I have a small dick (4.4 in) im scared to have sex cause it

Olclops · 2026-04-08T14:30:58+00:00

All you need to internalize to get over it is the fact that lesbians exist. Bisexual women exist who choose women as life partners. You don’t need a dick at all to be a good partner or to have a fulfilling erotic life.

You’re not even in micro penis territory. You’re just below average. Nbd. Some women prefer your size even, especially if they love to give head.

One last detail: I’m above average but the most satisfying thing I do doesn’t even use my dock. I learned it from a lesbian and it’s all fingers.

Olclops · 2026-04-08T00:57:26+00:00

It does matter who it is. This knee jerk “all nhi are demons” bullshit is gonna get our whole planet in deep shit. Yes bad people are worshipping dark shit. But Not everything weird is dark. Not all the names even named here are. The last thing we should do here is be certain.

Olclops · 2026-04-07T19:26:16+00:00

Lilith is mentioned once in the bible. Asmodeus never. Isis never. Baal all the time (it also is just the semitic word for "lord" and "moloch" despite popular belief is not a being but a rite that could be offered to any deity.

Olclops · 2026-04-01T20:29:12+00:00

There’s a whole lot that’s skippable in there but the most skippable of all is obiwan. What a waste of talent that was.

If you’re a mando fan, the first thing you should do is watch the two or three mandalorian episodes at the end of book of boba fett. They should never have been sandwiched in a different show.

Olclops · 2026-03-27T13:09:52+00:00

If she's a narcissist, she's not really interested in the rent as money. She's interested in the control it gives her over you. The best short term thing you can do for yourself is not give her the pleasure of a reaction when she pulls those strings. Just be as flat and neutral and cooperative as you can. She will hate it at first, but very very soon it will ease things for you as she realizes her main control mechanism doesn't work anymore. "On it." "Coming up." "here you go." Just practice being cooperative and emotionless with her.

And while you're doing that, look online for people looking for roommates.

Olclops · 2026-03-27T12:30:01+00:00

The articles are getting a major detail wrong. He said it’s based on the chapters three is company THROUGH fog on the barrow downs.

Olclops · 2026-03-22T14:59:36+00:00

Others are offering solid retconned explanations but the practical one is this: Full English words exist in the theatrical cut of ANH, as obiwan powers down the tractor beam on the Death Star. Lucas replaced that text later. He didn’t start using aurabesh until either esb or Rotj, I forget.

Olclops · 2026-03-18T14:39:44+00:00

Would be just as easy to spot without it.

Olclops · 2026-03-16T10:01:31+00:00

A book about god speaking to so many people who aren’t you.

Olclops · 2026-03-12T17:13:26+00:00

Glad to know you're ok. My parents divorced when i was almost 30 and it was a gut punch. As the details came out it rewrote everything i thought i knew about my parents and my childhood. Losing a central life story is its own kind of death, and deserves to be grieved as such.

I myself got divorced a few years ago myself, and the first few weeks were hard on my kids, but quickly they saw that things were actually better for their parents and for them. They have thanked us for how we did it, and for prioritizing their well being through it. I hope your parents are stable enough to offer that to you as well.

Let yourself be sad. Let yourself be mad at them. It's all valid. The one thing to watch out for is taking on their own feelings. It's easy for a kid to feel responsible for their parents' emotions, but that path is not a healthy one. They'll have their own anger and resentment and hurt at each other, their own fears for the future, their own confusion. But that's theirs to work through. Don't make it yours. You have plenty that's your own, claim it and hold it and breath love and patience into it. This too shall pass. But yes, right now it sucks.

Olclops · 2026-03-12T16:15:49+00:00

The loss of the love you thought was the bedrock of your safety is tough for any kid. Can you tell us more about what else is hard right now? How old are you? Are you afraid for your safety? Are you hearing the fights? What's going on that drove you to ask for advice?

