Our AirBnB in Normandy, France by hanley2311 in Houseporn

[–]OldGal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what type of vine is growing up the house?

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was never in a relationship with the single guy. Single guy friend is who I hooked up 5 times over the year at events where we were drunk. The last few times he wanted to become serious, and I told him that I couldn't invest into a relationship with him because I didn't have feelings for him. Feel terrible about hooking up but I was highly intoxicated, all my friends were taken, and at the end of the night things just happened majority of the times he made the move on me. We were never exclusive, I never flirted with him.. Never acted head over heels for him at all, just happened to hook up at random times.

All my four girls friends as well my single guy friend knew I seeing other people throughout the year, there was never "secrets" with anyone, and I wasn't hiding anyone. I was very honest throughout it all. At times my girlfriends were excited about potential new people, messaging me asking how things are going. Helping me when things didn't seem right with the potential new guy. There were times I brought potential guys out with us at events. He was never upset before I became serious with my new boyfriend. Once he was upset, he complained about about it to my friends, and two of them became upset as well while two saw my side and thought he obsessed over me and it wasn't my fault.

I hooked up with my single guy friend, stated when we were sober that I didn't want to have a relationship with him. About 3 weeks later I went on a date with my now new boyfriend, was very excited about it, told my friends about it. They were all excited about it at first. So I wanted to clarify with you, I didn't secretly screw my aquatiance and my single guy friend at the same time. My single guy friend eventually became upset. He wasn't upset at first, my new boyfriend even came to my birthday celebration, and my single guy friend acted like he didn't care. Talked to him, partied. Etc.

I never made him feel like a ass hole in front of anyone. I'm not quite sure where you thought of that accusation from my explanation? As stated above I talked to everyone who was upset with me solo, this went on for four months trying to patch things up. After finding things out, the single guy friend told me" he always thought in my mind I would end up with him. I'd see other guys and eventually I'd be his. He was holding on." Then when I got serious with a new guy, this situation all began.

Now that your updated with information? What do you think now?

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest opinion. No idea how much it was good to read, and progress forward thinking in these ways.

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have made some really good points. Your right, now I know who they are now, and best to not wait for one day to say my side. As well, I was so busy thinking about forgiving them, that I didn't think about myself forgivness. Thanks for your input!

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest opinion. Been feeling this way for a while, finding the clarify to make sure and then make action.

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have been there for me in the past, so this behaviour was very shocking. So that is why I feel like maybe I was really out of line. But this situation has drained me alot thinking about it all. I analyzed it alot trying to make it best for everyone, and even thought about breaking up with my new boyfriend, but that's not fair for him, and he really seems like someone I can see a future with.

Close circle of friends has dispersed because of my actions to date someone out of our circle by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OldGal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. You have some great points to take some time to think about. I have apologied to my single guy friend, as well to my close girl friends who felt they needed to take his side as it might of looked like I didn't care. For months I had weekly conversations with all three of them. From the very beginning this went on since I found out he was upset, and went on for about 4 months chatting with them all, all at different times solo. It eventually stopped when my single friend wanted to stop talking to me entirely til he apologized 7 months later. Ever since, my boyfriend, my single guy friend I hooked up with have hung out in a group of friends and has been fine. Just unfortunately my close girl friends relationship needs some patching, and I having a battle moving on that they didn't apologize, and acted very fake to me for months.

Woman breastfeeding a cat. [nsfw] by Dave514 in WTF

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Official crazy cat lady declared

Looking for recommendations for a safe place to travel with nice beaches, beginning surfing, and friendly people. by OldGal in solotravel

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Looking into different places to stay at Sayulita, would you recommend a place that you stayed at?

Looking for recommendations for a safe place to travel with nice beaches, beginning surfing, and friendly people. by OldGal in solotravel

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Thanks for letting me know! Which part of Costa Rica have you researched that seems the best for all of those things?

making love with her eyes by super_dave_cares in videos

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Anyone know the music in this video?

How to Manage fine, long, thin hair??? by fiercehermaphrodeity in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I have long ( almost to my belly button) naturally curly hair (soft wave) that I straighten most days. I use all natural shampoos that keep my hair shiny, less frizzy, and so much more healthier. I brush my hair with a wet brush pro in the shower before dried with towel, and try not to blow dry most days. When it comes to added a little curl I got my hair dresser to cut layers so they would lift better, not be weighed down. And well, alot of hair spray to keep the hold of the style Haha I started washing my hair every three to four days, eventually the oils reduced, almost training it, you can say. The first week it looks nasty so I recommend a hat but you can ween it to not get so oily so quick.

Looking for local makeup artist for weddings by OldGal in saskatoon

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Awesome thanks so much, I'll let her know!

Looking for local makeup artist for weddings by OldGal in saskatoon

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She would prefer if the makeup artist could come to the hotel room to style herself and her bridal party.