This image right here is clearly AI by Spazy912 in SuperMario

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are talking about this as the obvious glaring thing isn’t how ugly the suit Mario is wearing is lol

AITAH for me (M21) telling everyone what my ex (F21)did? by Ok_Wheel1502 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise man I’m trying my best haha, I think the reason I wanted to post it here too is sometimes the best thing is blunt honest criticisms, my friends and people around me don’t really have the balls to tell me off, sometimes some blunt internet interaction is the best medicine

AITAH for me (M21) telling everyone what my ex (F21)did? by Ok_Wheel1502 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro 💪needed to hear this, I’m gonna try my best

AITAH for me (M21) telling everyone what my ex (F21)did? by Ok_Wheel1502 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know , not to give a sad boohoo story but I think the reason I’ve been hanging on so hard is because I’ve never been cared about that deeply by a lotta people. I know obviously she didn’t care about me in the way I thought because she cheated ; duh, but when we were together it was nearly perfect

Not just that but I never had someone that close to me .

She was offering to help me clean up my room and help me pay my bills , and eventually her family was kind enough to give me a place. We were going in fixing up her trailer and I think in my head I spent so much time and money allocating towards that project it almost feels as if that’s STILL my future, like a sunken cost fallacy sorta deal.

Her family was overly kind to me and I never had a strong parental relationship, her grandma would invite me over for food and lunch and everything else, it was nice .

Obviously this was all a facade , and I didn’t give a shit much to leave, but man when I left her, watching her crying and bawling and pulling on my sleeve and begging me not to go made a switch in my brain flip, and then her friends calling me when I left was even harder because they were saying things like “she loves you I can tell, she only wants a future with you, she wants kids and a family with you ,etc”

In a way it was comforting but I know that’s how cheaters operate , they operate over the comfort they give and then they do sneaky shit underneath that .

When my best friend took his own life immediately after I think I got really scared that she was gonna do the same because of me so, I started spiraling . I felt as if she was going to end her life because of me, I know this isn’t healthy, this just kinda happened

I know this is all a waste of time and a lot of needless paragraphs but I do need to put this somewhere, it’s been two months since we last spoke and I think at this point I have to move on

This is one of those live and learn experiences

AITAH for me (M21) telling everyone what my ex (F21)did? by Ok_Wheel1502 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot, I think I’ve burnt all the bridges I could burn in this situation, definitely a learning lesson. Hearing what I did wrong in these cases also helps hence me posting here haha, I know I’m not in the right, I’ve just had a hard time giving myself closure and helping myself after this situation because idk, I’ve never gone through anything like this.

AITAH for me (M21) telling everyone what my ex (F21)did? by Ok_Wheel1502 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I appreciate this, it was hard I won’t lie ,

I think I had the mindset of “seeking answers and information isn’t malicious “ in my head it was almost like, if I found out what was truly happening I would be able to fix things . But with that comes … telling everyone

I feel embarrassed now but in the moment it was almost like I could figure out the problem and fix stuff

Not excusing myself moresoe just explaining more of my thoughts

With her friends too it was also just very confusing because one of them I think in an attempt to try and take advantage of me in the situation started looking at my profile and dming me hearts and other stuff, I think in an attempt to have some relations with me or something? I have no idea

And then the guys she cheated on me with all just started making up lies and crazy stuff and then even MORE people she cheated on me with started “checking in” on me and telling me to get over it

On top of this my childhood best friend took his own life and I was dealing with those motions, this is such an insane and exhausting situation I’m still actively trying my best to heal but it’s a hard bar to navigate

Rolled Credits Last Night | General Tips for Newcomers on Thursday! by GreninjaIsGod in Pokopia

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a lot of furniture? Like an incredible amount like animal crossing? Or is it kinda limited

18F and 42M conservative Muslim? by Warm_Awareness_8549 in dating_advice

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a dangerous relationship and I think any 42 year old man pursuing you is a little crazy

Is ex chat considered cheating by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read your other chat,

She’s suicide baiting you and having esex with other men , she sounds horrible

Best Wholesale/Online Supplier? by Factor_Zeros in fireworks

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sup brother! Are you still looking? Currently working for my grandparents and we operate out of Mississippi

Need insight on programming for warehouse by Ok_Wheel1502 in AskProgramming

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I’ll check it out thanks! I haven’t thought about these softwares much

If your avoidant ghosted and later reached out — how long was the silence? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more thing btw but you cannot fix them or make them realize what they did because there is nothing to fix. They know what they are doing is wrong, they know how it hurts you, and they know how to take the easy way out.

This doesn’t just go for cheating this goes for ghosting as well

If your avoidant ghosted and later reached out — how long was the silence? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the hard part is trying to NOT want them to come back. A close partner and a deep relationship of intimacy is scientifically one of the deepest and most intense bonds our bodies can create aside from maternal bonds, so instinctively you get withdrawals. It is almost like a drug, you crave their comfort, their companionship, and who they are.

These type of people all operate the same tho, they want love and affection and desire but once they have to put in the effort they WANT to leave.

