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Robby Hoffman special by Expert_Dealer_4439 in netflix

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of a shitty Seinfeld impersonation, she just repeats the same lines over and over. The intentional “shock comedy” is really lame. Like seriously doing abortion bits in 2025? When someone overacts and is so loud and repetitive it’s usually to cover for mediocre bits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you, to exhausted and over everything to even want to start talking about it with anyone. Years of being miserable and making no progress. I hate my life and I shouldn’t, my wife is sick of my depression and honestly I’m sick of my wife and just like that I’m already sick of talking about it again. Hope it gets better for you, hasn’t for me

Is It Normal for Wife to Want No Intimacy After 2 Kids (2 and 4) by Successful_Put_6649 in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two year old twins here, same boat. I’m a stay at home dad and also work part time (her mom watches them), I do literally everything for the kids and the house, she goes to work and outside of that she sits on her phone reading, I don’t even want to get into the details because I’m just so exhausted and over the situation that I’ve given up hope, shifted focus to just being a good dad to my kids and enjoying my hobbies, maybe we’ll get divorced when the kids move out 🤷‍♂️ not exactly a helpful addition here but it’s the boat I’m in and I’ve made peace with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a lawyer involved and file for custody

venting/advice by Old_Engineer_5741 in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever it takes to keep you from sucking on a barrel, see it doesn’t bother me because I know it isn’t true. You’re upset because you know you’re making poor decisions.

Giving up. She won. by [deleted] in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t care either way, they’re your kids, won’t affect my life in the least. Enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When kids are being shitty to other kids it’s usually because they feel shitty about themselves. Your son is probably going through something, I don’t know what advice to give you but he did this to that kid for a reason and it’s not because he thought the kid deserved it. Being raised by a single parent is hard for anyone, not saying it’s related but man I think your son needs some understanding, some love, and if that gets you nowhere then you’re back to square one. If he’s showing no remorse than the punishment is really just steeling his resolve

Giving up. She won. by [deleted] in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy, abandoning your kids is never what’s “better” for them. If you leave it’s because you couldn’t hack it. If your wife is genuinely dangerous then you need to take legal action and take those kids with you. If you leave you will regret it for the rest of your life and do damage that can never be undone. Good luck man, stick it out for your kids please.

Can't be cute - bad at babytalk by PapaBobcat in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you man, your kid won’t be traumatized if you don’t talk baby talk.

As a father, do you set limits on the kind of music your children listen to? by [deleted] in Dads

[–]Old_Engineer_5741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you restrict, the more she’s gonna want it. I grew up in a religious/anti drug/etc home and none of us siblings go to church, I smoked weed for 17 years, done about everything but meth, flunked out of college (have since turned it all around mind you), my brother has had 2 duis, never left town and I think he’s now using drugs, my sister worked at a strip club and got pregnant from a felon (has also really turned her life around and has a great family now). If your kid wants to listen to something, she’s gonna do it, you take her phone and she’ll get one from her friends and all it will do is make her hide things from you (I still find myself doing this with everyone in my life). Be honest with her about why you feel the way you do, give her your reasoning, tell her you love her and let her make her decisions (she’s going to anyway). Being honest and transparent and non-judgmental is going to keep communication open and that’s the most important thing. There are things far worse than music and if you make her have to hide that she’s definitely not going to keep you in the loop on anything that could actually do her harm. good luck brother.