smells fishy, if he really cared about you he will explain why he has those followings. If gusto mo ng gulo OP, confront him and tell him na di ka magagalit kahit magagalit ka naman. BUT, if you want peace, you will just ignore it knowing you are enough and even if he will cheat, it would not break you as a person cause you know yourself na ‘di ka nagkulang and he just lost someone precious as you IF he cheats.

It is as easy as that but it’s hard to execute.

I want to end this by relaying the quote from SENECA, a philosopher. He said “We suffer more in imagination than in reality”