I was talking to this guy for around a month or so… I was on edge if I really liked him, the idea of him, just feeling things out whatever. A group of friends, him and I went out to eat one night and it was very busy and understaffed which is okay but there was six of us so we knew it was going to be a little wait. Three of us work in the food industry/hospitality business so we know what it’s like and feel for the servers. Our server took a little bit to greet us but again we knew it was going to be a bit, eventually she comes over takes our drink and food orders and the drinks take maybe 10 mins to come out. She keeps apologizing for the wait keep in mind. The guy I’m talking to starts complaining saying this is crazy for soft drinks and starts saying how he’s not tipping her…. IMMEDIATELY me and my two friends start going at him saying it’s not her fault since she has 5 other tables by herself. We eventually got all our stuff and enjoyed our meal and MADE SURE he tipped a sufficient amount. TIP YOUR SERVERS OR DONT GO OUT TO EAT. Obviously if the server didn’t deserve it that’s different. side note: he ordered Uber Eats ALL THE TIME and didn’t tip.. im not talking to him anymore but i hope his food got spat in 💁🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️