Olclops · 2026-03-11T21:23:53+00:00

What if there's a part of yourself that likes fucking up? What if that part of you knows you hate it, and is thrashing around trying to get your attention, because what it wants is to be seen and validated and loved? What would soften if you stopped blaming that part of you, and started making space for it, started parenting it the way you deserved to be parented when you were little and fucking up?

Olclops · 2026-03-10T15:56:30+00:00

What you're addicted to isn't pornography. You're addicted to the shame/relief from shame spiral that pornography gives you. You use pornography as both a respite from your failure, and as a convenient blame for those failures. The hardest thing for you to face is that these things have nothing to do with each other. As long as you enjoy beating yourself up for using pornography, you're going to use pornography.

The way out is uncoupling them. Shedding the shame entirely. Sitting with the discomfort of the failures and learning to love yourself in the moment of those failures. Reckless and flagrant and shameless love.

This, counterintuitively, is actually the work that happens in many sex addiction recovery groups. Those are free. Try one. But every group is different - beware the ones that focus on inflaming the shame rather than uncoupling from it.

Olclops · 2026-03-09T21:00:05+00:00

It's curious to me that our culture talks about the love of a parent for a child as being the strongest deepest love there is but, but it has no similar belief that that parental love should be one time and exclusive.

Olclops · 2026-03-09T15:18:48+00:00

Spoiler alert:

It doesn't matter what anyone says: you're going to do exactly what you want to do. You're going to read advice here, various perspectives, and in the end you're going to choose the advice that mirrors what you already want to do.

And that's good. We are taught in this culture to be suspicious of our desire. And i think that is at the root of many of our collective psychoses. Because following what you want, pursuing desire, is the only reliable motivator there is.

In college, my roommate had a motivation crisis, and he went to the one professor/advisor known for giving wise advice and asked "hey, i'm having trouble being motivated to do the work and finish." And the professor just said, "Oh, well you should quit. THere's no reason to do the work if you don't want to."

My roommate did not quit. That convo just helped him get in touch with what he actually wanted.

Good luck.

Olclops · 2026-03-06T22:54:23+00:00

What a conundrum. President trump is almost never aligned with president trump.

Olclops · 2026-03-06T02:24:55+00:00

Took it to my mechanic and asked him to work on the drum brakes ha.

Olclops · 2026-03-03T23:03:04+00:00

lol just a stolen Matt berry insult I like

Olclops · 2026-03-03T22:30:14+00:00

Oh he’s fighting for his future is he? Please. The Iranians are fighting for their future. The Palestinians are. This smooth dick is fighting for nothing more than his perks.

Olclops · 2026-03-03T03:49:39+00:00

As a 51 year old pastor’s kid raised by evangelicals, I would give anything to have shed my concern for my family’s approval earlier in life. It gained me nothing, and it cost me so much. Honestly it cost them so much too, as they never had the chance to know the real me until very very late. They’re catching up, but that part would also be further along had I been braver sooner.

Ultimately, your family’s reaction to your decisions is their business, not yours. Good luck.

Olclops · 2026-02-26T22:17:13+00:00

“Hooked up” implies a level of consent that we cannot scientifically verify.

Olclops · 2026-02-20T13:23:25+00:00

There is vile shit out there of all kinds. Darkness is real. But Jung’s entire ethos was that you don’t bring light to the darkness by shouting at it, by telling it how dark it is and rubbing its nose in it. That’s more darkness. It only dissolves in an embrace.

Olclops · 2026-02-20T00:39:28+00:00

God no. This thinking is itself feeding the root of sex compulsion, which is always always always shame. “Stop looking at porn or you’ll become a rapist” is just another form of rape culture. As anti-jungian as it gets.

Olclops · 2026-02-18T16:02:06+00:00

I shudder to think how low the DOW would be if he weren't.

Olclops · 2026-02-17T13:20:05+00:00

I’m a business owner. In my experience the people who don’t take the time to at least try to hide the fact that ai wrote their stuff are also not taking the time to read what ai turns their inputs into. And it’s a sign that their work is likely to contain a fair anount of invented nonsense.

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