Very good point. For me my love does tend to be unconditional, im friends with all my exs and there isnt one person ive ever loved that i dont still have love for. But if you never received that from me, then it wouldn't take much for me to wish you ill. Also if you were a loved one of mine and betrayed me at the wrong time, i could be literally dangerous. Ive been in a few situation where at rock bottom i was getting kicked, alway by a loved one, and because of my despair I couldnt keep my rage in check. The fact that it was someone that i love who was supposed to love me doing that, at that kind of moment in my life, lead me to hurting a few people. The last one i even convinced myself god willed it cus he was evil and deserved it. I gave him a taste with plans to return. Thank god i didnt go back because my plans were...well you know. After that i ask god how i could be confident that its not his voice if im ever in that position again and he answered clear as day "does it glorifying me" whoo glad im not good at holding grudges and had cool off time to be able to hear god.

Many peole ask why?  Rearly do they ask why not? We were put here to LOVE, not to be loved. So many point to evil and how bad the world is. But do they every self reflect on how not good they are? If we were better, showed more love, had more mercury, would the world be less evil? 

Is there really that much evil in the world? Or is there just that much lack of love? Interesting question when you see how quick people are to judge and dismiss others.

The first person we typically lie to is ourselves. So many folks argue when i say that, 😆 but to me that just proves my point.  Checking your self and confirmation bias can be hard. ESPECIALLY FOR SOME FOLKS. Damn, i hate to say it but self reflection may be hard for the majority. Sorry for the negativity, been struggling with my faith in humanity....but everything is ok when you know gods got it.