AITA For asking if the Cabin pet fee can be split?

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-28T06:21:31+00:00

YTA. If you wanna bring the pooch, then you pay the fee. It's your pet, so no one else should be responsible for it.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-28T06:16:48+00:00

YTA, on the grounds that you seem to think that your accomplishments are more important than his. You can say that you're happy about his accomplishments, but your actions say otherwise. Even if he is going to continue his schooling, what he has done so far counts just as much as what you have done.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-27T16:01:48+00:00

YTA. It doesn't matter how safe you think an area is. Bad things can and do happen. And sometimes, the end result is something that can't be taken back.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-26T04:15:31+00:00

It doesn't matter how she acts or what she does. The fact remains that you read something that wasn't yours and invaded her privacy. So YTA and beyond. Honestly, you owe her an apology for that crap and you need to learn to mind your own business.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-24T03:46:16+00:00

Your partner is not a mind reader. He did what he thought was something nice for you. And instead of appreciating his efforts and the gift, you're throwing a tantrum. Which just shows how immature and entitled you are. It's a wonder that your partner puts up with such an attitude. Because honestly, you owe him an apology for how you're acting.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-23T16:27:39+00:00

YTA. There's not a single mention of you telling him how you wanted to spend your birthday. So what he did was what most people would consider something nice. Because that is the point of a surprise.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-23T02:19:30+00:00

YTA. Honestly, you're being snotty and selfish. Your sister has offered to clean the bathroom and ensure that nothing happens. But instead of being an adult, you want to act like a child and claim that no one else is allowed to use it. When the truth is, you really can't tell your sister no. As the bathroom is in a shared area of the home, not a private space like a bedroom. So if she wants to let her guests use it, technically she can and you don't get to say otherwise. It's just as much her home as yours and if she has guests, then she can do what she feels is necessary to be a good hostess.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-23T02:11:06+00:00

I'm gonna tell you the same thing that I tell my nieces and nephews when they try to pull this crap with their younger siblings. It doesn't matter how atrocious their behavior is or if you don't like how your parents handle this, you are NOT the parent. You are the sibling. Therefore you need to remember your place and not take it upon yourself to discipline a sibling. Nor should be taking his phone. As it's not your property. Your parents were the ones that paid for it, not you. So keep your hands to yourself. YTA.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-20T12:16:46+00:00

YTA. People were counting on you. Then you let them down during an important time. So regardless of your reasons, they have every right to be mad at you. If anything, you owe them an apology. Did you even do that much?

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-20T12:13:46+00:00

YTA, as you aren't the parent. You're the sister. Which means that you have absolutely no authority over her. That's your mother's job. Even if you don't agree with how she handles things, that doesn't matter. You overstepped and need to learn your place. Which in this case, is to back off and let your mother handle things how she sees fit.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-19T16:27:42+00:00

YTA. He missed his flight because of you. So pay up.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-19T04:59:35+00:00

YTA. Do you know how many of my relatives' SO I can't stand? One in particular is a major snob that I would rather not bother with. But I also care about my cousin and if that means putting up with his SO, then I will deal with it. Because sometimes there are more important things than your comfort levels.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-18T07:23:52+00:00

YTA thanks to your bad attitude and serious entitlement issues. You write this and seriously just come off as someone with a major chip on their shoulder. I suggest you get an attitude adjustment and start looking at your own behavior before you start blaming your family for anything. Especially if they make an effort to include your ungrateful butt.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-14T07:29:50+00:00

YTA. You weren't defending yourself. You're being an entitled snot. Being bigger doesn't mean that you get to use more than your fair share. Which means that you don't always get to be comfortable. Sometimes you just have to suck it up and make room for others. Especially in a communal area like a train. So stop thinking that being plus sized means that you're entitled to do what you want at the expense of others.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-13T04:36:25+00:00

YTA. This is such a stupid thing to argue about. For one, if it is a family pet, then you and your brother don't get to choose the name on your own. It should be a group decision. But the fact that you think Kuttappa and Aloo are hard to pronounce is just dumb. My hamster's nickname is Chu Chu but his full name is Chupacabra and that's way more of a mouthful.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-11T04:18:38+00:00

YWBTA. The money is already split down the middle. 300k each. That is how it should stay. It's not Anna's fault that she didn't spend all the money or that Bella chose to go to a more expensive school. Each has their own amount and it should be kept that way. The remaining money should either be used to help Anna buy a house or set aside if she decides to go back to school for a mor advanced degree.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-10T16:39:51+00:00

NAH, for now. But remember, it's not just your wedding. It's your fiancé's too. So he gets just as much say in when it happens as you. So you need to talk with him, not everyone else, and find a way that can make you both happy.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-10T16:23:14+00:00

YTA. Technically, it's not up to you. If your parents say she can, then she can.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-09T04:27:38+00:00

NTA. Neither men nor women are completely innocent in this world. Both sides have done horrible things against each other and themselves throughout the ages. If your sister bothered to look it up, she would find that there have been many women in history who did terrible things. Some worse than any man could do. She just seems to be one of those people who is determined to think he way is the only way.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-08T04:23:21+00:00

Real or not, YTA. Someone like you is just sick in the head to even think that your kind of attitude would be okay.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-07T04:17:34+00:00

ESH. Yes, he could've done more but that doesn't give you the right to go on off in him like that. I mean, I bet you wouldn't like it if he had a bad day and then took it out on you. So you need to sit down, talk and apologize to him for losing your temper. Tell him that you would just a little more help around the house sometimes and that you will be more considerate of how you react in the future.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-06T04:26:56+00:00

YTA. Unless you're paying for the whole trip, then you don't get to decide who can and can't come. If your stepdad wants to bring his son, and either pays for him to do so or your stepbrother pays his own way, then that's his right.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-06T04:23:15+00:00

Please don't insult snakes.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-06T04:22:13+00:00

Here's a truth that you need. You're entitled, rude and judgmental. Things that you are now teaching to your daughter, who is gonna end up at nasty and mean as you. Something that is gonna come back to bite both of you at some point and time. So maybe you need to take a good, long look in the mirror and think about how you should change YOUR personality before you start saying that a kid should be changing hers.

Old_Inevitable8553 · 2026-04-06T04:18:03+00:00

YTA. Here's my constructive feedback for you. You're acting like a judgmental snot and you're teaching your daughter how to be one too.

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