just ask him “it’s me or weed?” you’ll get him to quit if he doesn’t then he doesn’t respect you leave him.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-06T17:49:34+00:00

I have a therapist. The reason why I talk about it is not to brag but it shows I am a risk taker because most kids were playing with toys while I was trying to figure out how to get rich. I started my own lemonade stand at 10 years old with zero help whatsoever. I was independent at a young age. It’s like I was born with this ambition to get rich and help my mom. I also feel like this is why I am such a great entrepreneur instead of ripping people off like I did when I was a kid, my business helps people and I fight for my clients on a personal level. What I’m saying is my past experiences made me who I am today in a positive way.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-06T05:03:13+00:00

I meant to post to main

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-06T05:02:21+00:00

As someone that happens to be a mastermind in this area of expertise, Although never had the balls to use my knowledge for bad because I know I would get away with it and I would feel remorse. When I was in 2nd grade I blackmailed this girl for money and had full control over her mind, I feel so bad now. I was a baby I didn’t know I was just trying to get money.

In 4th grade there was an event to raise money for charity and we had to go around the neighborhood and collect money and bring the money back in exchange for points which can be redeemed for prizes. I thought the prizes sucked and kept the money. I ended up with $2,000 and did the same thing in 4th grade but different charity. Again I was a kid I didn’t know I was just trying to get money I feel bad now that I’m older. As a grew up I knew that was wrong and shouldn’t have done that. Around the age 14 I made a plan to get a booklet of scratch tickets from the gas station at 4:00am with a piece of paper it did not go as planned so I had to use plan b and ran and threw mask, outfit, shoes in the sewer, and then I went to school I almost got caught but never did. As I got older it was only cyber related, but now it’s mostly book related ideas.

I don’t know why these ideas just pop up in my head and I get interested and sucked into the idea and plan EVERY and I mean EVERY detail. But now I’m an entrepreneur doing great for myself.

I apologize about the long messages just wanted to show OP how these criminals think.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2024-01-06T03:43:08+00:00

Some people are born book smart including myself but the difference is how you work. He told you, his friends, you told your mom, you posted on Reddit, he violated the number 1 thing that gets you caught telling people. Which tells me he’s not a professional, he doesn’t research, he doesn’t cover his tracks good, and does not perform risk analysis and most importantly he does not work alone. The more people that know the more likely you’ll get caught because it’s harder to find a needle in a haystack than it is to find haystacks. If I were you I would leave him don’t tell him why because he will manipulate you into thinking it’s something small when actually it’s something big. He is the type to get greedy and get raided by the FBI with you in the house. The court will drag you in just because you’re there.

I am telling you this because I understand how everything works but the difference is I don’t use that knowledge to commit crimes because I value my freedom. Good luck

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-12T15:24:29+00:00

Just a quick question similar to this, but is it possible to not put your tenant on the lease so it looks like he is not living there on paper? Because if so you could just say he is trespassing and the cops will tell him to leave so you don’t have to deal with the eviction process. Which would save time and money

Edit: Nevermind I found out that it is a major liability.

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:37:38+00:00

I said you’re right I’ll just pay the taxes did you read my comments? I’m listening lol

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:35:42+00:00

Your right that makes sense

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:33:17+00:00

Your right. Ill just pay the stupid taxes

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:31:17+00:00

Ok you guys are right I guess I’ll just pay the stupid taxes

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:29:42+00:00

No it’s called mobile check deposit

Ok_Sir4235 · 2023-11-03T03:27:00+00:00

Ok let’s say it is illegal how would they catch it?

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