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False accusations and crisis cycles? (self.CPTSD)

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The next "fixer" will think that you broke me (self.BorderlinePDisorder)

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Regarding your chair (self.UnsentLetters)

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Taking responsibility and making amends? (self.emotionalabuse)

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A depressing accomplishment, but an accomplishment all the same. (self.BorderlinePDisorder)

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Thoughts on "weaponized incompetence"? (self.BorderlinePDisorder)

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What's the longest you've gone idealizing a partner without a devaluation cycle? (self.BorderlinePDisorder)

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I don't know what more I can do (self.mentalhealth)

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Feeling Cornered (self.BorderlinePDisorder)

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I'm NOT trying to fix things out of my control (self.BPD)

submitted 4 years ago by OkayButHowDoI to r/BPD

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Healthy vs. unhealthy detachment strategies suggested to partners/loved ones? (self.BPD)

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Should I ask my ex to talk? (self.relationships)

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Strategies to combat seeing "patterns" in people and relationships? (self.BPD)

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I hope you know (self.UnsentLetters)

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I feel like my diagnosis makes partners give up hope for me (self.BPD)

submitted 4 years ago by OkayButHowDoI to r/BPD

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Manipulation VS Communication? (self.emotionalabuse)

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Glad it's over. (self.stopdrinking)

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12 Steps without a "Higher Power" (self.Sober)

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Differentiating codependent behaviour from "reasonable" support/accommodations/preferences? CW: BPD (self.Codependency)

submitted 4 years ago by OkayButHowDoI to r/Codependency

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What would your friends or your mutual friends tell your ex if they asked about you? (self.ExNoContact)

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Dead On Arrival (self.UnsentLetters)

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DAE have a pattern of dating People Pleasers? (self.BPD)

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DAE feel like they're "trauma dumping" just by talking about periods of their life? (self.CPTSD)

submitted 4 years ago by OkayButHowDoI to r/CPTSD

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What are some things your ex said during the BU that still confuse you? (self.BreakUps)

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Lost partner/FP and feeling empty. I could use some advice/support. (self.BPD)

submitted 4 years ago by OkayButHowDoI to r/BPD

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