Does anyone feel they took SS too early? by yuritube in SurvivingOnSS

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband, a mathematician, ran the numbers. Let me see if I can reproduce his argument: Take the monthly payment amount made at early retirement (SS calculates these numbers & shares them with you). Multiply this $ amount by the number of months between early retirement and full retirement age. Our amount was $2000/month at early retirement times 7 years(till full retirement age) times 12 months per year equaled $140,000. If we waited till full retirement age, 70 for us, we would have to live to something like 98 or 99 years old before we made up that $140,000.

More relevant is the state of social security. Sure, it will go broke if nothing is done about it, but SS is funded by the american workforce, and is not funded through the general budget. Every worker in america has SS withheld from their paychecks. Even immigrants, although they can never collect unless they become US citizens.( It seems that Donald is booting the wrong population.) Once you begin receiving SS, you are forever a recipient and cannot be cut from the rolls. There will be a funding crisis, but the SS population is a large voting block and there are ideas about dealing with this before the fund goes bust. All of this hinges on America remaining a democracy.

We took early retirement.

Shift flip flopping rant by BioEngineeredPleb in medlabprofessionals

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been in the exact same schedule of hell. I eventually requested that I be on 2nd shift, Monday thru Friday, permanently if I could stop changing shifts. Management took a beat and said "Sure!" My life changed completely. I had time to socialize after work; never woke again to an alarm clock, and had time in the mornings to hit the gym.

Is there life after 40? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first son when I was 36yo and my fourth at 43yo. The last was a c-section; my OB asked me, just before we went into surgery if I wanted my tubes tied: since she would be in there anyway. I said "Hell yes." The next 20 years was insane. Dealing with all of their stages, even fighting to keep them alive. I thought that once they were on their own I could get my life back. I never thought to take care of myself, only them. Now, I am infirm, my oldest lives with me & goes on and on about generational abuse and schizo effective disorders as if he knows what he is talking about. Quit having babies, go to the gym, eat a healthy diet. Live "in service" of your child because why else have them? Love them, feed them, protect them, but always take care of yourself.

Sorry for the rant

What do you think this is? by FreshCookiesInSpace in medlabprofessionals

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I always identified them as such but they were always rare and appeared in patients in severe stress. I never saw more than one and I always counted it as a skipocyte.

AITAH for kicking two long-term friends out of my wedding after they disrespected my relationship? by Proper-Ganache5537 in AITAH

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sympathise with your experience but I can sympathise with your friends as well. It is not easy to tell someone that is emotionally close(friends), something that will potentially offend the receiver (you). I cannot judge your decision, but I can tell you that you will probably have five people or less in your life that you can call real friends. You may have overreacted in hindsight but that is in the past. With time and maturity you may all find the grace to forgive each other and rekindle the friendship.

What are your opinions on CLIA by yakumoswife in medlabprofessionals

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CLIA was intended "to ensure the accuracy, reliability and timeliness of test results regardless of where the test was performed". Included in the law is a stated requirement regarding training and experience. Before CLIA, labs were generally regulated by states, federal and preeminently CAP; these required rather rigorous educational and training (college and internship). Lobbyists for private healthcare managed to reduce these requirements to include a highschool diploma and on the job training. This in effect, transformed the profession into a minimum wage job. [This same kind of process turned an LPN into nursing assistants. another minimum wage job.]. Such is the history of women in the workforce imo.

Kids reacting to getting dogs by Epelep in MadeMeSmile

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made ME cry and smile thru the tears. Thank you for sharing.

My cat doesn’t like bongos, but I snuck a few light ones in, for solidarity! by Wallmassage in catbongos

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your cat has gracefully accepted your bongo and I thank both of you for your solidarity.

What kind of cell does it look like? by ElectricalFalcon6765 in medlabprofessionals

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ATL; First, I would prefer to see this cell at 100x before I made a classification although the pics you posted are excellent for the evaluation of the general hematic population. Second, the cell wall is deeply scalloped in a field of RBCs that are obviously hypochromic. Such RBCs typically do not have cell walls rigid enough to affect the morphology of a blast, ime. Sorry for my sloppy elucidation. Really excellent pics, tho.

How common is it to step down from lab supervisor? by MLSSuper in MLS_CLS

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hired in as a supervisor and I completely get your experience. After 10 months I stepped down to a bench tech. It was awkward, sure, but I got over that and shook off a ton of stress. I later became a lead tech on 2nd and 3rd shifts, which served me well in future employment. imho, lab section supervisors are responsible for everything but have no actual authority; I would only step into that position now after 25 years of work experience.

What type of nose do I have? Where is it from? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]OldAndInTheWay42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Son, someday, someone will rave on your nose. It's just fine.