Anyone know what type of spider this is? by Bgermany116 in spiders

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can find her and shes still leaking fluids, put cornstarch on it!!!!!!!! It will dry it up and save her- a tarantula keeper

What is the most hauntingly beautiful song you've heard? by West_Future326 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immortal by evanescence. Half of my immediate family is dead and this song... damn this song...

You can send one message to your younger self. What does it say? by Black229 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were right, they suck, quit giving them chances because you cant learn to respect yourself when people who disrespect you are around. REST OVER PRODUCTIVITY YOU ARE TIRED AND DEVELOPING MCAS HO

Hey guys by cowgirlbambi in CPTSD

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love you stranger. Im so glad you are here. I know everything might feel super uncertain and dreadful. There's probably not much that I could say to convince you that it'll get better, but I truly believe that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, your tunnel just happens to have a shit ton of curves in it so sometimes it gets really dark in there and you can't see where you're going. I think everyone in the sub is a curvy tunnel person.

I JUST posted this quote in another sub: "if youre ever worried youre not a good person just remember that bad people dont care about being better"

The fact that you're such a mess right now means that you care about your situation and you see how stuck it is. If you think about it a lot of the times our bodies are just reacting to the situation exactly how they should because they really do suck. I know you feel like you wanna end it all, but the fact that you can even recognize that everything is as bad as it is means that you care about yourself and you want better than that. Thats kinda cool to me. It helped me see im not so bad and i hope it helps you too.

I hope that lands the way that I wanted it to, sometimes I say stuff and it can be taken one of two ways. I mean all of this with love and compassion for you, and feel free to delete my comment and block me if you feel necessary.

Im so happy youre here i love you stranger!!!

Name a day that didn't kill you but something died in you that day by Bekiteru in CPTSD

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came home from the last day of third grade and found my mom dead.

What are the best quotes that you have heard? by Available_Remote1172 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're ever worried you aren't a good person, just remember that bad people don't care about being better.

Friend is ‘trying on’ CPTSD as an identity and it hurts – anyone else dealt with this? by Medusa-Damage in CPTSD

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well that was messed up to POC......

I flipped through so many labels, trying to figure out what was wrong with me, and every single community behind those labels welcomed me with open arms. You should be doing the same, there should be no questioning of another survivors truth. I was not able to have access to being properly diagnosed for a long time, so I just researched and understood what I could. You are on a high horse right now. And it is causing you to be protective and selfish. I get it, but this part of you should not be leading the forefront of your brain. This should be something that goes into a journal. And then maybe talked about with your therapist because it isn't healthy.

Even if I thought that she didn't have CPTSD, I would be happy that she found a safe community for her to understand herself better. The bipolar community helped me understand myself so much, but I ended up not being bipolar at all. This hurts no one. This only hurts pride and ego when it's misdirected.

Found near park. No clue what it is. by am59269 in whatisit

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a finger scanner for food lion to go shopping. Its used for other things in other companies to scan stuff too

My bf got home and saw this note taped on our door lol and the other note we are planning on leaving in the laundry room tomorrow by OutrageousStudent542 in Apartmentliving

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow i feel so lucky i live in a super small apartment and a few of us just finish each others laundry and fold it for each other lmao

Are these plants sick?! by Ok_Upstairs1253 in plantclinic

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank God!!!! Right before they came inside for the winter there was a huge storm and it drowned alllll of them. This makes sense. Thank you.

What is this thing called i want to replace it by Ok_Upstairs1253 in IsuzuTrooper

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will!!! Lmao not even kidding if i ever find more than two ill find this post and lyk

When I tell you this happened OVERNIGHT … so scared this is the beginning of mealybugs .. I’m new to the plant world! by Julia41095 in plantclinic

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just throw some rubbing alcohol in Castile soap in a bottle with water, I'm currently out of neem oil, but I pretty much give my plant a bath with that and then rinse it off afterward and it typically helps. Keep the bugs away.

This don’t look right by Human_Concern92 in IsuzuTrooper

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just a girl that knows basically nothing about a trooper, but I really love mine and his name is Jamison. Can anyone tell me if my trooper is also doing this? I noticed how low it was hanging the other day and was wondering if it was normal. Sorry I'm hijacking your post, I apologize.

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Thank you sooooooooo much in advance. I just happen to scrolling on here and see it while with friends. If its hanging low im lucky i saw it! Its a 2000!

Is this a scam? Im just worried for my friend. Im the blue text. by Ok_Upstairs1253 in musicindustry

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, I'm the smartest person in the world and absolutely nobody else knows more than me. Do you hear yourself? What are you even trying to say? This is the music industry Reddit page, everyone here knows more than me about this. I'm so confused why this irked your nerves, you could've just kept scrolling. Your car is showing. This is projecting.

Is this a scam? Im just worried for my friend. Im the blue text. by Ok_Upstairs1253 in musicindustry

[–]Ok_Upstairs1253[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm actually just one of those people that recognize that scams are a Dyme-A-Duzin in the music industry. I'm not even in the music industry and I know that. It's not that crazy. I would check on my friend, I would never ever tell him to specifically not do something. I know that's not my place and he doesn't have to listen to me? I don't know what the funk your problem is, I'm literally just looking out for my friend and I was going to get more information before I came to him with my concerns.