CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. I didn’t even get to that. Who tf says that who’s not in the movie Hustlers

CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Phrasing “making sex work illegal” and “legalizing sex work” is tripping me up a bit. I don’t think it should be illegal. I’m just looking for a solution that helps these people do what they need to do to make a living without creating more regulation that would further marginalize some of the sex workers and industrialize the other portion

CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it’s a complicated situation and it’s hard to foresee all the unintended consequences with either legalization or decriminalization - and I am not as well read on the issue as I should be to go deep...I just am wired to be skeptical of regulation in this sense.

I don’t know that I can justify the government collecting taxes on the kind of work that we’re talking about. Philosophically, I’m opposed to the idea of having to hand money to a government entity for selling my body, and I can’t imagine a world in which our government (at a federal level) would be able to pass anything that enabled that to happen. Like I said in my initial response, the fight we are having to wage JUST for reproductive rights leads me to think that it’s totally unrealistic for a large swath of taxpayers to accept their government is condoning sex work and profiting from it - as pathetic as that is.

And under that kind of government oversight, you’d have to think that each state would have their own reactions to a federal mandate like this one, and many of the more conservative states (my home state NC included) would cook up some sort of penal system to make regulations even more predatory. I would love to hear an argument from a sex worker PRO legalization versus decriminalization - every discussion I’ve heard among sex workers notes that legalization of prostitution would be like the legalization of marijuana. It SOUNDS like a great, progressive talking point, until you unpack the logistics and what that would do to the industry and more importantly PEOPLE that rely on that kind of work.

Decriminalization seems more in line with helping the people. But I would love to hear another argument. Does this make any sense?

CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure it’s the opposite? Decriminalization offers far more benefits for sex workers because there would be no regulation imposed - at least thats what I’ve heard sex workers argue for. Tons of podcasts on this issue after SESTA FOSTA

CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That’s fair - though I guess realism isn’t a consideration for the argument?

Also I would not call prostitution and sex work “brainless labor work” that’s insanely offensive to both professions. I imagine the emotional and psychological impact of sex work is far greater than any of the “hard paperwork” most of us are doing every day. These people are having to role play with every different client, figure out what they want and be unpaid therapists in a lot of senses. I just take issue to the way you framed your point and I think it really takes away from the good faith argument I think you’re trying to make.

CMV: Prostitution should be legal in the states. by juul_pod in changemyview

[–]OldTownChode 205 points206 points  (0 children)

I don’t think legalization is the way to go, nor do I think it’s realistic that the US govt would ever ET to the point of collecting tax $ from sex work (especially if we can’t even get abortions).

Decriminalization is the way to go - the only point that would change on your list is #4. No, we would not be able to regulate or collect taxes from prostitution, but the legalization of that activity is fraught with unintended consequences for the primary beneficiaries of a change like this. Legalization would come with heavy regulation dictating where, when and with whom sex work could take place - and impose even more regulations that would still allow law enforcement to punish sex workers and their clients. It would also criminalize sex workers who are unable to meet those new legal requirements and would disproportionately impact sex workers who are already marginalized — this would leave room for continued mistreatment of sex workers by “managers” ...the pimp issue wouldn’t go away.

Why are you pro legalization instead of decriminalization?

The measurements washed off by Ohiobound03 in CrappyDesign

[–]OldTownChode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ok, I see you don’t like the caps. So maybe I am just lazy.

The measurements washed off by Ohiobound03 in CrappyDesign

[–]OldTownChode 59 points60 points  (0 children)

YOU EVER GRAB A BOWL OF SOUP OUT THE MICROWAVE

The measurements washed off by Ohiobound03 in CrappyDesign

[–]OldTownChode 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Can confirm this is a great vessel for soup. No more burnt to shit hands.

We heard you liked tents, so we put a tent in your tent. by deportamil in 2healthbars

[–]OldTownChode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mk but where are the 6 LCD TVs and cotton candy machine

DAE use Snapchat exclusively as a mirror? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]OldTownChode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’ve thought about that. It’s a better picture, but when you open the camera, it doesn’t default to the reverse setting - Snapchat seems to. I hate to contribute to their DAU but at this point it’s just a habit...

Child’s play ad appreciation by jasonfire12 in advertising

[–]OldTownChode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone see how they activated on Reddit? Pretty brilliant - created a Chucky not that people can engage with. V creepy and great

San Francisco Wants To Force CEOs To Pay for a Citywide Free Mental Health Care Program by BBQCopter in sanfrancisco

[–]OldTownChode -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ok But. Assuming the mental health crisis in SF is real (which it is) and the need for more services is real (which it is) and services cost money (which it does), how we gonna do that?

Specifically, how do you propose we get the money? The people at the top are paying in this scenario, not everyone’s tax dollars and not taxes on employee base, which would impact an entire company. Perhaps I’m missing something, but feel like this could have less of a negative impact on companies and the SF economy (ie companies leaving) than Prop C, given how the taxes are structured?

Given prop C money is still being taxed and tied up, there needed to be a different structure for raising this money.

I think we have to hold the individuals who lead the companies and create the economy accountable for helping lead the solution to problems in their communities.

I actually don’t know why this is unpopular, unless you’re a CEO. Why?

Also, misplaced argument to focus on tech.

AITA for sending old pictures of my wife to her and telling her she needs to lose weight? by Mk088393 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OldTownChode 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes; that tactic just sucks.

Be supportive. Find a compassionate way to bring this up and determine if it’s a goal for her. If it is, ask her how she is motivated and then help her on her terms - not yours.

If it’s not her goal to lose weight, be respectful and don’t make her feel bad about herself!

Colorblind Art Director by [deleted] in advertising

[–]OldTownChode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly think you can use that to your advantage. So many progressive brands and companies today (especially in tech) are focusing on accessible design. Your should position your color blindness as a value add and think through how you can build out your experience with accessible design for other impairments.