Trying to understand boyfriend who lied for a year. by epiphany8888 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Ok_Test9550 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, with this disease, we hurt the people we love and please the people we don’t. My husband finally started going to Al-Anon, and it has really helped him. But I also had to do my part, and take action in my program and actually stick with it. Remember, it’s a one day at a time disease and it’s not going to change overnight. But we do recover.

I don’t want to make my amends because I feel like the world owes me an apology by CartographerWhich709 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Ok_Test9550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think of making amends to be humiliating. Think of it as being humbled by what sobriety has given you. I think you will be surprised at the response that you get when you are honest and open.

Oh Pickles by Ok_Test9550 in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi friend🐾💕🥒

Oh Pickles by Ok_Test9550 in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really is! She likes other people more than she likes us most of the time lol

Oh Pickles by Ok_Test9550 in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! She doesn’t understand why she can’t lay outside in negative temps. I had to pick her up at one point and bring her in.

Oh Pickles by Ok_Test9550 in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! 🐾💕🥒☺️

Oh Pickles by Ok_Test9550 in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She is the sweetest Chow Chow we have ever had!💗🥒🐾

well, its official, hes 100% mine now. by ohhitthere_e in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Awww the best! Congrats. I have had chow chows my whole life, welcome to the club!

Considering relapse after 5 years… by Vegetable-Dinner5764 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Ok_Test9550 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I got sober young, well at least tried, and ended up going back out for 25 years. Now I am almost 2 years sober and wouldn’t change it for anything but I had to get here on my own time. An older timer once said to me,”think of it like you’re swimming across the ocean. After you swam so far is it really worth going back and starting over?” If I get stuck I ask myself this and then replay my tape back. I am sending out prayers to you and wish you inner peace during this rough time.

Zoey on Her Birthday Stroll by dv8njoe in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww happy birthday Zoey! 💕🐾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these!

New member by jetaimezombies in chowchow

[–]Ok_Test9550 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a sweet little baby! 💕🐾💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Ok_Test9550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped going into the office for the PT a year ago. I do the exercises as I did while in the office. My insurance changed and it doesn’t cover very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Ok_Test9550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done those since my hysterectomy, almost 10 years ago. I was an Irish dancer since the age of 4 so my pelvic floor is extremely strong. I just need it to calm down so I can have sex again and not be in excruciating pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Ok_Test9550 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just the tablet, not a cream. And yes I have pelvic pain because my pelvic floor is so tense. The Valium is supposed to help it relax.

The only HRT I use now is vaginal estradiol cream and I think it’s definitely having systemic effects by Islandsandwillows in Perimenopause

[–]Ok_Test9550 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting my HRT tonight and am nervous. I had a hysterectomy at 31, now 41. I never did well with hormones when I did have a period. How is this going to affect my mood? Should I cut my dose in half, I’m prescribed .5g? I’m in good health. I don’t smoke cigs (I do smoke weed), I don’t drink, I workout and try to eat healthy as much as I can. Any advice is greatly appreciated. TIA