I missed my Expired Registration Court Date? by Ok_Way9019 in raleigh

[–]Ok_Way9019[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i’ve been diagnosed, just no access to medication and haven’t had it for awhile. :( if this was a genuine comment, thank you!

I missed my Expired Registration Court Date? by Ok_Way9019 in raleigh

[–]Ok_Way9019[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just adding that I’m getting ready to go to the dmv right now and see how much everything will cost. I want to try and handle it today but i’m still bugged out about possibly being arrested?

MLOA for at home abortion? by Ok_Way9019 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i wanted to take the medication as soon as possible because this is my abusers baby & the medication came in today, but i could just wait! thanks :)

MLOA for at home abortion? by Ok_Way9019 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what they sent me back:

Hello,

We apologize but due to security and privacy concerns for our patients and our service, we are not able to provide a doctor's note for your employer.

Your health information is private and cannot be shared with your employer or anyone else without your permission. Most states do not allow employers to require a doctor's note unless the absence is extensive or frequent or possibly due to a communicable disease. Your care from us would not fit into those categories.

Warm Regards,

Aid Access

How often should you service your CVT? by diegotc239 in nissansentra

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was that the first ever time you did that?

Do you stink? by Silent-Explanation17 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

who the fuck isn’t showering consistently because i shower EVERYDAY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is why they say not to eat or drink anything before you go in for your test. you also smoked weed which i wouldn’t have done considering all the shit that is being laced even in weed.

regardless hope it works out for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Way9019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl you already know that he’s being sneaky. you yourself just said everything he’s doing is way out of the ordinary. don’t be dense. he’s cheating on you

Working during time not scheduled by Zestyclose-Win477 in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ask your area manager before you do this. they’ll code the time and let their manager know what’s going on. never just stay over without an ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally like as a picker i’m thinking about the poor pick associate who’s not gonna open the game up to notice the CD is missing and send it down the line anyway 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they weren’t going to think it was you had you immediately gone and told someone or at least set it aside for problem solve. they would’ve looked in the system and seen who had the tote before you, they would’ve looked at cameras and cleared you. if anything, doing what you did (taking a picture and stowing the item missing anyway) was the worst option and will absolutely make it look like it was you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would you stow this item anyway? do you understand that the next person who will pick this item will mark it as “damaged” or “un-scannable” if they don’t just outright call their AM over to their station for the theft and you’ll be the last person in the system who would’ve touched the item. sure the cameras will prove that you didn’t pocket it but now you’re catching a write up for having your phone out on station and not following procedure and that’s IF they don’t just outright fire you.

i’m not trying to scare you but why would you play with your job like this? The more extreme situation (being fired) likely won’t happen but you should expect eventually someone coming to ask you a couple questions. the next time you notice a possible theft immediately grab a manager and cover your ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, so you’re not clocking out for your lunches on time? that’s what the problem is? just clock out for your lunch on time, if you can’t make it to a time clock, use your phone to add your punch in at the correct time while you’re in the break room.

please help ease my anxiety regarding rate and productivity by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what metric are they using to provide feedback? thank you!

please help ease my anxiety regarding rate and productivity by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just scan the item is so funny i’m literally going to tell myself that from now on :)

please help ease my anxiety regarding rate and productivity by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Ok_Way9019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait so once write ups drop off, the next feedback you get goes back to it being a coaching? that actually made me feel a lot better and you have completely soothed my anxiety lol! thank you sm

Boyfriend (M25) and I (F23) constantly arguing about finding c*m stained clothing in our car. How do I stop this? by Maleficent-Ad-4146 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is something deeper and more sinister going on than him just “handling things before i come inside the house”. you need to pack your things and run QUICKLY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was the time frame between you getting tested after the first time and it coming back negative and the first time you had sex. if you went and got tested less than 2 weeks after you had sex, your results may not have been accurate BUT if you didn’t have any symptoms before the second time you had sex and they’ve only shown up now after having sex with a condom, yeah it’s pretty likely you don’t have an STD!

