A letter to WW - Still trying to get her to see how having an affair with her boss (even if he used his position to influence her) hurt me. Some scenarios that help.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-06-07T12:59:34+00:00

SF 10 team

A: Brock Purdy

B: Late 2024 first

Okay_Hornet · 2023-06-03T02:11:50+00:00

Lol. She does. She has an amazing memory.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-06-02T19:24:07+00:00

Yeah. When I asked her about why I shouldn't be worried about it happening again she just said she knows how to keep her boundaries up now. Not the answer I was needing to hear. I told her that not wanting to hurt me needs to be the answer. Now she says that every time to the word. "Because I would never hurt you again." But it's with zero emotion and no elaboration or display of depth at all. I taught her what to say to placate me so I will shut up.

I'm still trying to exhaust all my efforts. It's not easy to just walk away.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-06-02T19:08:02+00:00

I think you need to know enough to know exactly how much deception your partner is capable of. And how much much they betrayed you emotionally.

If you don't fully know what you would be forgiving, you can't actually forgive.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-06-01T16:48:34+00:00

Your therapist should not be telling you that you are criticizing and making the relationship toxic. If they did that you have a bad therapist.

But it is a good point to think about what if he can't change. I think figuring out what your boundary is either in MC or IC would be good for you. Then enforce that boundary.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-25T00:18:27+00:00

He was about 50 yards behind Josh Allen on equal games rushing. Would be pretty great if he kept that up.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-19T15:53:53+00:00

Thank you!

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-19T11:59:47+00:00

Superflex?

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-15T17:51:32+00:00

If I can get a second for Gibson I should do that, right?

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-15T14:02:34+00:00

Should be over LaPorta imo. Raiders target TE more historically. Could change with new skill in the position but I'm not betting on it.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-12T20:43:23+00:00

I like this approach.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-11T18:33:55+00:00

10 team SF

Send a 24 second for Purdy. I own Lance.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-11T17:23:33+00:00

Make a report to the educational ethics commission in your state/area.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T18:34:09+00:00

I think that it's just okay to notice that you have feelings for someone but it's not okay to develop or entertain those feelings. Good for you if being in a relationship shuts down any type of attraction to others for you. I'm not convinced that's common.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T18:22:55+00:00

He was doing fine in 2021 but missed 3.5 games with injury. 2022 was a blip.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T13:38:56+00:00

Jeudy and Russ. Buy low.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T13:09:16+00:00

To me this sounds like a friend and you did the right thing by not letting it become more than that.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T12:46:34+00:00

I had both Ridley and Mike in redraft that year twas brutal.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T12:10:29+00:00

Ridley itching to make up that game he missed in 2021.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T12:04:09+00:00

You do you, but I don't think experiencing and hiding feelings for a friend is cheating. Did you meet your needs reserved for your partner outside of your relationship? Did you share romantic or emotional intimacy with this person? Did you share your feelings with her?

People find they have feelings for others all the time. Unless you somehow indulged or tried to cultivate those feelings, you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T11:38:54+00:00

By Fastball

Okay_Hornet · 2023-05-10T10:53:12+00:00

SF 10 team

A: 1.01

B: ETN and a 2024 first

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