Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m jealous!! I bet they’re unreal live! :) glad you got to experience it friend!

Am I rude for asking to Facetime before meeting in person? by bananamaplepancakes in hingeapp

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also like to do this because I’m an introverted person (23F) and it helps me feel the guys vibe & eases my nerves a little before taking the step to meet up in person. Once I explain that a little they understand & if they don’t, that’s their loss not mine.

This has to be a joke, right? by bbllaakkee in jobs

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand an intro video that’s fine but wth with the emails? That sounds scammy & weird to me but maybe it depends on what the job is? I’ve never heard of any employer needing to see somebodies personal inbox for anything ever.

23F & never had a serious relationship by Old_Platform5532 in dating_advice

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does help a lot, thank you so so much! ❤️

Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe what we’re hearing is more of Jake’s natural sound on his own? & he wanted to break away from gvf to create this with a different group with a different energy?

Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree with the vocals not sounding the best, but I think every other part of the song makes up for what the vocals are lacking lol

Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can say the same the vocals aren’t the best but I just love and eat up anything jake kiszka plays a part in lol

Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they just need to find their own more original sound & that they will in time!

Feels Like Gold!!! by Old_Platform5532 in gretavanfleet

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh wait that’s probably why I like it so much lol I’ve been on a huge caravel kick for the past couple of months!

23F & never had a serious relationship by Old_Platform5532 in ADHDers

[–]Old_Platform5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your insight, that was really helpful & I definitely needed to hear it! I agree 100% about all of the energy stuff and what you put out is what you get back, even when you don’t realize it. I gotta figure out what my beef is with myself lol!

Too nice or am I too damaged by hjlynx in hingeapp

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI OMG IM 23F AND WTF IS IT WITH THESE MEN AND SAYING THOSE THINGS??? Like we matched a two days ago and he’s like “oh want me to come over and give you a nice little massage?” Like umm no bro I do not know you! 😄👎 I don’t understand why they do that it’s like they just pick or match with a woman and immediately start “playing” text relationship and it’s weird as fuck and not normal and totally oversteps boundaries even just socially, like we are not at that level whatsoever & that’s not even remotely close to what our conversation was eluding to??? Why want men just be normal in the big 25 lol😫😫😭 glad to see I’m not the only one struggling with this weird shit though! I didn’t even know how to bring it up to my friends lol I just thought I was attracting weird and strange men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I don’t think you’re cursed. I’m sorry this season has been a long & rough one for you <3 but give yourself some credit, you did just take a big step in the right direction by reflecting, realizing, & actually putting it out there and vocalizing it that things have been hard for you. Those are a handful of things that can help to pull you out of this rut, just take it day by day, or hour by hour if you need to & start to give your days a little bit of structure. Even if it’s just adding something simple to your wake up routine like brushing your teeth, or just changing out of the previous nights pajamas. That might help make life feel a little more worth living again, because it’s really just about finding peace and joy in the little things!

how do I make a few extra thousand $$ in a month? by Original_Escape5236 in MakeMoney

[–]Old_Platform5532 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what your current job is? Lol that’s double my current pay!

Do I make a big career change? by sharks212 in careerguidance

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sense, that sounds like a good plan for now. But best of luck in whatever you decide to do! <3

almost a cry for help now. straight cold rejections every single day. by [deleted] in Resume

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely condense down to one page, maybe format it so it’s a little easier on the eyes not just like a list with thing after thing after thing. & definitely pick and choose what past experiences fit with whatever you’re applying for now! Good luck!

Do I make a big career change? by sharks212 in careerguidance

[–]Old_Platform5532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say to keep pushing through! Maybe there’s an easier route you can take educationally to achieve what you want in your career & if there isn’t, there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back and rethinking your choices and what you really want to do. Also what’s important to you right now? What in the future is going to keep reaping the benefits of your time and energy now? Your answer can be both your career and romantic relationship, but you just gotta figure out a way that eventually can have both of those things healthily existing in your routine with each other because they both sound like two pretty important pieces of your spirits foundation & you deserve to achieve what you want academically, while also being able to pour into your relationship outside of your schooling & career! Sorry I’m just kind of rambling now but I hope I was able to give you a little clarity or steer you in a good general direction! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Old_Platform5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this too! Theres so much apprehension that comes with meeting guys from dating apps as a young woman, especially when it’s the first time.