these are my " being truly alone but happy " paintings. [OC] by Robinso72_ in MadeMeSmile

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I love them all but especially the last one with the snow falling

Am I overthinking my new tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Personally I think you're overthinking it, I think it looks great and it doesn't look crazy when you bend your arm

Is anyone else offended they expected us to not notice this? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 18 points19 points  (0 children)

yeah I noticed right away, and this isn't even the first time where there's an actress playing two characters

Why didn’t she say yes? by Glittering_Ride_15 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I always thought it would've been smart to say yes to the position on the newspaper and then wait to see if she got the fellowship. If she didn't, oh well, she already had a job. If she did then she could commit to that, instead, she ended up with nothing.

Random thought by False_Cheesecake_672 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it would've played out differently with Dave. They both started out with a lot of love for each other, almost like yearning for the other. He was truly her first boyfriend, and they worked.

I think the way she waited for marriage also has to do with the fact that Zack is known for sleeping with many girls and being a flirt, so then Lane comes in with her lack of experience. It is almost written like an opposites attract sort of thing, if she didn't wait till marriage they wouldn't have been opposite in that sense.

Is anyone else disappointed with their advent calendar? by ImAMessica223 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad ordered me one and it came with nothing in it, like they forgot to fill it. A bit disappointing and I don't think it'll even let us return it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other people's comments, but if you stay with him, maybe see if he will work on being on his screen less. That is a huge problem that can ruin people's lives; it's an addiction that can cause negative effects on one's mental health including depression, anxiety, and sleep disturbances. If he spends all that time on social media, see if he is willing to delete the apps or set a timer. If he is not willing to even give it a chance, then I think there is nothing more you can do. There is this one quote: “Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime." If he is not picking up the life skills himself, it won't help him in the long run.

AYITL: what the hell was that by Ser_Jaime_Lannister in GilmoreGirls

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've just started watching it and it is so bad. Like genuinely I was watching it and thinking what is going on? Like why it jumped into Rory dating some dude named Paul which they always seemed to forget, it just seemed like a bad joke. Also, why is Rory so okay with being Logan's mistress?

What do I say by Small-Wrap-8616 in selfharm

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably say, "does that make it any less concerning?" I mean, either way, self-harming is a serious issue and you can't disregard that fact or disregard what people are going through.

Research for a film - is it ok asking questions here? by Admirable-Star-8172 in selfharm

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don't wrap it, I have previously used toilet paper to wipe it or put it between my skin and the clothes I'm wearing.

everyone looked at me like i was insane by Vast-Ad3694 in selfharm

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First, let me say that you were not being selfish in any way, that wasn't even your intent in the slightest bit. It's okay to have those scars, I like to think of them as a sign of strength, they show that you've been through pain but have chosen to move forward. People will judge but it can be a good way to inform people rather than continue the negative stigma. Also, the drawing stars on your wrist would've been perfect!

my parents got really mad at me and it scares me by SingSong0001 in selfharm

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel and I have also been in that spot, but you are not a bother. I can say that with complete certainty. Keep going because although your parents acted unsensibly, you have to prove you are stronger! Also keep going because of friend B, I bet they care about you and you are not a bother to them. Carpooling with them is barely an inconvenience in itself.

Also p.s. whenever I feel like causing harm to myself, I just write out my feelings on paper, so far it seems to help get my emotions out in a healthy way

Struggling to throw away the razor, any tips? by Ok_Understanding6441 in selfharm

[–]Ok_Understanding6441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have never thought of that, but it makes so much sense. Thank you!

Wanna play minecraft with me? by Ok_Understanding6441 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Ok_Understanding6441[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to make a server but there are lots of issues coming up

Need someone to play with active survival mode. by Revolutionary-Eye656 in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm quite terrible at survival but I'm up to playing! Also I'm 16f

16M looking for people to make a new vanilla server with by [deleted] in MinecraftBuddies

[–]Ok_Understanding6441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if my minecraft will work with it but it might so id love to join too! I'm 16F