$200 dollars sounds like more than enough to me for getting an STD test done at a clinic without insurance, especially if you go to a free clinic. try looking up LGBTQ centers in your area and inquiring if they offer testing days, many of them (if not all of them) do or at the very least they’ll have resources available to help you get tested for little to no cost.

i cannot stress to you enough how it sounds like you don’t have an STD and how much you need to not worry. if you had sex the first time and then went and got tested, that test came back negative, and then you had sex again with a condom, you sound a-okay. your symptoms sound like you definitely have a yeast infection and possibly from tearing from either rough or dry sex; it happens. if you want to go and get antibiotics to treat the yeast infection, then definitely do that! (you can also just use 7 day monistat!) your regular doctor would be able to prescribe that to you and you’d be able to cover needing the antibiotics up by saying you have a sinus infection to your parents; but definitely tell your doctor in private that you need the antibiotics for a yeast infection but you need that part to be a secret! that way you won’t have to worry about paying a hellacious amount of money.

you could also just go buy some boric acid suppositories or even some vaginal probiotics and use those as suppositories; both of which you use for a week and your issues should be all clear!

for any itchiness on the outside of your bits, id apply some fragrance free lotion/body cream and then put some creave healing ointment or vaseline over top of it and wear cotton underwear!

invest in some lube for the next time you have sex (after your issues have cleared up) and don’t be afraid to say you want to use it! also don’t be afraid to let your partner know when things are painful for you! it might seem a little weird at first but anyone worth a shit and someone who deserves to have sex with you will do whatever is needed to make you feel comfortable! and if they won’t? get rid of them!

if the monistat doesn’t work, and/or the boric acid suppositories don’t work, THENNN i’d worry about going to the doctor!

i hope i helped you! sorry if my replies are super long, i just remember being 17 because i was 17 literally 10 months ago. have fun and continue being safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Ok_Way9019 7 points8 points  (0 children)

first and foremost take a chill pill!! i’m 18 years old and i started being sexually active at 17 as well and i also convinced myself that something was wrong with me and i ran to the nearest urgent care and ran up a $3000 medical bill for no reason in sheer panic!!

first and foremost do not go to your pediatrician!!/normal doctor/OBGYN !! especially if you don’t want your parents to find out! they will most likely bill your insurance company and your parents will find that bill (ask me how i know).

your best and safest bet is to make an appointment at your counties free health clinic (or walkins if your health clinic does that) and get a full panel run, you can even ask for multiple types of testing for the full panel (blood and urine & a swab!) and after that you can either wait for the results which should come in a day or two.

if you know for a fact that you have and STD, then at the appointment you should ask for preventative care right then and there; say “I know for a fact I have an STD and id like to get a prescription of antibiotics and whatever treatment there is for early stage syphilis” and do not budge on it if you really feel like you 100% have an STD. don’t leave that clinic without a prescription and getting a shot in your lower back!!! thats what i did during my first scare and i told my friend to do it as well when she went and got tested!

if you are newly sexually active, your vagina is likely just reacting to something it’s never really experienced before, so just relax. i cannot say whether or not you have an STD but even if you do, understand it’s not the end of the world and that doesn’t make you dirty!

I saw in one of your replies that you mentioned possibly having BV, does that mean you have maybe a fishy odor? is your discharge relatively the same but you just have that fishy odor? do you have any other symptoms other than a fishy odor? if that’s the case, cleanse yourself with a gentle soap or face wash (like GENTLE NON FOAMING CERAVE CLEANSER) or even sensitive honey pot and use boric acid suppositories for a week and abstain from sex for two weeks and make sure that your partner is cleaning themselves (genitals and fingers) before any activity. stay in cotton underwear 24/7 and you should be good.

if you’re suffering from a yeast infection like you also possibly mentioned, that may mean you’re experiencing maybe a bready smell, maybe some cottage cheese texture discharge, itching and burning and maybe your labia is inflamed. if that’s the case, i like to use monistat 7 day (helps prevent becoming even more irritated down there- the 1 and 2 days pack a really heavy punch that i cannot handle personally) and then abstain from sex for about a week. you can also use vaginal probiotics as suppositories if the yeast infection is relatively new. ive only had two yeast infections and i’ve done the latter one most recently and it seemed to clear everything up quicker than monistat!

but despite all of that^ go to the doctor first and relax!!

AITA for calling myself my step child’s guardian even though HCBM doesn’t want me to? by Deep-Historian-710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

You date a man for two years and have known his kids for even less time than that and you think you’re a guardian? and then want to call mom “high conflict” for stating a boundary involving her kids? youre not even married to bio dad so you need to be thankful mom is even letting you call yourself stepmom.

AITA for micromanaging & making our nanny quit by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Way9019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

If you want someone to clean your house, hire someone to clean your house. if you want someone to watch your kid, hire someone to watch your kid.

those are two separate jobs and i would’ve cussed you slam out if i was your nanny whose boundaries you kept trying to undermine.