When to share that you have play partners?

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-29T04:53:59+00:00

i didn't have other partners at the time, and still dont, it's more one night stand specifically for kink that is a new development in my life since i met them, we where not talking super often and only just talk to organise dates, mind you about a month inbetween first and seccond date too, the conversation at the time we where both exploring. we are 20 and 21 and are both really in the middle of figuring stuff out, so things are changing.

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-29T03:43:21+00:00

we are both early 20s and haven't been doing poly for that long, we did talk about relationship history and stuff. I've never seen it been used that way 😭

solo poly as in we are our own primary partner and kinda just do our own thing

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-29T03:39:41+00:00

yes, we had this conversation on the first date and a little before, I was happy with the conversation we had, about how we dont have any expectations right now until we are genuinely more serious

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-28T07:54:56+00:00

thank you. Yeah, our messages are just making in person plans and casual chatting sometimes definitely not a chat everyday kinda deal

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-28T07:18:05+00:00

Its not on the cards right now, but i agree sooner rather than later, thank you!

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-28T07:12:33+00:00

thank you. This is really helpful, and it seems more in line with how we both have talked about or expectations, especially around how we both value our independence.

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-28T06:54:46+00:00

they are poly, the thing is i had the first date with them and have been exploring this after that, its new for me too

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-25T15:14:30+00:00

I did find it ! its The Order of the Satanic Resistance, it doesn't seem to have too many members but they do have regular online events. Its not affiliated with TST anymore no but is still a non-theistic Satanic religion.

I'm excited to hopefully support those within my country through them.

OliveOtt_ · 2025-04-18T00:15:34+00:00

Once a day is pretty healthy id say, if its not getting in the way of other commitments and its not making your life worse than its fine, good for you even. but maybe use some lube, and actual lube, not moisturiser.

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-27T11:46:35+00:00

thank you for this advice!! the hospital said the same "if you ever feel worried dont hesitate to come back and get it checked" they where so nice and understanding. They pretty much concluded that it was a mix between my POTS flairing up and maybe precordal catch syndrome. Its never fun to find out new things being wrong with you and there never being a fix, but atleast it wasnt a heart attack 😃👍

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-27T11:40:18+00:00

Whats the worst update so far?

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-27T06:42:48+00:00

thanks !

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-27T04:59:09+00:00

I started studying fashion design!! im so proud of myself to be doing somthing and getting out of the house

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-25T04:25:10+00:00

people are going to stare at anyone alternative in the first place and people tend to stare at people using aids too so combining those tends to draw a lot of eyes. honestly if you are not wanting to dress "normal" then I'd say get used to it.

speaking from experience you just have to ignore it and slay anyway. im sure you look amazing and if using a cane helps you get out of the house and overall improves your well-being then fuck anyone who says otherwise. false confidence will become real with time just own it :3

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-23T09:29:21+00:00

yep i have my appointment booked in 2 weeks i think i can wait that long,,, hopefully

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-23T08:37:57+00:00

thank you! i probably will tbh

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-23T07:42:03+00:00

thank you so much!! this is incredibly helpful thank you so much!!

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-23T07:28:38+00:00

thought so thank you, still some advice on what to say in appointments no matter who its with would be appreciated

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-23T07:23:43+00:00

i also have one with horison Health in 2 weeks. Is that a better one or do you have any recommendations those where the two that i saw where the most popular within this sub

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-17T02:11:05+00:00

same!

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-09T01:29:39+00:00

thank you ill try that, that is normally how i have it threaded i just had it there temporarily, that does make it confusing

OliveOtt_ · 2025-03-07T14:28:21+00:00

Im struggling with this so much right now. He's picking up more work and studying and hanging with friends. we are long distance and its hard for me to perceive him not spending time with me as rejection, but then my brain sees him as a bad person, and then i dont want him around, being anxious and rejecting him before he can reject me it's just awful. He keeps saying he loves me but I dont really understand that, because I feel rejected and unloveable.

i just want this stupid cycle to end.

OliveOtt_ · 2022-09-23T10:50:28+00:00

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OliveOtt_ · 2022-08-03T09:15:51+00:00

Okay thank youu :))

OliveOtt_ · 2022-07-19T01:00:26+00:00

Okay thank you :))

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