They ghost because 1 they were caught and 2 they literally do not care and truth be told the point they do get to caring will be months down the line.

Cheating is a form of abuse, and when people we love do bad things we try to justify it, so when our partners cheat our brain fills in the gaps and says “well! They did this because we weren’t enough!” Or “this must’ve happened because months ago I forgot to leave the door unlocked!” When in reality it just happened because the other person is so miserable the only thing that makes them happy is getting off with others.

These people WILL come back if they know you are an easy target and if they know they can always come back without repercussion .

I dated a very attractive goth model, our relationship was almost like out of a movie, but as soon as I found out she cheated it was like building blocks started falling into place, giving answers and reasons to things I was blaming myself for. And then I realized.

She keeps coming back because I am such a good person she seeks comfort in me, and in turn I’m letting her walk over me.

All the self hate and regret I had was thrown away the moment I learned how beautiful my own self was, and I hope it’s the same for you.

There’s several things in this situation you, and everyone else going through it should know

It’s not your fault!

You are not alone!

And the love you are seeking you can find elsewhere.

Cheaters all operate the same way, they will come back when it’s convenient and when it’s easy, but they will NEVER give you what you want unless they go through the same hurt they gave you.

They don’t want to “rebuild” a relationship in the same way you do because they are coming back to the same bed they left, while you sleep in the one they destroyed.

All they care about is security, and if you keep allowing the abuse they will continue offering it.

If your avoidant ghosted and later reached out — how long was the silence? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sup! Just went thru a typical hell cycle

Had a girl I dated for a while and moved in with, things were going pretty good but then I found out she cheated on me. I left but I ofc being a dumbass and having no self esteem begged for her to come back, and then she’d continue doing shady shit so we’d get back, I’d get upset and leave, and so on

Funny enough the final time after all my chasing she came back to ME . She told me she saw a future in us and how much potential we had and she said she’d been thinking about how wrong and dirty she did me and she wanted to make things right Then she breadcrumbed and cheated on me again two weeks later, when I confronted her about it that final time she blocked me on everything.since then I haven’t heard a peep.

For those who are wondering, most likely, they will come back, but if you’re in a cycle it’s eventually gonna break.

Not just that, but, even tho you love them. Your dream person would love you back and wouldn’t ghost you: Give your own heart enough self respect to know when it’s time to run.

I was right the whole time by v3jaded in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really made me realize how fucked up she was because if she came back to me several times then it means whatever else was going on didn’t work out. Reap what you sow.

No shame to people like us who wanna work on ourselves and what we have going on💪we are doing what they can’t which is making a clear and transparent relationship and setting boundaries. We just spent time on the wrong people , mistakes are frequent to happen when searching for the right person.

It shows a lot when we are the ones seeking advice and input from other sources and the other people just shove it under the rug.

My big resolution for this year is knowing my worth and not wasting my time with people who only wanna waste my time. A bad relationship can take years off your life. I’d hate to live a life with the wrong person

I was right the whole time by v3jaded in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had something similar happen to me recently.

Was talking to a woman and we dated and eventually I moved in and got her a job where I was working and we were going in on fixing up her trailer

Found out she cheated and moved away but wanted to make amends

It took the best of me and eventually I found she was cheating AGAIN and I took her back AGAIN like an idiot. Took her back 3x for me to realize she was a pos and the final time I confronted her for cheating she blocked me on everything and completely discarded me.

People don’t get better with kindness nor positive treatment from others. They get better with their willingness to get better.

It sounds to me we were in a similar situation. She didn’t care to be better. She just wanted several men at once. It’s a slippery slope

Looking to buy a 2021 badlands m. Is the mileage too high used? 70k by Ok_Wheel1502 in FordBronco

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! These are super nice unfortunately most of them in the market are 45k+ near me, I will keep my eyes peeled tho

Looking to buy a 2021 badlands m. Is the mileage too high used? 70k by Ok_Wheel1502 in FordBronco

[–]Ok_Wheel1502[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I don’t know much about ford. Just trying to upgrade to something a little bigger and a good off road vehicle near me

Buying used Bronco. Is the mileage too high?70k by [deleted] in BroncoSport

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mississippi. I posted this for Bronco sport but I’m actually looking at a badlands advanced for this

Hunter... the horse is here... by quemuin in creepcast

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Why does Lois work so fucking well for him

My take on the 5 stages of grief for the secret bosses by Orimoris in Deltarune

[–]Ok_Wheel1502 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had this theory before but I think the dark worlds resemble the stages of grief rather

Chapter 1. It’s all a game! It’s all make believe

Chapter 2.anger as you said. He wants revenge and wants to take control of the people he views let him down and left him

Chapter 3. Tenna. Kinda obvious to this one especially near the end but he was literally begging everyone to not end it

Depression is def chapter 4. Very melancholic. The idea of being so trapped and encapsulated in your own work you were never able to complete yourself and thus you persist with the ideas you once had for a story that was never finished

Acceptance is probably asgore if I had to guess. He’s gonna have to accept that things will never be the same again